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my name is elizabeth. im 14 years old and on a mission to change the world. okay so, a lot of people say that. but i want to make a difference when im older. im the type of girl who doesnt let anything stop her. i'm ambitious and i like it (: if your a bitch to me, i'll be one back. thats just how i am. you get what you deserve and nothing less. i like to help people out. it makes me feel good about myself. i personally cant stand self-pity! when my friends have problems, i'm usually the one they go to. i guess i can be somewhat cocky. sorry in advance. sports have always been " my thing ". soccer is absolute life. i love to just be happy and think pleasantly. bad moods are rare for me and i find that really good. life shouldnt be a battlefield. for guys, im single. yes - i do like someone a whole lot. his name is adam and we've been best friends for a long time. he's like " the guy next door " literally hehe. i dont think that my advice is the very best,but for a fact i know that its going to help you! my parents are seperated. they have been since i was 7. my dad is my hero, and for my mom - well i dont really know her. when i was 10, i broke my vertibray. it was not a fun situation. i was an inch away from being paralyzed. well im not going to sit here and rant about my life. this isnt myspace [thankgod]. just remember if you need help, ask me a question. i'll give you the best answer i can give . taaa taaa ♥

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14/f

it all started a year ago when my mom found out i lost my virginity two weeks after it happened. everything was a mess and i became the disgrace of the family in her eyes. for a while i wasn't sure what to do i mean she was putting me down constantly by telling me what a slut and a whore i was for one incident i regreted because the only reason i did it was because i though he really cared and i was so stupid to believe it. i never spoke to him again after thet. i couldn't take it and i finally burted out "well since you're always right and obviously i'm a whore i'll prove you right!" i slept with 3 guys after that and cared about each one but only one cared back. my mom thought i was just mad and said that but now i know that was really stupid of me to do.but i shaped up after that i stopped focusing on guys and more on the family but still my mom's putting me down the other day she called me a bitch for the first time and i was scared. it's like i had an empty feeling inside you know? i don't think i'm a bad person over that one thing. i know it hurt her what i did but i didn't mean to. and for her to verbally abuse me i think is wrong it's been a year and she's still making comments. like the one she said when she took away my phone ,"oh i'm sorry your pimps aren't gonna have any business lately." honestly i don't think it's right.

i would really like your opinion and help please and thank you.

ouch :/
i honestly dont think she's being a very good mother right now. thats not really my place to say, but she was a kid once right? and maybe she didnt make your mistake but she should understand that 13-18 year olds are going to screw up and they SHOULDN have an excuse. thats MY opinion though. i think your best bet would be to find the right words (to make you sound responisble and that you really do care) and talk to her. you need to make her realize the pain and regret you feel. good luck with everything.

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ive had my side bangs for about a year and a half now, its not a middle part, its over to the right...and they arnt smooth, they always like part and it looks really stringy (like, i can keep them to the side and stuff, but they dont stay in place, the front part always falls in front of my face) how do i get them to look like put together like this

http://us.movies1.yimg.com/movies.yahoo.com/images/hv/photo/movie_pix/twentieth_century_fox/the_devil_wears_prada/ashley_tisdale/devilpre.jpg
mine look like that, its just they fall apart and you can see skin between them..(i hope you know what i meann) ive tried hair spray and gel and mousse and straighteners and it doesnt work...so...any tips????
Thanks in advance:)

ugh, i hate that!
you need to 'train' your bangs
buy some bobby pins
& pin them to the side you want
your bangs to be for like
5 days straight. they should
stay to one side.
and if they dont, get them cut again.
good luck babe.


[ elizabeth ]

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