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Fingering skills
My boyfriend and I have been together for a while. I just recently started giving him handjobs and he's been fingering me. The only problem is, he's never fingered a girl before, and it shows. He always seems so confused he doesn't penetrate at all and I don't know how to tell him how to do it right. Any ideas?
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1. hook him up with some porn so he can learn
2. guide his hand to the way you like it and tell him it turns u on makes you wet etc...
3. while hes doin that boss him around
hope this helps
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If you're doing that stuff together, you should be able to talk to him about it. Maybe tell him as he's doing it, or just guide his hand..
He's just a little uneducated, which is totally normal because everyone has to start somewhere, so give him those hints.
If you don't tell him, he will just assume he's doing a great job, when in actual fact, you don't really like it too much.
It's not embarrassing to tell him how you want it. Every girl is different and likes being pleasured in different ways. So let him know. He will pleased you told him.
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Pay attention to what feels good. if your comfortable, try fingering yourself to find out what you like, then next time you and your b/f are together, tell him what you wamt. trust me, guys love to hear what you like when it comes to stuff like this. and if you like something he is doing, let him know, (if you know what i mean) if you dont, tell him. maybe move his hand to show him where to touch you. hope i helped
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