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I am dating a guy who is AMAZING! he has a 4 yr old who i love! my problem is that when we have her EVERY WEEKEND he sleeps in her bed with her every night! and when i tell her or ask her to do something he underminds me because its not what she wants!
he says he trys to give her her way bc he only hets her on the weekends... but its making it where im about to GIVE UP and tell him to pack his stuff and hers and get out of my apt!
but i really love him... so idk how to handle all this! (link)
Honestly thats not the right thing to do. It is NOT your child for those of us who have step parents or significant others in our lives we hate it. Its like who the F*** are you? you dont own me and your not my parent. Dont be like his ex and leave him just suck it up because what your about to do is not right at all


So i'm in my first year of college and there's this group that I may go out with on saturday. There will probably be drinking and i'm really interested in trying it because I've never drank a sip of alcohol in my life. So, I'm a little socially awkward and uptight in many situations and I really admire the people in this group and would love to become good friends with them. This isn't the reason why I'm doing it but will drinking "loosen me up" a little? Will it sort of rid me of some of the inner tension I have when socializing? I'm not planning to get blackout wasted, just a little buzzed. and please, answer the question honestly and try not to lecture. i really just want the honest truth.
Thanks so much (link)
You can drink a little bit but dont go get wasted. Nobody likes a waste case specially if your a girl. Just have a few drinks try not to drink on an empty stomach so eat before you drink. Do not mix you alcohol with other alcohol because you will get alcohol poising and that is bad. So just know your limits and dont keg sit.


I have some college questions, and I would appreciate anyone who could answer them.

1.) Can you start online college applications before you take the SAT and ACT. I'm taking one in a week, and the other in a month. But can I start the applications then send in the scores when I get the results? I'm confused about the online process that most schools are doing now.

2.) When do you apply for finacial aid and scholarships? Before or after you apply to the college? Or do you wait until you are accepted to apply for finacial aid?

Thank you.

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Hey there unfortunally I live in Canada and we have a different type of SAT's and ACT's so I cannot help you with your first question I am sorry. For your second question if you require finacial aid and are looking for scholarships it varies between universities and colleges so you have to wait until you get accepted and then apply for financial aid and scholarships. This is how we normally do it in Canada not sure where you are but its the best advice I can give you for now.


Hi, I am 18f. I have a boyfriend the same age. We have been dating for three months, but I have known him for six. He is the first guy I have dated and he makes me feel like no other guy has made me feel. He is caring, honest, he listens, and he is just a nice guy. He lives almost an hour away though and even though he makes time to see me.. I have my doubts. I mean, he is good to me... but we don't have too much in common. We don't care for eachothers music (which gets annoying) and we do not have the same interests at all.. how can this work? Should we just be friends? I keep thinking I should stay with him cause he is so good to me, but then I wonder why I am with him if we don't have many common interests..?. Should I stay with him until I meet someone who I can relate to more? Or is that wrong? :/ Please answer all my questions, thanks
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Hey I am in the same situation right now im a 18/m and my girlfriend is 21/f. We met in July and then in august I asked her to be my girlfriend. She lives 2 hours away and now she keeps telling me she wants to just date me right now and get to know me more blah blah blah and honestly im like its a little late for that.....I love you. Im basically just finding her to not be the same as when I met her and its really hurting me and breaking my heart. Now for your answer I would give him and your relationship or whatever it is between you two more time and see where it leads because thats what im doing with my situation. Just needs time.


when like you wake up with a bad pain in ur neck (the part where you turn your head)and put your head back, it feels like its strained and it hurts. What is the best thing to soothe it? a heating pad? ice? should i turn my head to that side? should i try to crack my neck on that side? whats the best way for a side of a neck like this to heal? thank you (link)
Hey there I have this problem currently with my neck on the right side. Ice your neck and put a heating pad on it. Do not make sudden movements at all with it and also take advil or tylonol :)


heyy!
i need some romantic new love songs to dedicate to my man.I want the music style to be similar to we the kings and avril lavigne and stuff like that ^.^
thanks (link)
Hey there are alot of songs by alica keys that could work for you also Greg Parys Why Dont We Just F*** is a whicked song. If you like club music Tiesto and Basshunter are good for that sort of thing.


I dropped my ipod touch in water will it be better if I dont put in the charger for a while?
I dropped my ipod in water in school and soon as I dropped it I put it under the dryer. It was still on, put it kept freezing,turning on and off, and the apps kept coming on and off but the ipod was on. when I tap something, something else will come up. Its been 3 hours since I dropped it in water. I don't wanna tell my mom because this is the 3rd ipod that's been dropped in water. Its dead now because the battery was low when I dropped it and it was still working. and I don't know if it works now.Now its dead. It still works as far as I know, its not like the last 2 Ipod I had when I dropped them in water they wouldn't come back on. should I wait to charge it? Will it work better if I dry it or let it sit a few days?

Ive tried a bowl of rice and it didnt work. The first ipod that was dropped in water my nephew did it. the second time I dropped it on accident. (link)
Ya basically just lie and stuff to best buy you should be able to get a new one. They are dumb as F*** there lol.


I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.

I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?

Sorry if this is too long! (link)
Hey there I will give you the go-around of facebook. We all know its a social website that connects us to our friends, co-workers, etc... But to be honest its the #1 Drama and problem causer in the world. Once you post something on facebook within seconds or minutes your entire friends list and friends of friends etc... can see it. I have had facebook for years and have seen this numerous times and it is not cool. It gets people killed, people, hurt, breaks up relationships and friendships. In July I had over 2,000 friends on facebook because I am a local DJ and I spin at parties and clubs etc... Once I found my current girlfriend Drama started. I dont really know all the 2,000 people but I started deleting them, Same with my girlfriend on her friends list even though it was less then 200. My girlfriend has now deleted her account because her friends were getting in the way of us. The solution or what both of us did was we gave eachother our password so we could go on and do whatever to eachothers accounts and made our relationship more secure. I'm sick and tired personally of facebook and I am going to delete it within a few days because I dont want to break up with my girlfriend shes the love of my life and the girl I want to marry :$ now without rambling on more your options are breaking up with him, him giving your password, him deleting the group etc... personally I would break up with him because hes causing problems, doesnt listen to you and doesnt respect you. Hope I Helped


i'm 16/f.
i don't have a job, and i don't drive. and i wont be able to take the test till december. i need to make some extra money, but i can't find out how! does anyone have any ideas of some easy stuff that i could do? maybe something that i can do online that would be REAL money? like they send me a paycheck? thanks for everything. any ideas are appreciated. :) (link)
Just apply for a crap job near your house. I cannot suggest anything over this site because it would be illegal sorry. Or you could look on craigslist or something


If you give head to a guy at a party while your boyfriend is not there does that mean you cheated on your boyfriend? Yeah, the guy was really hot but it's not like we had sex or anything. I didn't even let him finger me! My boyfriend is really pissed and won't talk to me now but I really can't see his reasoning or point of view. I've done this a few times before but I haven't told him about it and regret telling him this time. Do you think giving a blow job is REALLY cheating? I mean, come on...it's like...kissing...sort of...I don't see a problem. (link)
**********OMG QUESTION OF THE YEAR RIGHT HERE**********

----------> YOU




----------> CHEATED


----------> ON


----------> HIM

DUMBA$$

Oh man this is jokes deffinally getting posted on facebook


17-f
haha hey guyss, this might be a stupid question but i cant think of anything. So i have a boyfriend and he nicknamed me ashley boo and he wanted me to nickname him. his name is mike and does anyone of any suggestions or anything? haha nothing corny or anything..i cant come up with anything (link)
My girlfriend calls me care bear : |


where can i get a dodgers hat like these
http://fashionablepeople.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/joe-jonas-camilla-belle-dodgers-date-02.jpg

they seem to be faded and i cant find one like it online.. anyone? (link)
Fitteds look more proper bro but just buy a flexcap and wear it alot in the sun

P.s Bro goes either for a guy or a girl. and personally a fitted hat ( hat with straight brim and is in sizes ) looks better on girls then a flex hat. ( just saying : P )



I was wondering if anyone knew where to get a screen saver of current Indycar (IRL) drivers, cars etc. for a MAC. I'm interested in Indy 500 winners as well as Marco Andretti, Scott Dixon, Tony Kanaan, Sebastien Bourdais, Will Power, Danica Patrick. This also needs to be free to download.

Secondly, can someone help me find torrents for the 2002 Molson Indy Toronto as well as past IRL and Champ Car races. The above race is important to me as I was there and just out of the hospital. I want to see it again as my memories are fading.

You can rate this a 1 if you like or a 2 but I ask you hold off on doing so to allow for answers. Someone here is a fellow fan in the know on this. (link)
hey there. you can try the IRL website and by looking it up on google also you can look for videos on youtube or other video websites but in 2002 the IRL was seperate from the kart series now they have formed so it might be trouble for you to get vids of this race and so on


I'm 16f and my brother is 14. His room is next to mine. about two weeks ago I was looking for something ona a high up shelf in my room and I noticed a small hole in the wall. I looked through it but couldn't see anything. I didn't think anything about it and sorta forgot about it. Then like 5 days ago I was in my room getting ready for bed and right when I took off my bra and panties to take a shower I heard a noise right where the hole is. I was totaly wierded out and decide to check it out. The next day I went into his room and figured the hole is in his closet I went in there and saw his set up. He has a chair in there and a box of tissues (YUCK!!!!) From the hole, he can see most of my room including my bed. I was so scared since that means he's probably seen alot. I'm not a really bad girl, but I have snuck a few guys into my room when my parents were out and clothes have come off, and I do do things when I'm alone. I've had friends overnight and they've changed in my room. Now it's pretty clear I've had an audience. I'm totally pissed at my brother for doing this. Until now we get along great and I actually elt him hang out with me and friends becuase he's pretty cool. I really want to tell my parents on him but two things stop me. First my brother might turn the tables and tell my parents that I've had boys over, which they absolutely don't allow. Second, my dad has a really bad temper and is very strict. He'd probably whip my brother's ass off (I mean it, my dad still uses the belt on his bare ass if my brother doea something really wrong. 10 or fifteen stripes is pretty typical for a beating. It leaves my brother howling and he cant sit for days) and then who knows what he's do to me over the boys. I'm too embarassed to talk to my brother because he's seen so much. So I don't know what to do. I can't even cover the hole since my room was painted in this custom purple and we don't have any left. Any paint there would clash. Any advice? (link)
i would curb stomp his nuts. smash his head against the wall and than start cutting his head off. but if your mom and your brother really think your a whore and its your fault maybe you should move out go live with a friend or something for a while etc.... or if you can somehow video tape the little f***ker watching you than show it to your mom? or take him out in a few months be all nice to him and shit than leave him somewhere and just ditch him hahaha


im 16 & im a size 32A bra. im not by no means flat, but im not exactly a B. im pretty self conscious about it .. but do the majority of guys not like small boobs? (link)
im 16/m ill be real honest with you. it really depends on how you look i guess sometimes i like a girl with nice size boobs or sometimes small boobs really turn me on. but you shouldnt be worryed about the size because its what the inside that counts :) ( im talk about how you are personally not your vagina lol)

hope i helped


ok. so i'm a skinny girl, but i do have meat on me.
but Anyways guys are always talking bout if girls vaginas are fat and stuff?
is that bad if it is?
and how can you getrid of some of the extra fat in that area?
plz help (link)
guys normally should like a girl that has a fat vagina its hot and it turns most guys on.... im a guy btw


Ok I just turned 19 this past October and my best friend turned 15 this past November. Anyway over Valentine's day weekend we ended up do everything and I mean everything even a couple times we didnt use a condom. Anyway im madly in love with her and she loves me so is this wrong or not. (link)
you betta getchaself a job real quick


My boyfriend and I have been together for a while. I just recently started giving him handjobs and he's been fingering me. The only problem is, he's never fingered a girl before, and it shows. He always seems so confused he doesn't penetrate at all and I don't know how to tell him how to do it right. Any ideas?
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1. hook him up with some porn so he can learn
2. guide his hand to the way you like it and tell him it turns u on makes you wet etc...
3. while hes doin that boss him around
hope this helps



I've had sex before.. and I guess I wasn't so nervous about this issue because I was with my boyfriend for two years.. and comfortable around him...

but anyways, I'm single now.. and I'm about to hook up with a friend this weekend. I don't want to completely shave and seem like I haven't been through puberty because I hear shaving all the way freaks some guys out... but at the same time I don't want a lot of pubic hair..

I shaved a couple days ago, and I'm seeing him Thursday night, I mean.. I wanna make sure I have no stubble . . but I don't know how to exactly groom myself to make it look nice.. should I just let it grow in, shave my bikini line?

That way it's not too hairy.. but there's no stubble.

I don't know.. any advice would be appreciated.



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im a guy and i think 99% of guys like it when a girl shaves or waxes. it just seems better if you know what i mean. same with guys we all know girls dont want guys to have any pubic hair either


15/f

So I'm trying out for my school soccer team in a couple of weeks. The problem is my endurance is awful. I can only run for a couple of minutes without being completely wiped out. Are they any exercises or special workouts that I can do besides just straight running that will help build up my endurance? all help appreciated! (link)
ride your bike than go for a jog everyother day. and cut back on junk food




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