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E-mail: metgirl517@aol.com
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Age: 13
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Member Since: November 9, 2006
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Where can I find some cute purses? I like medium to large purses and there is this cinched style that I like alot. But it doesnt matter what the style is. I just need a really cute purse at an affordable price (preferably not over -or close to- 100)! Any advice? (link)
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http://www.target.com/Lulu-Gem-Satchel-Black/dp/B000UHJTZK/qid=1197823387/ref=br_1_2/601-4078547-3875303?ie=UTF8&node=337039011&frombrowse=1&rh=&page=1
target always has great bags!
also try marshalls/tj maxx its brilliant! they have designer looking bags but sooo much more affordable
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Before thinking, I told the guy I like that he was in for a suprise when I see him tommorrow at school. I like him, he likes me, but feels he would be a bad boyfriend. We are pretty close. What are some cute or romantic or thoughtful suprises that I could do, I mean to show I was thinking about him? (link)
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tape a piece of paper on his locker that says find me at lunch to receive your surprise
buy hima cookie or something from the stand give it to him and say "just thought youd like somthing extra"
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hi, im 14 and a month i haven'tstarted my period so im worried how can i make it come and i lied to my best friend saying i just started it i feel scared she may find out please help and i masturebate with random stuff in the toilet and i think i scratched myself in there when i fingered myself does this affect periods when you atart?
thanks in advance (link)
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take a deep breath and calm down. nothing can "make" your period come its a natural process that happens on its own. I'm 14 too and i still havent gotten my period! Now for your friend. Tell her the truth and explain why you lied. If she's a good friend she'll probably forgive you. Besides you want her to be able to help you when you really need it...like if you need a pad/tampon and don't have one! Hope I helped.
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okay well i like this one guy(lets call him cody) and i also kind of like this other guy(lets call him matt) codys going to the movies with the one girl he likes( lets call her kate) but he told me he likes me too& ive also heard that from a couple of his friends& at the same time im going to the movies with matt(the guy i sort of like) and i was wonderingg if i should just act friends with matt because im not really sure if i want a relationship with him because cody knows i like him& hes "said" hes trying to "straighten" things out with kate because they went out and then they broke up but thats all he told me: so back to my question should i act just friends with matt or act flirty with him to get cody jealous: and i know that sounds like im using matt but i sort of like him too so in a way its not using him because im pretty sure he likes me too and stuff
ahhhh please help!!! (link)
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This sounds really stressful for you. First of all never flirt with another guy to make on jealous becaose then the guy you really like will just think you like the other guy and move on. Now to the business of matt and cody act the way you always do with matt. You say you sorta like him so show it! Then you have a great friend if cody does want to go out. And if cody never gets things starightened out you got matt! Hope I helped.
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i do muay thai boxing
i was wondering if anyone knew songs that i could shaddow box to or even just listen to while using the punchbag
just to give you an idea just now i listen to eye of the tiger,..i know that is a boxing song but its got a good beat to it so anything with a good beat that i can punch and kick with would be much appreciated
kaitxxx (link)
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Hey! I'm don't know what boxers listen to but I do kow some upbeat songs that get me pumped when im doing anything. Hate(I really Don't Like you by the PLain White T's, Since u Been Gone- Kelly Clarkson, Girlfirend- Avril levine,Satisfaction- Beeny Benassi. I think these are good. Hope I helped!!!=]
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my sister, brother, and mom have all gotten sick within the past month. my stepdad & i are the only onnes who havent gotten sick, and i would like to keep it that way! any tips on how to keep from getting this(strep and mono combined!). and foods that would help also! (link)
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Good thing your taking some initiative! First of all vitamin c is amazing it kills like any germs that may even think about making you sick. Also make sure to wash your hands A LOT(maybe keep some hand sanitizer with you)If you know that your mom or brother drank out of something DON'T DRINK FROM IT! Really commen sense can be your bff. Lots of food out there say that they help promote a healthy immune system eat some of those. If you fel like you don't want to be in the house take a walk excerise is ALWAYS good! Hope I helped. Lots of Kive - Daisy
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Does anyone know the name of the girl who was on the "Idk my Bff Jill?" Commercial?????
THanks so much! (link)
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Lots of people wonder that-it's a ccatchy commercial! Well the answer is victoria goldsmith.Hope I helped!
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I'm trying out for the poms team and my school. I really want to make the team but I haven't done dance in a while so I probably suck. I really really want to make the team...
does anyone have any tips,websites,workouts,or whatever that can help? (link)
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Hi!
If POMS is a dance squad(which is what it sounds like)I think I should be able to help you! First make sure your in shape. Runinng like half an hour everyday around your area is good for staying fit. Next see if you can find any of their performances n tape. Lots of people vidoe tape these sort of things. If you can't do that go to one of their performances armed with a notebook and pencil. Take notes on what sort of moves they do and try mimicking them. If you used to dance try those moves, too. If you think you have a few good moves down really well mix them together to form a short dance. Practice a lot so when you try out your confident. Their probably looking for people with extra abilities too so if your flexible try doing the scorpion(wher you bring your toe to your head-forming a circle)and backbends. Or if you think you're a good at tumbling practice your cartwheels, round offs, and handstands. If you google high school dance squad you can find information on camps, clothing, and even watch some temas routines! Good luck I hope you mae the team.
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Hey i just graduated 8th grade and im really nervous about entering my first year in high school mainly because its an all girls school. I really want to go to this school but im having second thoughts. What should I do? (link)
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Hi!
Everyone gets nervous when entering a new school. If your largest amount of stress comes from the fact that its an all girls school make a list of all the good points of an all girls school. Save it and look at it every time you have second thoughts. If you really want to go to this school,like you said, than making that list shouldnt be hard. If you're worried about making friends find out if your school offers summer programs so u can get to know people before school starts. Or maybe you're worried about staying organized and getting good grades. Take the free time you have this summer and come up with a "plan of attack." Get folders labels and anything else you think will help you stay organized. Also if you think a particular class may give you trouble read information about it before school so you have an easier time grasping it before school starts. I hope I helped. Oh and another tidbit of advice about the all girl school thing: If you have friends in another ask thme to keep their eys open for boys that you might like! =]
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ok i am having some troubles here with keeping going anorexic and then eating again off and on. the MAIN thing i am really worried about is my abs. now tell me some vvery efficient ways to get some serious abs. i sort of have a 4 pack now. can i make it more defined and mayb even a 6 pack? i have a gym with my parents and they were possibly thinking about getting me back with my personal trainer. so just get some efficient ways to get a some serious packs?!
if it helps: 14/f (link)
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First of all DON'T TRY ANOREXIA! Now if you really want nice abs(which according to you you already do!) it can be really easy. Just remember that even if you do the workout if you don't eat helthily you won't see results. Now for the work out. Choose 3 or 4 days each week to do this. First stretch/warm up. Then 20 sit ups, 20 bicycles and 20 crunches. Also try breathing in deeeply, holding it for 10 seconds than letting it out like 5 times in a row. I hope I helped. And please ask your doctor before starting any serious workout regimen or dieting!
*Daisy*
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Ok at school I've been having some problems.Last year, I had a lot of friends and they all sat at my lunch table.But this year they all ditched me to sit with some rich girl.Well, today at lunch, "popular guys" all sat at the table where all my old friends sit.I dont know why but i got ticked off and i got so angry at them when they didn't do anything.Am I just jealous of them? (link)
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You may be. That is something you have to edcide for yourself. If you found yurself thinking: "I wish I were one of them" or "They're lucky" or "I'd really like it if one of those guys hung out with me."(or something along those lines you get the ieda) than ya your probably jealous. I'll give you the benfit of the doubt and say no, your not jealous you just miss your friends. Also deep down you may know that those boys are only hanging out with your old friends because of their new friends. If your friends ditched you and don't care about your feelings(and it sounds like they could care less about how you feel)than find some new friends. Join new clubs hang out with a new grou of people. Wherever you feel most comfortable that's where you belong! I really hope I helped. feel free to email IM or ask another question!
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does whiting gum and tooth paste really work? cause i dont want to use crest strips or anything else, i just want a little whiter teeth. which gum or tooth paste is most recomnded (link)
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Crest Night Effects gel. You apply a little gel to your teeth every night for 24 days. It worked for me!
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i want to make new friends, but i dont really know how to. You see, it's just kind of weird to go sit at a lunch table that you don't usually sit at, or start talking to people at school that you don't really know. So, my question is, how do you make new friends? (link)
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Making new friends is really a lot of fun if you try. First of all kudos for having the guts to do something about making new friends. Some people stay in the corner all their lives. If you don't want to just sit down at a new table try asking someone in your class a question. So like if you see a girl who looks interesting in english class, after class say to her "Man, I do not get the plot of that book." A conversation has started. Also don't aske yes/no questions because they will bring the talking to a screeching halt. Anothre way to meet new friends is to join new clubs. If you think the kids in drama club are confident and outgoing and youy like that join drama club. Also if you join a club or sport you automatically have something to talk about. From their find some common ground. Soo everyone is gonna want you at their lunch table! Hope i helped!
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hey well my bday is soon and ive decided to have an all-girls party. (btw im 13/f) about 12 girls will come. umm im trying to decide what to do!! lol..i mean the usuall movie and makeup is getting boring now and i wanted to know are there any games we should play or anything? any advice will be great thanks! (link)
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Happy Birthday! I know just how you feel. Movies and make-up do get old. A twist on the make-up thing would be to make really crazy outfits and take pictures pretending to be models. It sounds really stupid, but it's a lot of fun. You could also play cup dares. Everyone writes a dare on a piece of paper. All the slips of paper go into a cup and you take turns pulling them out and performing the dares. Another old favorite is Twister. Hope I helped-have a happy birthday !
(IM me if you have any other questions metgirl517)
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Saturday nights are getting boring for me. I usually hang out with friends, go to movies with them, and go bowling with them. Those are pretty much the only things to do around here (I live in a small town where there's not much to do.).
Any ideas of what to do? I was thinking of having an "Apples to Apples" party at my house (if you've never played that game - definitely play it!) but I can't have too many people over.
By the way - most of my friends are guys, so the makeover thing etc. is out of the question =P
If you can answer this by this evening that would be great - otherwise, it's still good to know for weekends to come. Thanks a lot =D
-Adri (link)
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I live in a small town to so sometimes we have to get creativve, but I manage to have a good time. Some of fun places are roller or ice skating rinks. If you want to have an Apples to Apples party(I've played the game -so much FUN!) throw in some other games like Twister Cranium or CatchPhrase. Also if you want to make going to the movies more fun have a little contest. The first person who gets there gets to pick the movie.You can always try going to a coffee house to just talk and stuff. Need more ideas? IM me - metgirl517! Have Fun Tonight!
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omg im addicted to looking at peoples profiles and myspace pages! how do i stop? like i know this is stalker-ish, but sometimes when im bored i just read them and stuff (link)
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This is such a common problem. mypace can be really addicting so I don't think your weird or a stalker. If you really want to stop it's gonna take some time and self control. First set a limit like "i will only look at 5 profiles a day." Slowly decrease the number when you get to zero reward yourself for every day you dont go on. So if you don't go on for 3 days buy yourself a new shirt or something. I really hope I helped. Feel free to IM me (metgirl517) Good Luck
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Okay, so I'm 14/f and I'm in 9th grade. I'm taking all IB Prep Courses and that's keeping me up until at least midnight all the time. I'm in strings, forensics team, key club, ruriteens, violin lesson...
Key Club doesn't take much time. Ruriteens takes a little bit of time. Violin lesson I have every Wednesdayafter school for an hour. Forensics team takes dedication--we meet every week and practice all the poems we'll be doing for competitions. Strings is iffy when it comes aruond the Strings Festival time where we go on trips, compete, blah blah and it takes time to practice. IB Prep, ohhh don't get me started on it.
the problem is on top of that, i want to join the color guard team [is it "color" guard?] heh. i've heard that it takes up a lot of time and i know that it interferes with strings stuff and clubs and my hw. but i really really want to do it!! but i don't know if i can manage to fit that into my hectic life right now. should i just forget about it or do it next year, blah blah what should i do about it> (link)
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Dear Too Many Things,
I totally feel your pain. I was in your spot once with dance, play practice, flute, piano, choir,forensics,academic team, and an A average to keep up. I know it can be sad to drop things but in some cases, it's better for you. All these activities can cause lots of stress that's really bad for you.
So here is what you do write down every activity you do and how you feel about it/how it makes you feel. Then put an X next to ones that take up A LOT of time and a O net to ones that only take up some time. Look at all those with an X next to it. Do they make you feel stressed or bored. If so you can drop that. Look at the ones with O's next to it. Even if they don't take up a lot of time, if you don't love it or if it makes you feel stressed etc. DROP IT.
Befor picking up color guard ask peopel you know in it what its like, when they practice etc. I think if you out a little bit of thought into which activities matter most to you and manage your time well you should be happier and less stressed. If I didn't totally answer your question e-mail(metgirl517@aol.com) or IM me: metgirl517. Hope you figure everything out!
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13 - female.
I met this guy a few weeks ago.
We exchanged numbers and he called me and stuff.
the next time i saw him, he found out i was 13, and i found out we was 17!
then he hasn't called me.
i really like him a lot, and now it feels awkward between us when i see him...
any good conversation starters i can use that will make it more comfortable between us? (link)
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I know it can seem like this guy is fine to date , but he's not. 17 year old are a lot different from 13 year olds and if your having trouble starting conversations that could be why. The next time you see him explain the misunderstanding and tell him you just want to be friends. If you want an older guy, only strecth a year or 2...4 is too far a part. Hope i helped.
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Dear Daisy, my bff4l possibly likes the guy i like and he likes her back! i dont know what to do- help! (link)
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Never Fear Daisy is HERE!(with the perfect solution)-First of all decide if you're friend really likes him. Have a long (private) conversation. Go out to lunch together or something like that so no one can butt in. Discuss everything and be perfectly honest no lying to save the other persons feelings. If she doesn't like him...wait a while before asking him out to give him time to recover. If she does like him your going to have to (don don don)GET OVER HIM! Either pick out another(available) guy to set your sights on or work really hard on a goal, like all A's. Don't let a guy ruin your life or your friendship!
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Okay I love my friends to death, but they are more worried bout my health then I am! I have this weird disorder that if I dont eat/drink enough I'll spaz out. Anyway everyday they think that if I don't eat my whole luch (which is huge!) I'm gonna die they think I never eat when I do! I don't know how I'm gonna tell them that on Monday I felt so dizzy and light headed I literaly fell back and hit my head on my speakers, because I don't want them to get twice as over protected as they arleady are, what do I do?
*YouKnowWho* (link)
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Dear You Know Who,
First of, you have awesome friends who really care about you! Anyway I'm really sorry about your condition and hope you never spaz out again. Now about telling your friends....that's a tough one but I think I have a solution! Tell them that if they promise not to be AS overprotective(I use as because friends will always be overprotective)you'll explain what happened. Oh ya and if they promise not to bug you at all at lunch you will eat say a sandwich and like a cookie or chips, something like that. This way your friends will know your healthy(they want the best for you!)and you'll get them off your back! Hope I helped. Ask for more advice anytime.
Xox0-Dizzy Daisy-Xox0
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