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Well im 13 and well ive been masturbating for yearssss like well yuo know how babys, they like "touch themselves" well i figured out the masturbating thing when i was like 5. i didnt know it was an orgasam.... duhhh cuz i was five. but i dont think im normal. Am i? and could this happen to other people too?? (link)
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you are completely normal it is completly natural bro calm down
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My boyfriend is also pleasing me. I feel bad 'cuz i dont' please him as much as he pleases me. What are some ideas on how i can please him. What are some kinky ways to spice up a love life? lol (link)
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try oral or try to make it last longer thats all i can say. or make it more intense
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16/f
for a few years now all i keep thinking about is receiving oral sex. whenever i see a guy with big full lips and a big, wide tongue it really turns me on. sometimes the urge is so strong that it makes me want to find a guy to eat me because i want to feel a tongue down there that bad. is this normal for me to be feeling this way?
thanks :) (link)
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dyes you are a teenage girl these urges are normal i think
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ok so. im a frisky girl in her twenties.. my mate sent me this as something to laugh at.
but i though could i actually use this as a "toy"
like would it be safe? or would i jsut get flour everywhere?
youtube (dot) com / watch?v=CM7PklAdHlw&list=QL
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looks like it works. i think it will work just fine
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I have been married for 5 years and have never been satisfied in the bedroom because of this 1 thing. My husband is great but this is really weird. I have this fantasy of him having sex with me while I am sleeping. It would be OK with me if I woke up during it as long as it started while I was asleep. I know this is not normal but it's what I really want. How do I approach him about this without sounding crazy or creepy? (link)
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go up to him and say "lets try some thing different... one day soon when i fall a sleep have sex with me if i wake up i wont mind, just try it for me." tell him you want to try new things and experiment it is a great way to spice up your love life
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ok i was masturbating/ fingering myself (14 female) and i was doing it pretty hard and had an orgasm but now i have mild pains in my lower stomach, i've heard this is normal... is it? please don't answer if you don't know :) (link)
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yep normal... it is completely normal anything else you need to know?
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ok so i got really excited by a video and my clitoris was like stimulated and i fingered myself and my hand was sort of rubbing over my clit. too and i had an orgasm but i wasn't sure if it was my g-spot or clit.? it felt the same but a little more intense because my body shook a lot more than usual but when i touched my clit it was overly sensitive ??? (link)
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your clitoris is more sensitive then your g-spot depending on how you were masterbateing but it prolly was your g-spot if your body shook
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if i gave my boyfriend a hand job and he got sperm on his hand and then fingered me could i get pregnant? (link)
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well yes but it would be incredibly difficult. but in a sense it would bekind of like synthetic pregnancy
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do younger people both girls and guysz orgasn faster than older girls and guys? (link)
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i think it depends on which people it is and that isnt always true my girlfriend orgasm faster then i do but it depends on the people
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any guys or girls have tips on how to give good head? i dont really like giving it but i want my partner to be happy and i would love to know how to do it well. please any and all tips you have. (link)
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look i am a dude and my girlfriend gives me bj's be creative it isn't really something you can do badly
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So when he's fingering me, what should I do and say to him to get more excited?
me and my boyfriend have almost been dating a year and were in highschool. But were not ready to have sex yet. But to make the things we do more sexy, I want to tell him that I love the way he fingers me.
Normally I just breathe a little heavier but I need more things to say. (link)
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i just answered this dont repeat it annoys me look guys love it when you moan try to talk really dirty and when he is done if you want to think him by giving him a hand job or blowjob
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I'm a 14 year old female and my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 weeks. We were making out and he started taking off my shirt and bra i didn't mind that much so i let him continue and we made out for like 2-3 minutes with my clothes off. I feel like I'm a slut for going that far. He says I'm not but I know he would say that because he wants it to happen again. Am i a slut? (link)
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DIDNT YOU JUST ASK THIS I TOLD YOU YOU ARE NOT A SLUT YOU ARE A NORMAL TEEN!!!!!! ITS OK I DO STUFF ALL THE TIME TO... look sorry you made me angry no you arent a slut i promise, im sorry
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So my ex bf might come over tonight and I'm like super horny. I'm scared I might go way to far. I don't want to have sex. But I'm so horny and I really want to see him. Idk what to do. Please help. (link)
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just masterbate be fore he shows up then your not horny sorry im a little late next time message me and ill get right back with you
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i recently read online somewhere that theres a trick for guys to last longer.they said if the guy while peeing stops for 3 seconds then starts again and then hold it again for 3 seconds it strenghtens the muscles and will in turn help the guy last longer. i was just wondering if this is true? and if anyone has any other methods of helping guys last longer let me know! thanks
ps. i was already thinking of when getting close to orgasm to stop and do oral stuff and other stuff to her to hold myself off for a while.
anything help will be appreciated thanks again =] (link)
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you cant train yourself to last longer but when you do come close give her oral and stuff like you said it works very well...and slowing down makes you last longer
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my boyfriend and i were having sex the other day and i got on top. i wouldnt have any problem with that except for the fact that after about five minutes of being on top, my knees started KILLING me. so i had to get off. :( which didn't satisfy my boyfriend. i wanna know how to keep my knees from getting sore while on top. oh, and if you're going to name this one position where i'm "bouncing" using my feet, i'm not into that. so please don't tell me that. thanks. (link)
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try a different place that is the easy thing to do try that if that don't work tell me and ill give you more advice
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Hiya. I am looking for some songs to have sex to with my boyfriend. My boyfriend gets nervous easily and he said if we had some music on or something it would be easier for him to do it with me. It sounds fine to me but I don't know what some good songs to have sex to are.
I guess the music genre doesn't really matter as long as it's good for sex? We've only tried having sex twice so we're really new at this whole thing anyway. I looked up some suggestions but I just kept coming up with songs that were good for stripping. haha
Sex music suggestions anyone?
THANXXX (link)
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ok first off music or no music he will still be nervous its ok make sure he knows its good to be nervous...it makes it exciting plus there is no good sex music reallymake him comfortable... if he is comfortable he will like it
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Is it safe? Does it make condoms less effective in any way, shape, or form? Any risks?
I'm on the pill, so there's not much risk of getting pregnant (and zero risk at STDs since my boyfriend and I are both STD-free for sure). But I want to use condoms as a back-up so I'd like to know how well this back-up will work.
Any advice on this subject will be greatly appreciated. (link)
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nope its like lubericant it will work just fine you are safe as you were before
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i am well soon to turn 15 and me and my boyfriend really want to have a baby. my boyfriend is 100%loyal to me. i guess i want to know if i should go through with this. i mean what to tell my mom i dont know my 16 year old sister is already thinking she might be pregnant to. i also would like to know if it is expensive to be home schooled and be home with my child. thank you. (link)
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its very expensive plus for a 15-17 year old girl it is even more painful and they will be required to have surgery plus stiches after birth and the baby will more then likley die its not worth the risk...... how would you feel knowing you tryed to have a kid and it died inside you or right after birth
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So I heard all the reasons NOT to use soap during intercourse.
But what if I did, and felt great discomfort afterwards? What do I do? (link)
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look to be honest you just have to wash it out or it will desolve after a while... plus DONT USE SOAP DURING SEX
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I had sex for the first time 3 years ago, and have had sex pretty regularly since. I have always heard that it hurts the first couple of times, but it ALWAYS hurts me. And getting aroused is not the problem. I know people say it's because "you need to relax" or "try foreplay" but that isn't the issue. This may be too much information, but I can get reeeally wet, and I'm completely comfortable with who I have sex with, so not being able to relax is not the issue either. I can have a clitoral orgasm, so I prefer oral sex. But it just does not feel good vaginally. Could it be because I'm a very small person? I'm 5'3" and only weigh about 95 lbs. I feel like my vagina stays as tight as it was 3 years ago. (link)
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yep your just small and the person(s) you are with is to big for you sorry... it will go away after a few more years though
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