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So my boyfriend and I have sex a couple of weeks ago. He put it in two or three times with out a condom and then I made him stop and put a condom on and then we had sex again. So my question is could I get pregnant from pre cum?
Yes, there is actually about an 18% chance that you could get pregnant
What's your opinion and why?
i think it depends on how old you are. if you're in high school- no. if you aren't looking for anything from the person you are doing it with and it's just for fun and you're both mature adults then i guess it's ok but personally i still wouldn't do it.
My best friend just told me something really bad tonight that I am not supposed to tell anyone. But its really bothering me and i need someones help on what i should do. & i dont wanna hear that I am a bad friend for saying this online when i wasnt supposed to tell anybody.
My friend went to her 20 year old sisters house to hang out with her. She met this kid while being there and took him back to meet her sister. One thing led to another and the two started making out in another room. Her sister and her boyfriend walked in and her boyfriend ripped my best friend off of the other guy and started taking off her clothes and feeling her up. the kid she met who she was making out with started joining in while her older sister watched and encouraged this to keep going in order to have a foursome. She doesnt want to tell her mom because she says it will ruin the family. Should i keep it a secret like i promised or say something to her mom? I don't want her to be mad at me but no matter what i need to do whats right.
first try to convince her to tell her mom. but if she really doesn't want to do it then you need to tell her that you're going to tell her mom. and then do it. this is too big of a secret to be kept.
hi im really not experienced with anythin like this but my boy just started fingering me and i wanna make him feel good too but i have no idea what im doing haha i feel lame but please help me! gimmie good ideas please :)
google: how to give a handjob
everything you ever need to know will be there :)
My boyfriend and I just started having sex, and we always use a condom. But I really want to start on birth control, except my mother doesn't approve. She doesn't even know we're sexually active. I'm 17 years old, and I'd like to know if there is a way I can get birth control without her permission or her finding out?
Thanks!
you can go to the nearest planned parenthood
or you can ask your gynecologist, they're allowed to give you the pills without your parents permission
Hello Everyone
Basically whenever me and boyfriend tried to have sex, he couldn't get it in. I am a virgin so obviously i'm tight. He was really big and got it in eventually but it hurt too much so we didn't have sex. He fingered me for a while before but it took a while to get it in.
Is there anything I can do to make it "less tight"?
i know this might sound weird and you might be uncomfortable with it, but it really does help. try using a dildo like on your own to make it 'less tight'. its gonna hurt at first but eventually it will get better and then you will be in pain when you're by yourself.. not when you're with your boyfriend!
where can a girl at age fifteen get a condom without ID or something?
you can go into any convenience store.. walgreens, etc. you don't need ID to buy a condom. i mean obviously the cashier will give you funny looks, but legally they have to sell it to you.
Everyone seems to have a problem with age I dont see why its just the some person being born a different time. What do you think?
well it's not just age that's in question, it's maturity. i'm not really sure if you're talking sexually/relationships or not but it's illegal for anyone over 18 to do anything sexually with someone under 18. kids under a certain age shouldn't be exposed to things like that so there are laws to protect them. if someone who is a lot younger is in a relationship with someone much older, they might be pressured to do things they are not ready for simply because the older person is ready for them. older people tend to be more mature and have more experience. but in a sense you are right. i believe that age shouldn't matter if you are truly in love. :) hope this helped
female
i've had sex a fair amount of times, and i never have orgasmed ! it sucks, and i really want to.
also, my pussys been kinda loose ever since before i had sex, could this be a sign of sexual abuse as a child ? when i lost my virginity the guy was like 'are you sure youre a virgin because you dont feel like it !'
i dont know , could that be the reason i dont orgasm ?
any answers and advice are welcome :)
everyone is different. theres nothing wrong with you and theres no real way to tell if someone is a virgin or not. he may have just had sex with girls that were tighter, but that doesnt really matter and hes an asshole for making that comment. i dont think you couldve been sexually abused as a child because that is a very traumatic event and you would most likely remember it. being sexually abused as a child probably wouldnt be the reason you dont orgasm anyways. maybe you just arent that into it? has it been with the same guy every time? because if it has maybe hes the reason youve never orgasmed.
I had sex with my boyfriend on saturday. He has really long and gross pubic hair. Anyway, on sunday I got my period and when I pulled out my tampon, I had one of his pubic hairs on it. What am I supposed to do? Do I tell him, should I not be really grossed out cus I am. I'm pretty much looking for opinions really. Any input would be great.
TELL HIM! that's gross. just tell him you prefer it when guys trim. or you can be more subtle and ask him if he prefers it when girls trim/shave? hopefully he will ask the same question back and then you can hint to him that you want him to shave/trim without being mean :)
whenever im masterbating& stimulating my clit, it really only takes me a few seconds to get an orgasm. i would say it takes less than 10 seconds. and then after i get one, i dont feel sexual anymore. is this normal?
yes, it is completely normal. your body is satisfied after you orgasm so you don't feel horny anymore. ha =)
this was my first time ever giving a handjob and im scared because once he cam i stopped...we were both wearing clothes so is it possible to me to get pregnant?
also ...are you suppose to stop after they cum? or keep going? cause like he was wearing pants my hand was just down them and i didn't want him to get cum all over his pants
any advice?
okay there's like the smallest chance in the world that you can get pregnant when you have your clothes on and you give a guy a handjob. unless the cum is like on your hands and then you put your hand in your pants and the sperm like magically gets inside of you then there's like no chance. haha.
but after they cum STOP. it hurts them if you keep going after that.
JOBROLOVER
ok so this guy and i were messing around and we ended up having sex. well he didnt have a condom but im on birth control. one of his friends was coming so we stopped cuz we didnt want anyone to know. so he didnt cum but could i be pregnant because i have been really tired and i've started to feel sick.
i just want to know if its possible to get pregnant if he didnt cum
yes it is possible, but it's not very likely since you said you're on birth control.
i hope everything's okay :)
can skeit still get a girl pregnant if it gets on your finger and you finger a girl
yesss.
Okay...me and my bf r deeply in love with each other..we've decided that when we have the chance we will have sex. i really love him with all my heart and this is my first time..its his first too.If i give him my virginity it is my all. he told me he really loves me too...i know..guys can lie..but i know for sure my bf is not that type of person. Last time...he fingered me and when he was not deep..it didn't hurt but tthen he moved in it started to hurt...if we have sex will it really hurt? he said it will but he'll hold me really tight..me and my bf might have unprotected sex...he told me to get pills but i dunno where to get them...but if we really do have unprotected sex...what is the chance of me getting pregnant? is there a day we shoujld have sex to lower the chance? is there a way to have sex to lower the risk? what should we do? also...can someone please teach me how to give a guy an oral...i dunno how..
no no no. DO NOT have unprotected sex. you WILL get pregnant. the whole point of having unprotected sex is to get pregnant. use a condom. just do it. it may not be as great for the guy, but ask him if he would rather wear a condom or be a daddy? also, birth control pills are necessary too. you can ask your doctor for them or you can go to planned parenthood and get them. go on this website:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org
good luck, be safe. :)
so i've been shaving down there for about a year and every time i shave i get bad red bumps. how do i get rid of them when i shave? i've shaved probably about 5 times and every time i take it more carefully than the time before. i spend about thirty minutes and apply lots of shaving cream. i wash my razor constantly and i usually use two razors in one time. i've used lotion afterwards and it does nothing to help. i just want it clean without any bumps. any suggestions? and i'm not sure i'm into waxing.
to what the person below me said.. i've tried nair and it didn't work for me so i don't know how good of an idea that is.. but you can try it. anyways, i had this same problem. you need to get some kind of special cream or something that is specifically for eliminating razor bumps and redness. you can get things like this at most salons that do waxes :)
JOBROLOVER
hello,
i just wondering if you can get ill, example being sick and dizzy spells, i swallowed his cum, he penis tasted funny he later told me sprayed his penis i also noticed his penis was rough at the side but then it could been my lipstick, could this mean that ive just got a bad gut pains, would this normal?
thanks
what did he spray it with? that's probably what's making you feel sick. or you just didn't like the taste of his cum or something so that's making you sick. tell him not to spray it next time and you should probably be fine :)
JOBROLOVER
is it better to have sex with lights on or off? dont give me the "it depends, or either" just sayy wich is better. lights on, or lights off.
i would say lights off.
it's more relaxing and sets the mood better.
also, if you're not tsuper comfortable with your body that could always help.
JOBROLOVER
heey. i don't know if you'll be able to answer my question but i noticed that you're very active like i am so im really hoping you can . :) so, ive been dancing for 8 years now and i DO use tampons but i'm a virgin. people say that if you're as active as i am sort of thing, you're hymen will probably break before having sex, what do you think that chances are for that ? sorry if this is a really dumb questionn. thanks for your time !
i'm not really sure what the chances are, but i do gymnastics and stuff so i'm guessing mine's already broken. dance is sorta similar to that so yours probably is too. i'm not really sure how to tell.. but you could like ask your doctor i guess next time you go? haha. sorry i couldn't be more helpful
JOBROLOVER
thanks for the advice. i was just getting paranoid. but no semen or sperm came out and i took the pill. so i should be fine right?
yeah you should probably be fine.
i mean,
- you didn't actually have sex
- you didn't see any semen come out
- and you took the pill
so there's a pretty good chance you're totally fine.
JOBROLOVER