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friend is to friendly with my boyfriend their relationship makes me uncomfortable i always tell my boyfriend of three years that it makes me really mad that they always seem to be flirting and it needs to stop and the things my friend says pisses me off to no end like i feel like he is her second girlfriend and some things she says is like what why would you say that? like his birthday i had the idea of having balloons all over his room when he woke up she said that she was going to leave him balloons by his door and surprise him???!!! i dont know but thats wierd like she says stuff like that to me! one day i was mad at my boyfriend and i asked her to ask him if he was ok and dont talk to him about why i was mad and yet she texted him and asked to meet somewhere private just them two to talk. i was like why would you say that and my boyfriend was like oh sorry im busy not now like he said it was wierd. so talking to him about this is uncomfortable he gets mad about it so i dont know who to talk to about it or how to stop it with out us getting into a fight i think its okay that they are friends but when your doing stuff like that it makes me mad and uncomfortable like what do i say to her to let her know it makes me mad and if i do she would tell me that i have nothing to worry about because she doesnt like him like that but i dont care if she does or does not i want it to stop i dont like having the constant look on my face like why would this happen and why would you say that?! i feel like im overreacting but then again im not because if it bothers me then obviously it needs to be said to her now ive said my peace to my boyfriend and now i have to let her know. if im wrong explain how i can control this cuz i want to like bitch her out for this and yah i need to talk to her about it but i dont know how if we fight over it cuz i dont want to loose a friend.
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This friend obviously is not a very good friend because it seems as if she wants your boyfriend. It's like she wants to come in between you two. If you and your boyfriend are fighting, your friend should be taking YOU somewhere to talk not your boyfriend! That is really messed up. I think the problem is more so your friend, then your boyfriend. Yeah, their both not being very good to you, but your friend seems to be kind of backstabbing you at the moment. I would sit down and talk to your boyfriend. Ask him what's up with him and your friend. See what he says. Then ask your friend why shes always acting like shes dating YOUR man. Base your responses on their answers. Tell them exactly how you feel but do it CALMLY, don't "bitch" anyone out lol. The more calmly you explain your feelings, the better the outcome will be. You said you dont want to loose a friend, but a real "friend" would want you happy, and would NOT be all over your boyfriend. I dont feel like your over reacting, i would be the same way. Hope i helped a little. GOOD LUCK!
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