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knowing when he is close to cumming
I'm wondering if there is a tell tale sign that I can look for so I can know a guy is really close to cumming. I don't really mind giving my bf head but I hate letting him squirt in my mouth. Usually he pulls out and I use my hand to finish him off but sometimes he gets carried away and I get a mouthful.
Thanks
15/F
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Signs to tell when a guy is on the verge of orgasm:
*Body tenses up
*And/or the guy squirms around a lot, almost always uncontrollably
*Some guys get more vocal (moaning or grunting or sometimes even swearing)
*Increased heart rate
*Change in breathing patterns
*The penis gets even harder
*The penis may throb or twitch a little
*Raised and/or tightened balls
*A sudden change in thrusting pattern, depending on how he wants to handle the situation (ie finish off or try to delay it. Note that this doesn't ALWAYS happen though, sometimes a guy is content finishing the same way that brought him to that point in the first place).
*He may become flushed
*He may get warmer
*Facial expression says it all. Each guy has one. Learn his.
*If all else fails, just ask him for a sign that is specific enough to get the message across, but that won't take either of you out of the moment.
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You can usualy tell when the guy's legs tense up, if he starts to squirm a little or if he holds your head really tight. You should tell your bf that you dont like when he cums in your mouth.. he should respect that. But if he does just spit it out :)
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All you can really do is ask him to tell you.
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theres really no way to know when its gonna happen when youre going down on him. ask for a courtesy tap. tell him when hes about to come just lighty tap the back of your head so you know to get up and then finish him off...that way you arent relying on him to pull out in the middle of a blowjob, its an easy way of getting a message through without spoiling the moment.
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