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I'm not going to be adding my personal info, since my responses to some of your answers can sometimes be of my personal experiences. I want my respones some what anonymous. I'm going to college this fall for a certain form of pyschology. I love helping people as much people as i can. Im a very, logical? person. i guess you can say. I hope i answered all of your questions the clearest way possible! All of your questions are also CONFIDENTIAL with me. I will never talk about your questions with anyone. Feel free to ask me anything you want!
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what is the difference between giving heads and s blow job! i kinda know what they are but then someone used it in a weird way and i just want to make sure i have them straight! thanks a bunch!
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head and a blowjob is the same thing. It's when you use your mouth (on the guys penis) to pleasure him. It is also called "oral sex". If you have anymore questions, you can ask me anything you would like :)
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Okay, I have been sexually active since I was 15. I've been with two different guys, one was 5 inches, and the other is 8 in a half. I have realized that I have never bleed during sex. I don't think I've had my cherry popped, and Im wondering if its something I should be concerned about? (link)
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Not everyone bleeds their first time. It's obvious that your "cherry" has been popped since you have had intercourse more then once which would make it a definate, that it is no longer their. It pops very easy, for example.. some people can pop it just by going horse back riding. So no, its nothing to be concerned about.
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I am 12 and pregnant. I have not told anyone. What should I do? (link)
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You should tell your parents AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!
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friend is to friendly with my boyfriend their relationship makes me uncomfortable i always tell my boyfriend of three years that it makes me really mad that they always seem to be flirting and it needs to stop and the things my friend says pisses me off to no end like i feel like he is her second girlfriend and some things she says is like what why would you say that? like his birthday i had the idea of having balloons all over his room when he woke up she said that she was going to leave him balloons by his door and surprise him???!!! i dont know but thats wierd like she says stuff like that to me! one day i was mad at my boyfriend and i asked her to ask him if he was ok and dont talk to him about why i was mad and yet she texted him and asked to meet somewhere private just them two to talk. i was like why would you say that and my boyfriend was like oh sorry im busy not now like he said it was wierd. so talking to him about this is uncomfortable he gets mad about it so i dont know who to talk to about it or how to stop it with out us getting into a fight i think its okay that they are friends but when your doing stuff like that it makes me mad and uncomfortable like what do i say to her to let her know it makes me mad and if i do she would tell me that i have nothing to worry about because she doesnt like him like that but i dont care if she does or does not i want it to stop i dont like having the constant look on my face like why would this happen and why would you say that?! i feel like im overreacting but then again im not because if it bothers me then obviously it needs to be said to her now ive said my peace to my boyfriend and now i have to let her know. if im wrong explain how i can control this cuz i want to like bitch her out for this and yah i need to talk to her about it but i dont know how if we fight over it cuz i dont want to loose a friend.
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This friend obviously is not a very good friend because it seems as if she wants your boyfriend. It's like she wants to come in between you two. If you and your boyfriend are fighting, your friend should be taking YOU somewhere to talk not your boyfriend! That is really messed up. I think the problem is more so your friend, then your boyfriend. Yeah, their both not being very good to you, but your friend seems to be kind of backstabbing you at the moment. I would sit down and talk to your boyfriend. Ask him what's up with him and your friend. See what he says. Then ask your friend why shes always acting like shes dating YOUR man. Base your responses on their answers. Tell them exactly how you feel but do it CALMLY, don't "bitch" anyone out lol. The more calmly you explain your feelings, the better the outcome will be. You said you dont want to loose a friend, but a real "friend" would want you happy, and would NOT be all over your boyfriend. I dont feel like your over reacting, i would be the same way. Hope i helped a little. GOOD LUCK!
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16/f. me and my sister used to play "games" in the shower when we were little (I was like 10 or 11) but people told us it was what all the little girls do. I don't want to get in to detail just because it makes me sick to my stomach but we used to touch down there vvv and stuff like that. Is that considered being sexually abused? If so, is it my fault since I'm the older one out of the two of us? I barely realized it was wrong last year when I learned all about sex. I started doing drugs to try to forget about it but i feel like I'm going insane and I just need help. Anything else that you might think will be useful will be highly appreciated. (link)
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First off calm down. I know it may be very stressful to you, but you can not dwell on things that happened in the past. You both were young and didn't know what you were doing. That does not make it sexual abuse. Alot of young children (siblings) do this. It is actually very common. It is NOT sexual abuse. Turing to drugs will only make your situation worse, even if it seems like an escape-its not. You dont need an escape anyway, since its nothing to hide from. I would just try and forget it happened and live your life. You cant go back in the past so just move on with the future. If you still are stressing over this situation, talk to someone about it. A close friend, parent or even a pyschologist or social worker. (if it is needed)
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I can never let go during sex.what I mean by that is I never mmoan or speak dirty or make any noises to show I'm enjoying it.
I feel so awkward doing it and feel like I loolk and sound so stupid.
How do I just moan and show the guy I love it? (link)
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Most of the time moaning comes naturally. That is only for some people though. Everyone is different, if you want to let go, just LET GO! Just really get into what you are doing and if you love it, just tell him you love it. Just saying "I love it" is going to help you let go a little bit. It might take a bit to get you completley comfortable with the idea of "letting go" but atleast thats a step closer.
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So I know you bleed for the first time you have sex but I was wondering how much and how long? (link)
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Not everyone bleeds. Some bleeds just a little bit and others bleed like they got there period. It all depends on the person. It does not last long, some people dont even notice it.
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hey i dont know how to put this but my vagina latey has been very itchy and then when i itch it, it hurts too. i noticed that i have like cuts inside? and i dont know what that means. it really hirts and idk what to do. is it because of sexual contact? has anyone expeirenced thisss what do i do!? (link)
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My best guess would be that you could have a yeast infection, and the cuts is from itching it? I would suggest going to a doctor asap. Try putting a cool rag on the area, it may calm down the itching, atleast a bit.
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I'm 15 and I'm pregnant. I know it's not ideal. I know it's a bad situation. I'm not happy or proud of what I did. It's something I know I have to deal with though.
I told my mom two days ago that I am pregnant. She was really mad at me and told me that we'd get rid of "it" soon enough then.
I tried to tell her it's not what I want. I want to take responsibility. I know it's a hard road. I don't want to kill my baby or "get rid of it." I want this baby and I want to do my best with him or her.
My mom says I'm being stupid and on Monday she's going to call the clinic to schedule an appointment to have an abortion done.
I get where she's coming from, but it is NOT what I want to do. I want to give birth and raise my kid the best I can. I'm not perfect. Nobody is. I just want to try my best.
They always say it's 'my body and my choice' but I feel like my mom isn't giving me a choice here. It's my mistake and I want to do what I think is best. It's my baby I am carrying. I don't want to have an abortion. What do I do? How can I get help so she doesn't make me get one? (link)
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i was in this same situation as you. it's a very difficult decision. I was 15 when i decided to have an abortion.. i just did not feel ready for a baby at that young of an age. I felt like i myself, still needed to do alot of growing up before haveing a child. Babies are alot of work. Espeacially if your still enrolled with school. Most teenage mothers do not finsih highschool or go to college because they have to work and take care of a child. Its a life long thing. That child will be your responsibility for the rest of YOUR life. Although 15 is a very young age to have a child at, i do believe it is YOUR decision! Do whats best for the child. Technically the baby wont feel a thing until it's about 4months into the pregnancy i was told. Other people say, its not even considered a "living thing" until the baby is born. If you really want the baby, tell your doctor or really talk to your mom. Usually at the clinic you will see a social worker for a few hours before an abortion.. tell them you want the baby (if that is what you choose). I choose to have an abortion. It took YEARS for me to cope with it. I had to realize i did not "kill" my baby. I did what i felt was best for myself AND that child. As much as it is a hard situation to face, i do not regret it because i know i wouldn't be able to handle a baby when i was that young. Everyones different. Good luck! and STAY STRONG!! I HOPE i helped a bit.
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Hey all,
I get really horny when I have my periods. I was just wondering if this is normal because of all the hormones in my body or was it something else?
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i have this problem tooo, its normal but everyones different
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18f.
i'm very inexperienced .. the farthest i've gone with a boy was him going down my pants but he didn't finger me or anything. the problem is, i get turned on by everything and get really wet.
even if a guy is texting me and talking dirty i'll get turned on .. my question is .. if i'm messing around with a guy i will obviously be really wet since i get turned on so easily but will this show that i'm very inexperienced? (link)
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No, some people get more "excited" easier then others.
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hey so my bf wants to "finger me till i orgasm' is that possible? hahah. (link)
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Eh, it is possible. But for most girls it takes awhile to orgasm.. if hes fingering you it mite start hurting..
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okay so i'm a 16 YO girl and i masturbate haha. i like doing it, it feels great and i orgasm every time i do but i feel like i'm the only girl that does it... i mean i always read that girls do it a lot to but i feel like if i told my friends they'd be totally grossed out.
so my question is, do guys know girls masturbate? like if i was with a guy and i told him i masturbate would he be grossed out or think i'm weird or desperate or something? anywayss let me know what you think. thanks! (link)
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Ha im the same age as you, girl and i masterbate ALOT to. Honestly if you do it infront of a boyfriend it most likely will turn them on INSANELY. most guys LOVE IT. :)
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Im 15/f. (:
Im with a guy i like for a long time. He is NOT a virgin, i however, am. I just had some question's. 1st- how bad is it going to hurt? I have been fingered, does that change anything?
2nd--is there anything i can do during sex that'll pleasure him too? Any tips to make me seem better? am i going to bleed bad?
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Everyone is different. I didnt bleed alot at all my first time and it barely hurt. BUT it hurts alot more if your on top. For the first few times make sure your on bottom and have him go slow and easy. Most guys like moaning.. but for your first time you mite feel akward or weird.. so just take things as the come. You know go with the flow :) Just kiss him alot while hes on you. Fingering does help reduce the pain, if you have been fingered you have kind of an idea of what it mite feel like. But dont be scared just relax.
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Okay, odd question I know. My friend lost her virginity the other week. She orgasmed and told me it felt amazing. She said she couldn't remember much because she "passed out from pleasure". I was mad at her for losing her virginity, she's only 16. She assured me she took all of the precausions, condom and the pill so I forgave her. I was interested when she was discribing what it felt like to experience an orgasm, but I promised my parents I would save myself until marriage. So, embarassed to say, I rubbed myself with a pen, but only my clit. The result was out standing pleasure.. to the point where my back arched and I almost screamed. So, my question is, what does an orgasm feel like? I want to relate your answers to my experience. (link)
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Oh, well this is a tough question. Usualy you dont orgasm the first time you have sex, maybe your friend just "came" sometimes theres a noticeable difference between "cumming" and having an Orgasm. You wont really know the difference unless you either have sex alot (you dont orgasm every time) or masterbate alot. But either way both feels amazing! :P
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I'm wondering if there is a tell tale sign that I can look for so I can know a guy is really close to cumming. I don't really mind giving my bf head but I hate letting him squirt in my mouth. Usually he pulls out and I use my hand to finish him off but sometimes he gets carried away and I get a mouthful.
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You can usualy tell when the guy's legs tense up, if he starts to squirm a little or if he holds your head really tight. You should tell your bf that you dont like when he cums in your mouth.. he should respect that. But if he does just spit it out :)
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if you had sex and didnt use a comdom and you was on your period can you still get preg
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Yes you can. Use a condom always.
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okay so i was just wondering, but can you get pregnant if sperm or seman or what ever is on the loo seat or any were like that ? thanks (link)
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i agree with the other answers you got
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okay this is kinda wierd but whatever..
for some reason i cant seem to get wet sometimes before sex. and its not like i dont want to do it, cause believe me i do want to. & sometimes when i do get wet, ill dry up in the middle of it. im not intrested in lubes. whats wrong with me? (link)
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There is nothing wrong. Everyone is different. But usualy around your time of the month you wont get wet easily at all. If this happens all the time then try some lubes or just have your boy go down on you.. or even you can spit/lick your hand and then put it down there, alot of guys are turned on by that too!
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