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okay so you told me i could talk to you about the shaving thing.. will you tell me what i can do so i dont get razor burn or cut myself?! (link)
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aright. heres some general rules:
1-dont use a bar of soap when you do it always use shaving cream preferably something for senstive skin since that area is.
2- dont ever hurry. take it slow.
3- dont shave everyday. every 2 days is best.
4- a razor with 2-3 blades works best. a one blade razor is easier to cut yourself with.
other than that it should be pretty easy for you. IM me on aim if you have any more questions. i can answer any question you may have about this or anythinig else. -liz
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okay.. so me and my boyfriend were talking about eating me out. I want to but theres a problem.. is it okay to have hair down there?! Like every girl in my school said that you have to shave. But idk... help me please
thank you
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omg this is such a big debate. its a really hard question to answer. id say shave no guy is ever dissapointed to see that theres no hair to some guys it doesnt matter but id say shave it. i know thats what i do. but a tip shaving 2 days in a row is normally bad it can cause razor burn and cuts. so be careful about shaving and id say do it. if you want any more advice on how to go about it or just any weird questions on this topic or anything else sorta like it... im your girl. so drop it in my inbox.
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What are the bases? (link)
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you mean like 1st, 2nd, 3rd and home plate. most people say that 1st is kissing, 2nd touching outside clothes, 3rd is touching under clothes and homeplate is sex. but everyone has their own version these days.
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I am 14 years old and me and my boyfriend have sex and we use protection but on night my boyfriend put his penis a little bit in my vagina, and took it out again,, it wasn't even in there for a minute. He took it out and i wiped my self off. I missed my period this month, and i am worried that i might be pregnant, I am going through a lot of stress this month and I am sick with the flu.. but i am still scared that i might be pregrant, what do you think.. (link)
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take a pregnancy test to be really sure take one now and one in a week. sometimes its to early for a pregnancy test to pick it up. use protection always.
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About 3 weeks ago i had sex with this kid hes 16. Well While we had sex he didnt use a condum untill i asked him to. (i know i should have asked a head of time)(but its to late for that now)well im having the feeling im pregnant (scary thought) i was going to wait a couple more weeks and take a test. And Suggestions? and if the test is positive what should i do? please help im almost 15 and really scared at this moment (link)
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ok have you missed your period?
do you even have your period yet?
you should take a test and if its positive talk to your mom about it... or school counseler. i know how hard that would be but you have to do it. its best for the baby and you. dont have an abortion how would you feel if you killed something you created.... you couldnt kill a puppy could you? then you couldnt kill a baby. if you dont want to keep it try putting it up for adoption there are tons of familys that want kids that cant have them. it would go to a loving home. so take a test and see whats up.
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Background for reference. Disregard it if you only want to read the problem:
I met Ashley at Sam Goody. She kind of followed me around and talked to me a lot. Gave me hugs and flirted at random times. At first it was a little odd, she just seemed like a kid with a crush and I wasn't interested in the least. She quits work and I don't see her for the better part of that year. I don't miss her.
I see her working at a grocery store later on. She doesn't seem quite as interested in me, but she's still incredibly flirtacious. I eventually develop a big crush on her. I ask her out on a date, but what was implied was that her parents wouldn't approve. She was turning 18 later on this year before I turned 21, but the 20-17 year old age gap was too much for them. Shortly after, I pretty much lose the romantic feelings I have for her. They're replaced with pity, from the terrible things I find out happened to her (from someone who knows us both). Before five days ago, we never really talk much outside of her workplace.
What's key to know for the problem:
Sunday (five days ago). She gives me her new number and invites me to her new place that night. While there, I listen to her complain about her now ex boyfriend and how she isn't over him. He used her for sex after he dumped her, then left without saying a word.
Tuesday. I text her asking if she feels like doing anything that day. She said, "I made a huge mistake. Shannin called and asked to see me and I said yes." I told her she can use plans with me as an excuse to not see him if she feels she shouldn't, and that I didn't think she shouldn't see someone who recently used her. She says, "Thanks. I know I'm really stupid but I just still love him so much"
She calls me later that night, crying from what happened earlier. I asked her if she needed me to come over and she said she wouldn't be much of a host since she would just be crying, but she could use the company.
It takes me a little while to get there, and when I do no one answers the door. I walk in and find her in a room with depressing music playing. She has a blade in her right hand and her left arm is covered in blood. She cries to me telling me how stupid she is and how it seems she can't learn from her mistakes. I try to comfort her I tell her how common such a thing is and turn off her music. I have her choose from a few different movies I brought over and we watch one that is now one of her favorites. She says that she feels a little better now and asks me to hang out with her the next day.
Wednesday. We start hanging out in the late morning. We watch a few things and talk. I learn some things about her past, distant and recent, that don't reflect well on her, for instance, she's capable of stealing. We go out to eat and to a few different places, an overall good time despite my being quiet from drowsiness. I leave to give my mother a ride home from work, and she asks me if I'm coming back afterwards. She said she would like it if I did.
After I come back, we go to her father's place to watch a movie (her father's working on her house) and so she can check stuff online. I get a quick glance at what she types in an e-mail. It read, "...heart broken again...feel like maybe I should just kill myself..." An exaggeration of her recent mood, but it still alarms me. I ended up staying with her until she was almost falling asleep after midnight again.
My problem: I've been noticing a list of things I don't like about Ashley, but the biggest thing in that list is the fact that I now have feelings for her again (spending over 12 hours with someone and you'll know how you feel about them after you leave). It might be stronger feelings than before, since I can't get her out of my head. I can't date her because no matter what she feels for me, which probably isn't more than friendship, she still is so caught up with and damaged from her ex that she's thinking about suicide. No good can come from having feelings for someone like this.
I desperately want to help her. I haven't been getting more than a couple of hours of sleep a night worrying about her. In the past, I've tried to help friends (all female) by trying to convince them they shouldn't make mistakes like this, which lead to arguments. They end with them being pissed at me, then making the mistake anyway. I've learned it's better to just give your advice/opinion once and hope they'll listen to it. If they make the mistake, they make the mistake.
The thing is, I don't think she can afford to make this mistake again. I can't tell her not to, it's her life, her business. I already told her how I felt about everything. My best friend thinks I should stay away from her, and she might be right, but I can't turn my back on her when just spending time with her seems to cheer her up a little, especially since now I care for her more than I would a friend. I considered trying to convince her to see someone about this, but I know from experience that, despite the good intentions, it will driver her away. I can't afford that since it seems like I'm one of the very few things kind of helping her. I know for a fact that she would go back to this guy, and I don't want that to happen. It could literally kill her. So what can I do? How can I help her past this? (link)
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thats a tough problem. i say if you like her alot that your presense around her keeps her happy then your giving her life everytime you see her. thats the greatest gift of all. one day she will thank you for all of that. even if she doesnt love you now she will later. you cant be around someone that much that cares for you and takes care of you and not begin to love them. see love has to be earned and made. it isnt an instant thing. just love her and never think of her as a burden... love is a burden in itself. love isnt easy. just do what you think you can for her. love isnt just a four letter word. its an emotion and cure. maybe all she needs is someone to really love her. hope i helped yah out.
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Iam 16 years old and I want to have sex so I could get pregnant becouse I feel like nobody loves me and if I have a baby iam sure my baby will love me is this normal? (link)
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YES. that is normal. i felt the exact same way. but its not the best idea. its not a good life for the baby and it will put alot of stress on you trying to make enough money to pay for the baby's needs. then theres what will you do with it during school. in the end its your choice. if your parents wouldnt hate you for that, you have enough income to pay for your baby's needs and a place to send it during school (dropping out isnt good. what guy wants to marry a girl who dropped out AND has a baby?). then id say if you want its an OK disition. ive been there. i wanted the same thing. i still want a baby. but i decided that its not a good choice in the long run. sure its ok now...but in the long run now isnt a good time. THINK about it and see what you come up with. hope that helped
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15/m ....i am about to go a little further with my girlfriend ....and i was wondering if most guys shave their pubic hair or not...? (link)
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as a girl... i say ask her. most girls have a preferance. shaving it gets hard... its a tougher process and im sure it can be uncomfortable if you dont do it everyday. a trim is the best bet.
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female 16
Im barely a size B and am not very happy with that.
How do I know if my boobs have stopped growing and will stay this size forever?
How do I know if they are still growing?
Any way to get implants at this age?
Any way to make them appear bigger (No stuffing please :)
Please and Thank You. (link)
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victoria's secret has great bras that without stuffing make you look bigger.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We were eachothers' firsts. We have only had sex a handful of times, and its not anything amazing. Neither of us can 'get it'. He either gets too exhausted or we just give up. We've tried different positions and places, but it doesn't seem to work. When we fool around, its great. Its better than intercourse at this point, but I want having sex to be good. We love eachother and this isnt going to break us up, but it breaks my heart knowing that we aren't enjoying something that is suppose to be so sacred and passionate. I have no idea how long to wait or what to do, neither of us do. So if you have any suggestions on what to do, I'd really appreciate it. Even some kind words to make me feel better. I just don't know what to think. Please help us. (link)
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this sounds realllly gay.
but maybe you should look around on
www.cosmopolitan.com
sounds really lame but the site is almost all about sex. so just read up!
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Ok. I just shaved 'down there', and the little stubs are hitting my legs and making them itch.. It's driving me crazy!!! Anyway to get rid of the stubs? Helppp!
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you really cant. thats the down side to shavin 'down there' as opposed to waxing. sometimes you can though. try a new razor blade. it might not be sharp enough to get the stubs
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THANK YOU SO MUCH IN ADVANCE FOR ANSWERING THIS AND I AM SORRY IF IT IS LONG BUT I REALLY NEED HELP WITH THIS.
So i have a really good friend and he has been talking about suicide all this week and he is really starting to scare me. I talk to him about how much i care about him etc. but still he said i dont think ill kill myself just now. but later i dont know. IM SO WORRIED ABOUT MY FRIEND! and try to have some other answer besides tell someone because i know that and i am considering it. So please any other good ideas.. ILL RATE 5'S FOR ALL SERIOUS ANSWERS
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tell him you might commit suicide.
just be like i think i will to.
use all his reasons.
it will make him think about
how stupid his reasons are
and just maybe you can be like.
'lets neither do it.'
tell him that he can tell you everything
and anything...
-jodie
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