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okay i've liked this guy lets call him "david" for about 2 years now well DAVID and I met in 6th grade cuz i had just moved here and the first time i saw him i knew i would like him but the thing is i hate liking guys because im only 13 and i want to get to live life anyways all through 6th grade DAVID hated me, yes hated is a pretty meaningful word but he meant it 100% he despised me,hated me,disliked me very much however you want to put it, and in the summer i told everyone i had stopped because i could not live my life knowing someone hated me and no one believed me but they didn't make it a big deal well the summer of 6th grade DAVID and i became real good friend and we had lunch and math together in 7th grade so we were really good friends and in 7th grade we always talked and he would help me with my problems and I would help him with his and a lot of people still think i liked him then 7th grade was over and we kept our friendship tight and then 8th grade started and he is in my studyhall and lunch so this would be the 3rd year we have known eachother and every year he has been in my lunch. Everyone thinks he is mean but no one knows him like me he's a real sweet guy and is very caring about his friends and family and will stick up for anyone. Well see i never actually stopped liking him because he always gets me with his smile, but I no what ur going to say ur going to say, tell him you like him he might like you... but I know him too well he'll hate me,despise me,dislike me very much again and if I really do stop liking him which is my goal for this year he won't believe me. So plz help me and here is what he does...when he hooks me up with someone that person never breaks up with me now when i hook him up with someone i tell her she dare now break his heart and she usually doesn't and he just says like I think we should be friends, i don't know but he might be doing that to the guys and sometimes at my locker guys will come and put there arms around me and DAVID will walk by and look at the guys around me in the eyes and the guys will like walk away... is he trying to tell me something?? does he know something?? or does he just want to protect me??
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thank u sooooo much
It seems like you guys are great friends sort of like brother sister, you dont want anything happening to him, and him for you. You probably dont want to here this but ask him out. Unless you have a 50/50 chance he might say no then you might not wan't to ruin what you have, a grat friendship. Since you like him and you dont want to stay friends I think the risk is willing to take.
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I know what you mean there was one question I couldnt even read so I just said English next time.
okay this is my first year at a public school and sence the first day i have noticed there is this really pretty guy there that i have been wanting to talk to but never have come to find out hes one of my friends cousins and they came over to my friends house last weekend and me and him got to meet we all just hung out for a while the next day him and his friends came back over to my friends house again and me and him were cudaling and stuff later that nite we made out from what i have heard from about 2 people he has a girlfriend but he hasn't said anything to me about it yet so i really dont know what to do because he told me i should go to my friends house this friday so me and him can hang out i mean i really like this guy so should i just stop flirting w/ him sence people have told me they "THINK" he has a girlfriend or what please help i rate well!
Ask some more people if they think hes going out with someone. If you find out he is I wouldnt really hang out with him anymore even though you like him because hes already taken and he seems like a jerk if hes cheating on his girlfriend and you dont really even know about it.
ok theres this guy that's really cute and i'm cool with him but sometimes he just looks at me really hard and smiles and i smile back at him when he does that. Do you think he likes me.
It sounds like he likes you. Next time you have a conversation ask him out he'll probably say yes.
i cant find any eyeliner that will stay on after 3rd period!! can anyone tell me any brands or how to make what ive got stay on?
Sophora has a bunch of eye liner ask an employee for good brand.
well theres this boy i liked scence last year and i told him straight up and know hes been flirting and punching me in my arm like i use to did when i liked him hes probbly returning the favor but i catch him looking juss staring at me and he always says somthing to me like last year he was all flirting with me and he was like he gonna miss me and he wanted a hug and a pic of me but i was mad at him b/c he waisted my last picture on the floor and i wanted a pic of me and him only :) so i juss gave him a hug before we left for summer then i was mad b/c i didnt give him a real hug and i didnt see em on the last day :(( does he like me or what
It sounds like he likes you, go for it just ask him to a movie or something.
I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17. We've been together for 16 months and i truly believe that we are madly in love. I somewhat believe he is the one for me. He's a senior and will be graduating this year, I'm only a junior. I'm really scared of whats going to happen when he graduates. I've seen movies and shows where the couple breaks up because the one goes to college and never sees each other or whatever the deal is. He's not sure where he is going yet but i really hope it all works out. he mentioned something before like "if we're still going out next summer before i go away to college, i'll propose." It's scary how i feel like i could run away and get married with him right now. what do u think about this situation?
If you still are going out in the summer maybe you guys should wait a little longer to see what the future brings you have your whole life ahead of you, you dont have to get married right away you can wait.
ok theres this boy well call him * j * nd hes a junior nd im a freshman.. anyway i think i like him nd today he qrabbed myh ass nd then like 5 minutes later i sed to him "qive me a huq, i want a huq" nd he sed "well i want a kiss but you cant always qet what you want" so i qave him a kiss nd a huq nd then i had to qo to class - then after class we were walken toqether aqain nd we huqqed aqain .. then after school i was walken to myh brothers car nd he was walken to his so we walked toqether nd him nd myh brother are friends so like we were tryna qet him mad so we were holden hands then i told myh brother that we were just friends nd then he sed "for now you never noe" .. im just really confused cuz he huqs me nd kisses me wen myh brothers not around its not just wen hes there so i dno if he likes me or if hes tryna qet myh brother madd =\ please helpp me
p.s sorry so lonq
thnks a lot
..confused??
Sounds like he likes you, Im not sure just ask and see if he does, why would he want to get your brother mad though.
Hey everyone,
I'm playing a character in play where i have to keep a straight face while someone sings to me in German... does anyone have any advice on how to keep a straight face and not laugh or giggle during the performance?
Bite on the sides of your cheeks not to odvious so you would look like a fish though.
theres this kidd i was friends w/ for like 6 months i have sooo many memories w/ him n i think i was starting to like him n now he told this girl that were ex best friends wtf is that so i imed him about it n he was like were to different i dont think we should tlak anymore n i cried soo much over him n i just cant get over him everything reminds me of him please give me a way to talk to him get him backk!! i need him there for mee
Why is being different rong? Tell him how you feel and see what he says. Ask him why your now e-x best friends other than your different than him.
All my friend has been doing lately is complaining. Not to be stuck up or anything but things are going a little better for me than they are for her lately and shes tryen to bring me down with her so we can share being upset all the time . On the fone she doesnt stop complaining I just want to hang up on her. I dont want to be rude to her about this but im just so sick of listening to her complain. PLEASE help!
I know how you feel, just tell her to look at the positive side, or tell her to stop complaning because shes hard to be around.
Ok so there was this girl i went to a dance with a while back. i had actualy jsut met her earlier that day and at the time i liked her but it wasnt really a major thing. we were planning on going out again after the dance but she kept avoiding me. i had asked her if to tell jsut tell me if she didnt like me but she said she did. a while after that i just gave up i fugred she was playing me or something. any ways its been a while and i really thought i was over her but every once in a while something will remind me of her and ill start really wondering what happened and feelings i didnt even have back then will start rushing at me. if it matters im 18.
anyways i have a two part question
1. what do you thing happened in the first place? shes not teh type to play a guy?
2. what can i do so taht i dont start thinking about her everytime soemthing remidns me of her?
She might have been avoiding you because she was shy. Since you still have feelings for her even if its been a while ask her out to a movie or something like that, not exactly on a date just as friends you must really love her to still be thinking about it all that time, but if its long gone my advise is to move on.
well i like this one guy he is not HOT but he's weird and i guess im attracted to that well me and him know each other 4 a while now and he had broken up with his gf and i guess they didnt talk to each other 4 a while and he LOVES her. me and him are like BEstfriends and he tells me everything but now he talks to his ex that he still has feeling 4 and is 4getting about me when i was there when he needed to talk to someone and tear out his feeling to.and now that his ex and him talk its like if im not there and he barly talks to me and i miss him terribly and the way it use to be and i think i have feeling but i cant cause he LOVES that gurl so much.well plz help me!whAT CAN I DO ABOUT MY FEELING OR WUTEVER OR EVEN EXPLAIN MY FEELINGS. :/
Go out for Ice-Cream and just hang out and talk to him, kind of like a hint-hint Im still here thing. And If you raelly have the guts tell him how much you like him.
Hi, my names Jordan. Im new here.. but I have a question! I need help with snoball. Its coming up soon, and I need help finding a really good idea to ask my boyfriend... so if anyone has any ideas PLEASE help me!
??? Whats Snoball ???
Hi please help me! I have some nice friends but I'm not popular.In my neighberhood these group of girls are all friends and they don't include me but they are nice.I really want to get in their group but it doesn't work when I try.My other friends don't really like them and dont hang out with them.What should I do? I want to keep my old friends but make some new ones. I think maybe its time to move on and meet more people. sometimes im shy but when you know me i dont shutup!Please help me I'll rate good for anything!
I wouldn't waste your time with them if they dont accept you in there group, but if their nice to you maybe you should try to make them your friends but keep the ones you have now.
im 13/f and my sister whose 19 moved out about 1 1/2 yrs ago nd recently moved back in. She had a really controlling boyfriend and they were hooked on heroine. My mom had agreed to let her move back in if she stopped doin in. She moved back in about 2mnths ago and got rid of the old boyfriend. She got a new boyfriend but she's still using drugs. it's not just a once in a while thing either, its everyday, and as i said, my mom doesnt know and shes always saying how proud she is that my sister stopped doing drugs. I don't want to wreck me nd my sistersn relationship, but i think my mom needs to know because im afraid my sister will hurt herself.
-confused
First I would talk to her about it how you dont like it and how she needs to quit. If she dosnt listen then I would tell your mom.
me 15 boyfriend 17
ok..well i cheated on my boyfreind twice..n he says he loves me alot n i belive him n i really care for him alot...i jst don't know y i did it! but i talked to him tonite about it n he said if i ever cheated on him hed dumb me...so it was jst a plan out emotional convo...n i told him he shouldn't love me cuz i think i might mess up n cheat on him...cuz thats wat happened w/ the last guy that meant alot to me...well i'm scared that i'm goind to cheat on him n i don't want that to happen...but then i don't want to lose him cuz i really love him alot...wat should i do?
The guys your cheating on him with, do they really mean anything to you? When your with another guy just think about what your boyfriend would think if he was watching you. If you cared for your boyfriend as much as you say, which seems like alot then you wouldnt cheat on him.
OK ive been going out with my bf for a week so far but I'm still kinda nervous around him cuz I like him so much. I want to surprise him and kiss him in like an empty hall tomorrow when we're walking together to show him that I really like him but I need like a game plan here lol can anyone help me out ? Thanks so much!
That is so cute! When the bell rings to your class give him a big hug, and say in his ear when you'll see him next like chemestry or what-ever and give him a kiss!
ok well me and my boyfriend broke up but we still say i love you and mean it but i kinda like this other guy at my school...what do i do we flirt all the time..
(my EX and i dont go to the same school but talk every night and are plannin to get back wit eachother he says we "seperated" bcz we plan on goin back out like this weekend..when we see eachother on saturday!!)
I would go out with the guy whoes closer,it seems like it would be easier than a long distance relationship with your "ex". Who do you like more? your ex or the guy at school, its your choice.
Just out of curiosity, what does "hooking up" mean to you? It seems to mean something different for everybody...
There ae many different things people use (I get confused too) it could be getting toughether with a friend, going on a date or going out with someone.