Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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Location: Nashville
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Age: 17
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OK well here goes i have been thinking. i know other peoples life are worse which by the way you never tell some one they will just kill them self for being weak trust me. So i am only 13 and i already hate my life actually it started a long time ago as late as 5th grade. Then a lot of shit happened and i bottle everything up i self harm and have thought of suicide my mom found out about the scratches on my arm and started acting like a bitch telling me i was a freak and she doesnt know Y I do it she didn't even ask. And others dont see it i am in sports i have some of the highest grades in my class i just have given up hope for any change and i see a future of nothing does it get better?? At all?? (link)
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As you mentioned earlier, you are very young. Life does get harder and people get bitchier but if everyone decided to off themselves as soon as things get hard, half of the world would be dealing with death and loss everyday, and the other half of the world would be dead. There are people that need you and care about you and killing yourself is very selfish. I have suicidal thoughts too and I used to hurt myself when I was your age. But I came to the conclusion that my sisters, my dad, and a few close friends would probably lose their minds if I ended my life. Surely, there is someone close to you. Someone who will be sad. Someone you can talk to about these thoughts. If you have a school counselor, that would be a great way to start. Even if you determine that you can live through whatever is bugging you, suicidal thoughts are not gonna go away and they are not normal, no matter what your age is. I suggest you get some professional help. Don't talk to your parents, they won't understand. When they were your age, self harm was practically unheard of.
To answer your question, life really sucks and in my opinion, it's not worth living. But the people you surround yourself with make it easier and make life great. Keep your close friends and please speak to someone about your thoughts and self harm. I hope things get easier.
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what kind of blanket do you use to masturbate with, mine is fuzzy but it gets caught and it absorbs a lot of my juices. it is 100% cotton but i think wool or silk would work better. what do you prefer?
i rate high so give some advice (link)
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A blanket is not necessarily required for masturbation; but if you do choose to use one, its whatever you prefer. Whatever is softer, more comfortable, etc. Its completely up to you.
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My penis isnt as big as the the other kids in the locker room. Does size really matter? What can i do to make them stop making fun of me?
Your pal
Timmy (link)
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When the penis is soft (or flaccid) it doesn't matter how small it is; it'll grow once you're aroused. If you guys actually sat there and compared erections, you need a hobby. Women will say that size matters, but some women say "its not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean" meaning, you may not have the largest penis in the world, but if you know how to use it properly, it won't matter. To get them to stop making fun of you, try this: next time someone says something about it, say "you would be looking" or "your mom didn't seem to mind" or "I'd be worrying less about the size of my dick and more about how ugly you are"
These may be immature jokes, but if they are immature boys, it'll shut them up.
In the end, everybody is different. Have you ever seen two women with the exact same sized breasts? Some are smaller, some are larger, and they are all attractive, right? Same basic concept. Don't worry about it. :) Plus, your penis will not stop growing until you are at least 23. I'm assuming you have a few more years left.
I hope I helped!
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ok if i ask my gf about to sex & itell her f she is ready to sex with me. and she answerd No. how many years im waiting before she sex with me? cause she know that im a virgin at the age of 23 & that is true , i dont have any experience about sex to my past gf. that is the reason why it's hard to me to do a sex with my gf when we our kissing. (link)
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It could take days, it could take years. Its whatever is most comfortable with her. She sounds like she wouldn't have sex unless she's married, which is sometimes the case. Just go slow. You know, start with kissing. That's first base. Second base is feeling and fondling, caressing, making out, etc. Third base is oral, and fourth (or "home run") is having sex. People use the base system to determine how quickly they are moving in their relationship. I don't know how long you've dated this girl, but every woman is different and all you can do is just move at her speed. If she doesn't want to have sex and kissing is making you want to, try to do some social activities. Go to a movie or out to eat. Somewhere to distract you from the thought of sex.
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How can i tell my bf i want to suck him off
Im female and 17 years (link)
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If your boyfriend is like every other male on this planet (and he probably is) you probably don't need to fret too much on this subject. Just do it or just tell him. Guys LOVE to be sucked off. Most I've spoken to like it more than sex. He'll probably be a lot more keen to the idea than you think. :) take care!
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I don't have much of a sex drive, and I don't think I've ever actually been genuinely aroused, so I'm still in the dark about a lot of this.
What exactly is it that a girl produces when she gets wet? Mucus? Something watery?
If it gets on panties, does it look or feel different from sweat or discharge?
How much comes out, can it stain clothing, can you feel it coming out?
What exactly happens? If I think I'm going to be wet, should I grab paper towels or something? (link)
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There is a mucus gland inside the vagina that produces kind of a snot-like substance that will make it easier for the penis to slide in and out of the opening during intercourse. If you are not wet when you have sex, it will hurt and probably tear something and the body knows this. Discharge is simply the vagina's way of cleaning itself. It doesn't stain clothing, the discharge will come out when you wash your underwear.
When a girl climaxes, sometimes a little bit of "cum" will seep from the opening of the vagina. This will also not stain anything. If you're concerned about it getting on your underwear, there are some thin panty-liners that fit comfortably in your underwear, and it'll keep anything from touching the cotton. Sometimes you can feel it coming out, other times its relatively unnoticeable. If you feel it in your underwear, it will just feel like sweat. Since the vagina is so warm on the inside, when the discharge comes out, the temperature of the substance will decrease and you'll feel the obvious temperature change. But its not uncomfortably cold; just noticeable enough for you to be like "Oh wow. When did that happen?"
You don't need to worry about other people noticing, either. Most of the time, there is no odor from any of this. If you have a yeast infection or PH imbalance, it'll kind of smell like fish. Not like "mmm whose cooking?" but "oh dear God, is that coming from me?"
Oh and when anything comes out of the vagina, unless its period blood, it will not be very much at all. You know when you're really sick and you sneeze and a snot stream kind of falls out? Its no more than that amount, just coming out of a different orifice.
Whew. I think I answered all your questions and I hope I helped! If you need to know anything else, just message me and I'll be happy to reply :) take care!
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Is it normal for a 13 year old girl to watch porn? (link)
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its normal for any teenager to watch porn; girl or boy. what you do in your personal life is your business. no matter what, your urges are your urges and they are COMPLETELY natural :) no worries. i actually started watching porn around your age. ^.^
take care!
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If a boy comes on your clitoris is there a chance of you being pregnant? (link)
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If a boy ejaculates anywhere near the opening of your vagina, there is a chance you could be pregnant. Only way to know for sure is wait for your period. If you don't get it, take 3 tests.
Hope I helped.
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if i will do sex with girl and i will insert my cock into her vagina.. so will i face some problem. will my girl friend face some pain in her body...?? (link)
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I am having difficulty understanding what you are saying. Try to specify what it is you want to know and then I can help you.
Thanks
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it z been 6 months nw.. We were in a pure realationship. I hv fingered her.she had given handjobs to me. But i want to lick her out. But she is telling it is a sin according to da religion.. (link)
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Going down on her is oral sex, and oral sex is considered sex. It is a sin in her religion to have sex outside of marriage, I'm assuming, so you need to respect her beliefs and not push it.
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I am a 16 year old year old girl and I love to masturbate. But the same old ways are getting boring. Does anyone have some tips or tricks? (link)
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We're not aloud to answer questions like these in detail.
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whats some good porn sites that are not blocked by the schools.and i need to know how to get a girl to have sex with me. (link)
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Firstly, you can't ask two questions at once unless they are in SEPARATE question links. Second, ALL porn sites are blocked in schools, you'll just have to wait until you get home like the rest of us. Third, you can't "get" a girl to have sex with you. You need to build a trusting relationship with her. You need to be nice and sincere and gentlemanly. And watching porn in school isn't a great way to get started.
Good luck
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'i am from india' i am of age 20.i had sex with my fiance.we had safe sex,used condom.i had the sex one day before my periods.but i did not get my periods for d next day.so i took i pill.i had bleeding for one day..i guess that is due to i pill side effect.so when will i get my periods? is their any chance of pregnancy? (link)
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If you did not wear a condom on the day before your period, then yes, there is a definite chance of pregnancy. Wait a few more weeks before taking a test or going to a doctor. Who knows? Your period could also just be a little late, that happens sometimes.
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i have had 3 back surgerys in 2009 and 2010 and since then i have been on major morphine pills to help with the pain. the operations were complete failures and now I live in constant severe pain. some days are better than others but I just cant stand it any longer and I am tired of ruining my wife and the rest of my familys lives by being aburden to them. I never feel good enough to go camping and do things we used to do all the time. So, If I were dead and gone. they could go on and enjoy thier lives. what is the easiest way for me to end my life without it looking like suicide? thanks... and sorry for the bad spelling (link)
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I'm sorry you feel like you are a burden on your family, but think about how they would feel if you were gone? They would not be able to just "go on and enjoy their lives". If they were able to, then there is something seriously wrong. If you're going to kill yourself, there is no possible way of killing yourself without someone finding out that you killed yourself. Whether it be the cops, or your wife, someone will find out. And not only will your family have to live with the pain of losing a father and husband, but they will also have to deal with the fact that that person willingly took their life without consulting them first. Talk to your wife. Tell her you're depressed and need help. In certain psychiatric hospitals, they can give you pain medicines and help you find an anti-depressant that will work for you. Chronic pain is very difficult to live with, and there is really no getting rid of it, but if you just try, you can find something to help ease it a bit. In the meantime, please, talk to a doctor.
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I wouldn't call it daydreaming but ever since I can remember I've had different "life scenarios" playing out in my mind at night when I can't fall asleep or during times when I was really bored.
I can focus fine on the world around me and I've actually done pretty great with life so far. I graduated with honors,an entire binder full of awards,two technology certifications and other random things. The only problems I'm having right now are with finding a job so soon out of high school but I figure I'll get one sooner or later.
I just feel like I should have stopped this by now.
They aren't normal daydreaming about boyfriends and such. They're like entire story lines with intricate details with some elements taken from my favorite books or movies. I'll have the main person which is usually "me" but with different characteristics based on what I think I would want to look like/the abilities I would want to have if I were in that setting. Then the surrounding characters,some also taken from books and others that I completely make up with entire very detailed life stories.
I even reserve time to think them out at night. Like I'll say well its 1am now if I get into bed and listen to music I can "daydream" for two hours and go to sleep at 3.
I'm perfectly normal the rest of the time though. I've never told anybody about them before so people think I'm just this normal intelligent pretty girl who's just like anybody else and the only times I obsess on these "daydreams" is when I'm to upset with something going on in my life and I use them to calm me down and get my mind off of whatever it is.
I CAN stop doing it but not for long. I mean there's been times where I was so preoccupied with life I didn't think about them for a week or more but I always come back to it eventually. It's like a part of me I can't get rid of.
Do you think since is hasn't really affected my life that I shouldn't worry about it?
I don't want to go to a psychiatrist because I know they're going to tell me I'm schizophrenic or have a dissociative disorder and put me on some sort of medication that will dumb me down and label me as "mentally unstable" when I'm really fine except for the daydreams and the last thing I need right now is all of my family and friends thinking I'm a nutcase when I'm not.
What do you think I should do about this?
I mean I'm not hurting anybody or anything so does it really matter what I daydream about?
Should I be happy I have something in my mind to escape to while leading a normal life when others break down and become depressed and suicidal or worse?
Sometimes when I look at the big picture I think "Isn't this what authors all around the world do?" They create stories in their mind with plots and characters and lots of details like me except they sell their stories. Especially authors like Agatha Christie who have something like 87 books,she must be doing what I'm doing constantly right? So is there anything even really wrong with me?
I can actually write really well btw (I've received awards from the national library of poetry).
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I'm almost 20 and I still "daydream" like that. I'm definitely not schizophrenic. Its called having a creative mind that's prone to boredom. So you create a new reality for yourself. Don't believe everything you hear; that doesn't make you crazy. You said you can write well, so start keeping a journal or something. You don't need help or any kind of therapy, you just need something to keep you from getting so preoccupied with your thoughts.
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hey! i want to know how to have phone sex?
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i think you posted this question three times now, and i've answered it. twice. please stop re-posting questions. they take at least 5 hours to go through the system and someone will answer as soon as they can, okay?
thank you.
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OK so I just want to know a definition for each of these and give an example please....
1. Oral sex
2. Anal sex
3. Fingering
4. Hand job
5. Blow job
6. (term) riding on top?
7. Condom
8. Phone Sex
Thank you! Please help! (link)
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1: sexual contact of the mouth. ex: a girl sucking on a guy's penis.
2: sexual contact of the anus. ex: a man sodomizing another man.
3: sexual contact of the fingers. ex: a guy putting his fingers inside a girl's vagina.
4: a girl/guy masturbating a guy. ex: one is grabbing the penis and sliding their hand up and down the shaft.
5: oral sex, refer to #1
6: missionary position during sex. the guy is laying down and the girl is straddling him.
7: a contraceptive that is 85% accurate. ex: a balloon-like item that you slide onto the man's penis to act as a net to catch the sperm and keep it from going inside the woman's vagina. it is also a good method when trying to avoid acquiring STDs.
8: a form of role-play, usually for long distance relationships. ex: this is purely imaginative. two people are on the phone, masturbating (usually) and talking dirty and its just a sexual activity that is almost entirely noises. no penetration or actual "sex" ever goes on during this.
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How do i have phone sex? advice please! (link)
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typically, it involves two people talking on the phone while masturbating. theres a lot of dirty talk involved. its pretty much just masturbating and making a lot of audible sounds so the person on the other end of the phone is turned on.
good luck
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What does sex feel like? I'm obviously a virgin, and I'm just wondering how to have the best time and how you feel, bcos I'm just getting ready to do it with my boyfriend and it's his first time too and I want to make it perfect. Any tips?
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Well, first tip is that no matter how many replies you get on this question, its different for everyone. One of my friends bled a lot and said it hurt really bad, my other friend said it didn't hurt her. For me, it hurt a lot but I didn't bleed. Next tip is that your first time is never perfect. No matter what you do, it will never be the fantasy in your head. Maybe after you guys have been active for awhile, it'll get more dreamy, but the first time (especially for two virgins) is usually awkward and weird. My final tip is to wait a little longer to have sex. 16 or 17 is the common age for girls to start having sex. Obviously, this is just a suggestion. If you're going to do it, then I can't stop you. But I speak from personal experience that you WILL wish that you'd waited. I know I do.
I hope I helped :)
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Ok so I just turned 13 and Im a girl... I reccently had my 1st kiss with this guy and I broke up with him because he was a jerk. I have a question...
1.Is materbating like fingering yourself for pleasure?
So, obviously by my question I want to masterbate for my own pleasure. I have almost done it (I think) in the shower because no one was home except me and I slipped and fell and while I was on the floor of the shower I leaned against the wall and I think I found my vagina but I dont know because I felt my butt (dont ask I can be strange) and I felt along my crotch and as I was feeling with my 2 fingers they went in a teeny tiny bit and I think it was my vagina. Is it wrong for me to masterbate at this age? Is it also wrong that I watch porn a bit sometimes because it makes me feel good? Should I actually masterbate? Will it hurt? Give me all info about masterbation and please only answer if you have done it... Thanx (link)
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First off, masturbation is probably one of the healthiest pleasures on this Earth. It relieves stress, helps with cramps, helps depression and insomnia, and it gives you some quality time with yourself. I, myself, have been spending this time with myself since I was about 3 or 4. And watching porn isn't bad either. Just don't become addicted or download anything illegal. You are too young to do that. Take care, and try to have fun ;)
Hope I helped :)
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