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Hey, I'm Samm and I'm 15-year-old freshman at Downingtown East High School. I've got a pretty average teenage life, except I'm in no way your average person. I doubt you'll ever meet someone exactly like me.



Feel free to drop one by in my inbox and I'll tell you what to do to the of my best ability in any situation. But remember, if it doesn't seem right, then don't do it. It's only my advice, not me telling you what to do.


PLEASE don't repeat questions. I appreciate all ratings and feedback, so please do it. It really gives me a good feel for how my advice is. Also, if you don't rate, and my advice is crap, I'd like to know so that I don't run the risk of telling someone to do that again.


Thanks.. and.. I hope I helped. =)

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heyy i just wanted to let you knoww that i didn't steal that schrunching thing from your column .. i never even saw your column beforeee .. if i did i would have added you. i got my advice because that's how i do my hair only ONE ponytail, so i said try that with littler ones. sorry if you still don't believe me, but i just wanted to let you know that i didn't steal that. i don't steal - i hate joggers so i would never do it. i don't know if you believe me or not, because honestly, if someone messaged me and told me this, i probably wouldn't believe them just because i know what asses people can be. haha um i know it's not a big deal, but i just figured why not try to get you to believe me? oh and if i did steal that from you, it's not exactly the same and why would i have searched through all your pages just to find it? alot of the other answers were similar so yeah. well i just figured i'd try to make you believe me and i hope you do because i just don't want you to think of me as a jogger. so um wow this probably seems like a big pile of bullshit but who knowss maybe you'll believe me. i've had people steal from me before and i hate it so much. i would DEFF never put anyone through that. it screams unoriginality. so againnnn, i'm sorry for the misunderstandingg =\ hope you understand i didn't mean for our answers to seem so alike!!! byee ♥

Thanks for clearing everything up. It wasn't a big deal or anything, but thank you.

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ok sam i use to be an anorexiic..know one would of known since it was during the summer and people didint see me as much (i lost a good bit of weight and muscle and i am pretty much back to normal but its hard for me to eat now and do the same strenuous work on a regular basis but im at a healthy weight) now that i am back in school and with my friends i feel like i am always hiding somthing. i feel like they should know at times but i dont want there pity or anything i just want them to be aware(that what friends do) i told two of my close friends one kind of understood but one wasshocked and the other was too wrapped up in hearself and her little problems that i think she could of cared less...whats your advice>(i wouldnt now be telling my grade just a couple of close friends but at times i dont think it's the best thing to-i think it could turni into bad gossip and i just have a weird feeling i should just drop and leave it in my pass but its hard somthimes whats YOUR opinion)

Anorexia is one of the most common eating disorders among teens. Remember ALWAYS: YOU ARE NOT ALONE! But back to you're issue..

First of all, if you feel like you're hiding something, you shouldn't. It's over, you're DONE! (Congratulations anyway, for stopping! You're a REALLY STRONG PERSON!) You shouldn't feel that way at all, you should be happy with yourself because you are beautiful, loving, and fun.

Don't be afraid to tell your friends, but at the same time, don't feel free to tell everyone. If the time is right, and the topic comes up, or if you just feel like the time is right, then go ahead and tell your CLOSE FRIEND(s) what you've been up to last summer. They should understand completely, and if not, well.. that tells you how good of a friend that they are. And if you feel like they are too pitiful, then tell them it's not the way you want to be treated. Tell them that IT'S OVER and you'll never go down that path again. And you can always tell me too; at school, call me up, online.. because I'm always here for you and I can keep a secret.

Gossip is stupid.. and if anyone shares you're personal business, then that's HORRIBLE. Just tell people that you TRUST to keep to themselves.

Don't drop it, always remember the pain you went through so that you NEVER have to go through it again! But for now, be happy with yourself because no matter what it may seem like at the time, you are loved.

Hope I helped.. fill me in on what happens!

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