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I've dealt with a lot of stuff. Suicide, abuse, and that girl that's only like 13 and not a virgin. And tons more. I really enjoy getting questions from people, but if you just want to talk for no or any reason, or want a more personal answer, I like it even better when people e-mail me. I'm cool with any topic. I get on my email/ site at least once a week.


P.S: sorry for what looks like bad spelling/ grammar, but really I just have a realllly bad touchscreen. sorry!
E-mail: divergirl123_1@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: California
Occupation: student
Age: 14
Member Since: July 12, 2012
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Hi im 14 train alot and am athletic im looking for a good first sex with any girl xxxx i will sext and show my face and give number just realy do want to have good sex xxx answer me back if u want the same thing aswell ;)
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Ya-- email me first tho, kk? --

THAT is what an idiot would say. Grow up and find a girlfriend in real life please. Sorry for the crit, but you'll regret having sex later on. I know you will. I'm your age and I regret everything.Sure it feels good while your doing it, but it's not right.. sorry. Everyone regrets , male or female. Wait for marriage, don't be pressured or pressure anyone, don't do drugs., etc. Also, How do we know you're not some 64 year old rapist? If you're not, I'm sure you're cute, but go out in the sun if you wanna get laid, not on here, please. We help people. We're not protitutes.

--Hope I helped.


im going to lose it in february. i told my boyfriend i wouldn't do it with him till we were together for a year, that do i need to know? are there any ways i can make it more comfortable, or make myself look good for this, should I buy lingerie? tell me what i should know? we have a gentle relationship so im not planning on crazy sex or anything ! (link)
Honestly, you dont sound extremely ready. Don't just have sex because 'its part of a plan'. But.. if you say so.. Ok. Guys like langerie, and, of course, wait until Valentine's Day. You could set the mood by inviting him over and having a nice dinner and then say, 'Do you mind if I go freshen up? thanks.' and wink. tell him he can wait in your room while your getting ready. And make sure you both say I Love You. It's like a rule. Sex is about love, not 'Doing it'.--- hope I helped.


17/f
I have the urge to have sex but I don't want to lose my v-card. IDK, I'm pretty desperate for it and I kind of hate how I'm always fantasizing. (link)
I THINK I know what you mean. You 'want the trip but none of the baggage'. And we all know, teenagers can be pressured to do stuff. but if you really want to have sex, please wait until your wedding night. Then you'll be ready. (or at the very least until you find the right guy. One you're positive is a keeper)
--hope I helped.


I'm a 17 year old teenanger one day when i was with my my boyfriend he put his penis maybe 4 or 5 minut and i told him that it hate and he remove it and then he put his finger and the thing is i never bleed and i want to know if i'm still a vargin or not (link)
I'm sorry, but you're not a virgin- yes, vIrgin. not vargin. -justkidding. not trying to be rude. Sex is considered the act of putting a , you know. penis into the vagina, no matter how long or how deep. So in short, no you are not a virgin. Hope I helped.


ive been with my boyfriend for 10 months now and he isn't a virgin but i am. and i wanted to know that he really loves me and he didn't just want to get in my pants so i decided not to give it up to him in the beginning. now we're at 10 months and i feel like sometimes i wanna give it up to him and sometimes i don't because im scared that im gonna regret it. my real problem is that im scared that he's gonna leave me or have sex with someone else because hes waited so long without having sex (link)
Someething tells me that is you can't even capitalize your i's,you shouldn't have sex. But honestly, if he's had sex before, he probably gave that last girl the same talk and then dumped her.Trust me, save it for the wedding night.




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