Hey. I'm in my early twenties. I'm currently pregnant with my first child...Well for a couple more days atleast :-D! I live in sunny Sun Diego. I'm married, to a Sergeant in the Marine Corps...
I am here to help and get help. I'm not trying to portray that I'm a perfect person with no problems, but I have been through alot so I figure I'd help people learn from my mistakes...
I've been through alot, from my father death, to my best death, to middle school/high school/college, bad relationships, good relationships, engagment, marriage, deployment, pregnancy, stress and depression...
I am deffinetly here to help 110 % so if you want to talk dont hesitiate i'm here for all of you...xoxox
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I need some help on knowing how to make sex more intersteing for this one guy. we have never had sex together before so i want to make it a time he wont forget and he is more experienced then i am. so any tips on how to make sex amazing for him would be helpful.
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Well when you guys are doing forplay make it last as long as you can, kiss him all over but dont let him in until you can tell he's begging for it!!!
You should get on top and take control, it'll drive him crazy...go sloooooww and just kinda rock around with your hips...you'll have him going crazy...
GARENTEED
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I am a virgin but I have given and recieved oral sex but when guys go to finger me i freak out, why do i do this and is it gonna hurt that bad? (link)
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I think you'll be fine...I didnt have sex right away but I got fingered, and it never hurt me...It's no big deal you'll be fine...Dont stress out...It's not like losing your virginity or anything...
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i'm a girl and i'm straight. i very much enjoy riding my boyfriend's dick, but i like to watch lesbian porn. i watch porn, not just lesbian, often and get very turned on by it. is something wrong with me? (link)
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I'm an adult and i watch it sometimes. I think sometimes a womens body seems more appealing...dont stress about it. I'm compltly straight, married and pregnant...so your fine :-D
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What are the differences between the girl being on top and the boy being on top during sex if there are any? thanks (link)
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It's a different pleasure, in each position. Granted, when the girl is on top she is doing all the work but i find it to feel better, and it feels way better for the guy, with the guy on top, it's just the usual you get pleasure but no as amazing as the girl on top :-D
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14/f
when your "cherry pops" do you bleed?& if you do r you supposed to bleed?
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Yes it is common in most women to bleed after losing their virginity. You might bleen a time or two after that and it might be sore, but after the first couple of times, you no longer bleed and it's not as painful.
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alright i have tried everything that i can at my age. i've tried fingering, carrots, cucumbers. I mean im too young to buy a vibrator..i really want to get and orgasim. all i get is like a tickly feeling. please i need your advice. thanks in advance (link)
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as gross as it sounds, if you lay doen spread your vagina lips with one hand and rub with your other hand on your clit, fast then slow, it's best to do it in the shower...hope that helps!
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if you arent taking birth control and you have sex using a condom one time, what is the chance you will get pregnant? (link)
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Probably 1 %. Honestly, I used condoms as a way of safe sex for awhile and never had any scare!!!
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okay so me and my ex boyfriend hung out and we had sex. he did not use a condom. we went for about 15 min. or less. he didnt keep it in the entire time we did it though either. i heared that if he did not cum and was not about to then theres no chance id be pregnant. but im still not sure. he said he did not cum and wasnt about to and he never did even after we stopped. so is there a chance i could be pregnant? all my friends say i should be fine and so does he.
also for 3 days it hurt when i peed and i blead a little. it stopped now, so is that just because i had sex for the first time? (link)
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Bleeding and being sore is completly normal after losing your virginity sometime you even bleed a little more the next few times. No biggie it's just your vagina getting use to it...After that it'll feel amazing if it doesnt already...
You should be fine but next time use protection, it's safer...
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15/m
like how do you do phone sex? i know you're supposed to talk dirty but what else do you do? just wondering because my girlfriend and i are thinking about trying it
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You usally talk, while masturbating or rubbing yourself, and your describe to each other what your doing to yourself it goes back and fourth...which is suppose to make it more initmate and hott...
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so when me and my boyfriend have sex, i never orgasm. it feels really good, and i love it - but i just don`t get off. i get off when he goes down on me, etc., but not during sex. what`s wrong? am i doing anything wrong? i don`t understand why i don`t get off... i`m 17 btw. any suggestions or answers would be helpful! thanks (link)
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It's harder for some women to have an orgasm during sex. You can try rubbing your clit while he's going at it, and i'm sure it'll turn him on even more, and please you at the same time. It's kind of like a two for one!!!
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my boyfriend and I were having sex the other night and he went soft. Why did this happen, is it because of me? Or because he was drunk or what? (link)
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Drinking can do some weird things to mens hormones. Some men become very horney while others not so much. He probably got really into the moment then forgot what he was doing. Its not you at all, just think about a males attention spand and then think about his attention spand plus drinking...lol :-D
I wouldnt worry a bit!!!
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What days should I avoid having sex during a girl's
cycle?
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Always use protection. You can get pregnant any day of your cycle and expecially two weeks after your cycle.
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hey guys or girls i would like to know how do u give a hand job? (link)
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put your hands or hand around his shaft and rub up and down...not too tight and not too lose, sometimes using a little lotion or lub makes is better for the guy.
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well im 15/f
and i've never had sex before
but i do use my vibrating shower head as a vibrator, just about every night.
are there any harmful affects of doing this?
and also what are some other things that i can do around the house to get the same pleasure?
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I'm not sure that all the water going up your vagina is the best idea. But using your fingers and such will turn you on just as much....
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Me and my bf have been going out for a year and like seven months anyway, i was just wandering can you start doin a blow job and finish with a hand job? i dont want any cum in my mouth so yea thats the problem. and can guys give me some advice or tricks to hand jobs...things girls do to you during a hand job that just drives you wild and you love it!! (link)
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start off with a hand job then go into a blow job and tell him to let you know when he needs to cum so you can get it out of your mouth no biggie!
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so if we had unprotected intercourse yesterday, and i was not able to go to a clinic today for the morning after pill, if i went tomorrow would that be too late? oh crap today is friday isn't it. . .would it be open on saturday?? ok NOW i'm REALLY starting to freak out.
should i talk to my boyfriend about my concern? he doesn't know that i was pregnant with my other bf's kid but had a miscarriage. (link)
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Well. If you know you guys are close enough to handle this situation together then let him know if you think it will just stress you out more and cause problems then dont tell him.
You can take the morning after pill up to 72 hour after unprotected intercorse. If you really think that you might be pregnant...Question, how long ago was your last period as weird as it seems let me know...
They might be open on a saturday but for a limited amount of time so find out as soon as you can!!!
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ive been going out w/ my boyfriend for about 7 months, and im still a virgin. i have been thinking about losing my virginity to him a lot lately,and he's a virgin too. so, does it hurt badly when you lose it? or does it depend on the guy? any info or tips would be fine! (link)
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It hurts some women and doesnt hurt others. It's no an aweful pain, sure it hurts but it's worth it in the end if your sure it's the guy you want to lose it too. Just make sure he takes it slow that will make it less painful. It's not to enjoyable or comfortable the first couple of times, but once you get past that it's amazing!!!
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When is the best time to have sex during ur periods so that u dont get pregnant?? Is it fine to have it the day when the first drops come? (link)
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Basically, without protection you have the same change of getting pregnant on your period then you do any other time...True but it sucks.
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how do you know if your pleasuring a girl when you have sex? (link)
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Well you should be abble to tell by the difference in her noises, or the tightning of her vagina around your penis. You can also tell by some women because when they get into it they start thrusting...
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how can i get myself to STOP masturbating.
any ideas are great.
15.f. (link)
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why stop. it's healthy...is something wrong???
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