Is it ok if I put peanut butter on my vagina then let my dog lick it?
no you can get an infection dogs carry bacteria around and well also using peanut butter there could cause infection,
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what is the best way for size. I been looking in to products they sale, they dont seem to work for penis enlargement like they say. If you can answer this question or give me a good product name or some result info. Im looking for a BIGGER and THICKER PENIS. THX.
im sorry, penis enlargment its not yet an option
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so im 13 and i have gone through a lot of crap in my life, a lot. not really gonna go into detail, but basically what happeened in a nutshell is my life went upside down from being fun-loving girl to being confused, depressed and suicidal. thankfully i am not any of the last three discriptions anymore. I have lifted a weight off my chest and i feel very releived, but when i did lift the weight off my chest, it was the most pain i've felt in a long time. before that i was kinda numb or depressed you could say, but when this happened i exploded out of rage and anger. and i did cut. but i promised i would never do it again. how could i? it was basically the worst thing in my life that ever happened. things can only get better. i have been seeing a therapist. it is helping me.now is the time im trying to go back to being that fun-loving social butterfly i was before, even before i was depressed. so im determined to get my happy back with the help of going to therapy once a week, not cutting (which i only did 2x)and being optimistic, and improving myself by maybe who knows? becoming a nicer person, doing yoga and eating right? i think this is a great start for me to being myslef again. the weight i lifted off my chest recently happened about a month ago. and i feel the need to smoke, and drink, and do pot. Now i know it is not legal i am aware of that. and i know its not coming from a "normal" place, bc kids my age do not start that until maybe 16-18 yrs old. and i now realize that its coming from a place of hurt, since i said its the most pain i've felt in a long time. if i get over the hurt, since the weight has been lifted, and work on myself, will it pass? will the pain pass just like the drugs? i was also wandering if i were or did do drugs of some sort will it help ease the pain, on top of me working on myself? if u watch the movie Thirteen its almost identical what i went thru. so thank you sooo much xoxoxo im sry it was long. please give AS MUCH ADIVCE AS POSSIBLE THANK YOU.
as someone who has done both alcohol and pot, i wouldnt recommend specially if you're not feeling well....
mariajuana makes you feel lazy, which tbh makes you feel a sad, so it doesnt help, people who say marijuana helps ease pain they're not refering to emotional pain, sometimes they use it for medical reasons like physical pain , so in your case i would not recommend it , or in any case but im telling you it will make you feel even worst, and when the effect passes you'll feel the same , so it is not a temporary or definite solution, by feeling lazy you tend to feel sad, like not wanting to do anthing, now imagine feeling extremly lazy while being depressed? it will make you feel MORE depressed
i went through a phase of sadness aswell...and i can tell you doing alcohol and smoking its the worst you can do under this circumstances, you have to find something that gives you some sort of motivation or keeps your mind from thinking of all the sadness, my recommendation would be to take some kind of class or something you enjoy, but to be honest what helped me more was excercice, i am not a big fan of doing sports, of any kind, but i forced myself into going to the gym running etc. doing this kind of activities makes you produce endorphines, which make you feel happy ! not like SUPER happy but you feel better, endorphines cause that effect on people, look it up if you want,
if your depression is chronic or something you should keep seein a therapist, and maybe they will give you some medication if its REALLY a big issue, mine i found my way to fix it by excercising, but for example my brother suffered from serious depression like literally he would sleep all day, not eat, miss school, etc...so his therapist prescribed him some stuff, which helped him going through that phase, he was extremly depressed and suicidal sometimes... i dont wanna seem dramatic but he had some bad teenage years he really wanted to kill himself run away of the house from time to time etc... but as usual what really helped was keeping himself busy, he has an interest in politics so he started getting into groups and stuff and now hes doing much better no need for medication
also if i might recommend you something else theres something that helped my brother ALOT with his problem, he suffers from OCD that caused his depression and suicidal phase when he was a teenager, he went into some sort of technic that is realted to budhism (i know it sounds crazy) but this technic helps you deal with pain in life and to accept some aspects about your life, it doesnt mean you have to become a budhist or anything , but mediation helps alot of these people people who were there were peopel with this problems people who just had no meaning in their lifes and were depressed, suicidal, doing drugs, etc.... so you might want to check it out http://www.dhamma.org/ this is just an example but you might find other ways of meditation like with a group etc that teach you how to do it etc.... if you wanna give it a shot..
so bottom line id say try doing sports, it might be difficult at first if you dont enjoy them, but you will feel happier everytime you do it and after it, try learning something focusing on stuff force yourself to get into some kind of group or something that might keep you busy so this way you will stop thinking about whatever is that is keeping you so depressed and suicidal, go to a therapist if you feel it will help you maybe you actually need medication, or give mediation a shot, read about it you wont regreat it. everyone has their own way to cope with this problems, mine was keeping myself busy doing sports taking classes learning stuff , other people use running to help them with depression, my brother did, and medication, and meditation, he is so much better now. not perfect tho as i am aswell but we are both so MUCH better .
if you feel you need to talk to someone you can contact me , i understand what its like to feel alone while you're all depressed. so feel free to contact me if you want to just talk or something i hope you listen to my advice cause i know i didnt suffer from that kind of depression of feeling like wanting to cut myself...or something like that...but i understand it, because i live with someone who had chronic depression.
id be a hypocrite to tell you not to drink or smoke ever, cause i do them but i do them for different reasons, not as some sort of escape, so please listen to me,,, with what i can tell you're going through i would NOT recommend doing them, it will make you feel worst, its a depressent of course when you're doing it under difference cricumstances like drinking in college etc having fun then its normal and wouldnt have this effect, but the way you want to do it...will make you more depressed , so please don't do it what i told you could actually be a solution, this are not, think about it this way....
when you smoke or get drunk...its like ....you have this huge problem or whatever youre going through and feel extremly sad...you go to bed and sleep...and you dont feel it anymore..however ..when you wake up, the same feeling will be there, same situation, so sleeping didn't really helped you get over it right?...is the SAME thing when you want to do drugs and alcohol as a way to solve problems.
i hope you get better and i really mean if if you want to talk to someone i think i would be a good option, im 21 years old which means older than you and i know what you're going through.
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ok so i do think you should tell your therapist about cutting, i dont see why you havenet told your therapist this, because its very important so she knows how serious the situation is. i dont think you should take meds if you don't need them,this is gonna sound stupid but trust me everything you take damages your body even meds thats why its not recommended if really not needed besides the side effects
also did you know that taking medications while you drink its a big NO?it causes damage to your liver more than the damage you would get by just drinking or just meds, doing both at the same time can cause with certain medication damage even to your heart. so if you like drinking and smoking and you want to start taking meds you should know that you have to do one or the other one but not combined cause the meds used as antidepressents are strong, and maybe you wont see the damage now or months or a year, but when you're a bit older you will see the damage..my brother couldnt drink while he was on meds also it can have bad side effects, so he stopped while he was on meds, any kind of medication combined with alcohol is a big no...
don't think about taking meds just because you want to feel super happy, if you really need them given your circumstances your doctor will prescribe them, make sure to tell your therapist things as they are, it doesnt matter if you tell her you drink and smoke to ease your pain etc and that youre underage, i mean of course it matters but she needs to know this , dont worry about her telling your parents since theres a confidentiality thing between therapist and patient so to get a better diagnosed and so she can help you, tell her everything, my advice would be if you want to keep doing what you're doing drinking and smoking don't get into meds, but also what is your priority? getting better or having fun drinking and smoking? think about it.
anti depresants are not gonna make you more depressed the thing is this medicine affect the way you feel while you're under the effect of it , its like saying...if you're drinking you will feel super happy maybe then when the effect fades,,you're back to the same, its the same thing with anti depresents, thats why my brother found a better solution than taking meds because this is just a temporary fix,
i think you're on the right path with all you're telling me you're doing to get bettter and i really hope it works for you! i dont know if maybe you're expecting tooo much..but to be honest i dont think people feel SUPER HAPPY haha its just about being content or ok with your life i think, you dont have to feel happy all the time or never feel sad, its normal maybe you should try to find what is making you wanting to cut yourself there must be something that is causing all of that depression. so go to the root of the problem :) and about taking meds only do it if your therapist suggests it but tell her everything that you're doing now including the cutting and drinking and smoking, maybe you actually need medication and it might help, or maybe you don't even need them :) don't get stuff into your body that are not needed like that kind of strong medication,
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So I know you bleed for the first time you have sex but I was wondering how much and how long?
depends on everyone some people dont bleed at all some just bleed very little like not enough to leave a stain and it isnt that much sometimes its just spotting
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so i shave down there and it always leaves bumps and makes me feel uncomfortable around my bf. i use shaving gel and a new razor and everything... i dont wanna wax it cuz it will hurt and i cant get lazer hair removal so any advice on what might help?
every girl goes through this and i finally found a perfect solution for me ...wax it BUT have some kind of lidocaine first!
lidocaine is something that applied to your skin it makes it numb, its used before you have to get an injection or anything like that, i first found out about it through my dad(he's a doctor ) and im soo scared of needles and there was a time i used to get blood tests regularly, you literally apply it like an hour before and not even that much, and wait a bit and literally feel NOTHING , i had it aswell before puttin an IV on my hand and the same thing i felt nothing, ive been using it for years and i just love it lol ! but be careful not to put TOO much, just the right amount to numb for a short period of time , is usually sold as cream, so try to get any cream that contains "lidocaine" one example of this is the one called EMLA (you can get this at any real pharmacy not like walmart and that type) its not really that cheap and depends on the presentation but mine was about 25 dll, and to be honest if it helps me feel nothing and to wax which means having not to shave that often i think its worth the price
here's a description of it...
EMLA (Eutectic mixture of Local Anesthetic) is a local anaesthetic for topical application, developed to anaesthetise intact skin. EMLA is used to prevent pain associated with needle insertion, intravenous cannulation, laser hair removal and superficial surgery on skin and genital mucous membrane. It can also be used to relieve and prevent pain associated with the cleansing and treatment of leg ulcers.
goood luck and well thats a good alternaitive i can think of :P
also if you wanna keep shaving of course it helps to also like get the skin in touch with warm water , or you could also buy a hair removal cream, i have one of those and pretty much you get the same result as with sahving but with no pain at all, of course theres nothing like waxing but to my preference i prefer waxing cause it looks better, then id choose hair removal cream , and last resource shaving with a razor cause its painful sometimes and it doesnt even look 100% with no hair, sally hansen's hair removal cream its actually pretty good cause this creams usually have a very strong smell, and this one has no smell at all ! :) unless you hold it REALLY close to your nose of course hahaha ..
anyway ive made ti too long, try hair removal cream or emla cream and waxing :)
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So since i'm in Middle School , my friends talk about sex and i am so fed up with it , so one day my friend mary came over and since my mom and dad were gone i thought i would watch a scary movie with her , so after the movie ended we were bored so she said do i want to try something and i said yes . In a couple of minutes i had her on my stomach and she was going up and down until i just came and next thing we were doing anal sex but out of nowhere she started crying and said she loved me but im not ready
if you do not have feelings for her u shouldnt be getting physical with her cause it sends her the wrong message, as a girl i can say that sometimes we try to make the guy like us and you by responding to whatever she did bj and anal sex might've given her the wrong idea that you might be into her but then she might've been crying cause she felt kinda 'used' even if that wasn't ur intention but she must've been confused wondering like 'did we just did this because he feels something for me or just because i agree on it ?' trust me girls go crazy over that kind of stuff and she might've not realised on time hence why she started crying and telling you the truth, also this might be an attempt for her to make you not get the wrong idea that she just did that with you cause she's a slut or whatever, more like , hey this happened because i love you dont get the wrong idea about me,
but thats just my guess , this sounds like she was trying to make a move on you but tbh sex and bj wasn't the answer cause tbh most guys just answer to this kind of things, but that doesnt mean they feel something for the girl, if you do not have feelings for her , dont agree on doing stuff with her like this, treat her as a friend if thats all she is to you.
IF you do have feelings for her but you're just not ready to jump into something, take it slow, tell her that you like her aswell (if thats the case) and try to date her not just get this kind of 'benefits' from her , that's the right thing to do for her.
if you do not have feelings for her and if she asks like then why you agree on that, apologise to her and explain that you care more about her friendship or something that makes her get the idea that ure not interested without being mean and without saying ' hey im not into you but i used you for a bj and sex' cause that's like one of the worst things for a girl to get from a guy they love
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allllllright. so i answer a lot of questions about pregnancy on here, so i know how irritating these kinds are. but its just a question. if it bothers you, don't answer :) thats what i do, anyway.
the last time i had sex was two weeks ago. we used a condom at first, and then it was slipping because of the lube, so we took it off. he didn't finish, but he was close. and we did it for about ten-15 minutes without the condom on.
what is the percentage of a chance that i could be pregnant, even if he didnt come? (i dont know if he pre-came or not. he says he didnt, but i cant be too sure)
thanks.
there's always precum even if the guy wasn't close to comming, so theres always a chance one the penis is inside the vagina, it doesn't matter if its for 1 second, as long as there's precum thats enough chance
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I'm a 17 year old girl and my boyfriend's also 17.
My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months (4 when we first had sex). We were going to wait to have sex until we were 18 (for practicality but also for privacy reasons), but that didn't work out so well, lol. We had sex once (we were each other's firsts) and were completely safe about it. We both agreed it was amazing and a week later when we were alone again, we had sex for the second time and it was even better. I didn't see him the next week because he went on a family trip so, you know, I missed him a lot! When he got home this past weekend, we started getting really intimate. Right when we were about to have sex, he announced that he didn't want to have sex anymore and that he wanted to wait until we graduated. I thought this was really weird, but he wouldn't say anything more about it. The week has gone on and he's been the same old guy. He's sweet, and thoughtful, and amazing... and guys, I really love him. He just won't talk to me about it. To tell you the truth, I really like sex. I don't want to wait a year. However, he mans a lot to me and I don't want to ruin this. Any advice on why he's doing this or how to get him to talk? Thanks so much!
mmmh actually that same thing happened to me just that i was like your guy lol maybe he does feel guilty about it or maybe he just really doesn't want things to go wrong and start with all those things sex brings to a relationship among them pregnancy scares lol! thats why i wanted to wait til graduating. but talk to him about it, try being comprehensive and not too pushy about wanting to have sex. good luck
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I'm absolutely crazy inlove with my boyfriend.
I'm 15, he's 18. I recently posted a post about prom tiaras.
Well, this year is his prom, I want to make it extra special. We've been dating for 11 months and 1 day. He isnt my first love, & thats how I know that I love him. I've dated alot of guys, so I know what I have to choose from.
We've had sex. & I really just want to know how to make his prom special. I know we probably wont go to "After Prom" & if we do, we wont stay the whole time. & I'm sure we wont go home afterwards. So, just give me a few ideas, on what I can do to make his prom special..
BTW. I'm going dress shopping in the first few weeks of January, & I'm strictly forbidden to let him even see a glimpse of my dress until the day of prom when he comes to pick me up.
Thanks in advance!
k so honestly i think the best way to make his prom special would be to be all time with him and friends not just the two of you, cause i've been through all this and prom is something to spend of course with your date and most of all your friends cause its a very special moment you'll cherish so i think you should not just be focuse on beign the two of you all time, talk to his friends too , you should go to "after prom" cause eventhough you both dont feel like it , in that day you wont regreat going i know many people that just focus on being with his her partner and missed after prom and spent most of the night with their dates had sex blabla but then when this couples brake up they regreat missing this important day instead of spending it with their dates + their friends , i know maybe its not the kind of advice you're looking for but trust me. at least something really important for me at my prom was that my bf was also with my firends so it wasnt awkward and we where all together went to after prom and we just had a great time , or you could just make a small get together wih his friends and dates oh and about the dress i think is a great idea to forbid him to see it! is there any possibility you could spend the night together? cause that would be in my opinion like a great plan for prom, oh remmeber to take lots of pics go dance with him and his friends maybe just an hour or 2 to after prom so he wont regreat missing it (i think he'll really appreciate it ) and then spend the night together and if you two are having sex or something buy some sexy lingerie ;) so in my opinion making the perfect combination between being iwth friends and your girlfriend would be enough for a memorable prom he'll appreciate just make sure he dances a lot hahah even if he doesnt like it too much but he'll have a great time ) hope i helped
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hey ok im really scared Becvause i think i might have gotten this girl pregnant i went to her house at night and i was really drunk we had unprotected sex for seriously like 1 minute and i pulled out because i wanted a condom i wasnt even close to cumming cuz i t wasnt that great..i dont know if i pre cummed and thats what im scared about but i was drunk and u ejaculated earlier that day but like i said i was drunk and was peeing ALOT did this clean out the leftover sperm? and could she pregnant? and she DID take the morning after poill
ok i f you didnt cum inside her theres less possibility for her to be preagnant + you said it didn't last long so now your possibilities of getting the girl pregnant decrease and she took the pill which as far as i know is 99% safe sooo it seems very unlickly to me that she might be pregnant, dont try to think about this stuff too much whn you dont even know the answer cause antisipation will just consume you until you know what really happens if shes pregnant or not, just wait but it seems unlickly she could be pregnant cause you didnt cum, it was quick and she took the pill,,its seems sooooo unlickly she'd be pregnant so dont worry at least for now! ,better luck next time be safe cause the morning after pill is not safe for many girls if they take it regularly good luck hope everything works out great :)
oh yea and about the ejaculated earlier thing..dont worry about this ..sperm deoesnt last long alive while its not on its environment,,light kills sperm and so does air, so dont worry about this its not like tis going to keep there "alive" for minutes . they last a matter of seconds outside its environment :) so i dont think that this is ap roblem
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is it healthy to repeatedly have sex?
it is not like yeah practice sex at least 5 times a week or something but it is not unhealthy.. it helps your heart avoiding heart attacks etc. its in here read it :) http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/16282622/ it might be unhealthy because of the stds and those kind of things
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Can a girl become pregnant from precum?
yes. because precum contains a certain amount of sperm, eventhough some people ignore it , it doesnt contain the sme amount as cum but eventhough its a little amount still can get pregnant .
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Does anyone think a 14 yr old having sex would be slutty? If she has been with this guy for a year, or even less than 12 months, but more than 4? and them knowing each other for 2 years?
This is not about me, I'm just wondering, and no offense to any 14 yr olds, it's just that some people call sluts now-a-days for wearing skirts, or too much eyeliner.
Anywho...you think it'd be better if she was 15? And she knew the consequences, and had was taking birth control, had condoms, etc.
Give me your opinions, thanks!
in my opinion at 14 or 15 still a very inmature person mentally to have sex and face the consequences , i think you should do it until your mature enough mentally
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how can me and my boyfriend have fun without doing like blowjobs and giving handjobs and all that.
i mean like dress up. or something we can have funnn with. any ideas will be great
thanks.
massage (:
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My boyfriend fingered me like 3 months ago.. and it bled. But he had fingered me like 30 times before that day that it blead. So I was just wondering. We are planning on having sex pretty soon and I was wondering if it could still bleed even though it bled once when he fingered me...
And also, I want my FIRST TIME to be remerable. Any suggestionS? we both still live at home...
He has his liscense though
if your hime broke already i guess it won't bleed again, cause normaly its like it bleeds when you brake this , thats the reason of the bleeding ..take care ! oh rememeber protection ahahaha just in case
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Well thanx for helping me with my last situation about my period but the think also is that my period has been irregular even before i had sex!!
maybe it's just because your growing up, it takes a while to stabilize, sometimes until you complete your growing stage =) don't worry about it
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hey wanna be friend??
ok
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do girls mastuerbate?? and how??
mmm fingering?
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hi i was the one that asked this question
okay so my boyfriend is coming over next weekend
and were gonna be in my room.. alone
any fun stuff we can do.. like not sex though
because im not ready to go that far yet
were gonna like watch a movie and stuff
but whats some stuff that guys like you to do?
like were probably gonna end up like on my bed or something
and then you said you needed to know more
well...
like what is some stuff that guys like you to do to them..like nothing past 3rd base
and like i know hj & bj
so dont say that
like any other cute stuff like fun ways of making out or anything like that
hei htere are some games,, that involves drinking but i don't think you'll wanna do that cause you know things might happen mmm i've been searching trhough the internet for any ideas and i found ...twister..strip chocolate which i didn't get the idea very good lol, ..this one i think it's good though i dk how to explain it 5) Foreplay: A Game for Lovers
Fantasy and foreplay are encouraged in this adult game. Again, players pick "to-do" cards in Foreplay: A Game for Lovers, which challenges them with emotional and physical tasks...you buy it but i thnk you chould make the caards so you'll establish limits in what you are whilling to do and not =)
this is another one ...8) Fan the Flames
For some couples, it's easier to write a sexual fantasy than say it out loud. A card game, Fan the Flames contains blank "wish" cards to do just that. The box also includes "guess" cards, to test how well you know your partner, and "flame" cards that suggest a reward for guessing correctly.
massagees =)!!! search about it on internet ..cards with parts of the body which you'll choose random and kiss or do something that involves that part ...maybe this is what your looking 4 idk http://x.xfrenchtoastx.x.tripod.com/id4.html
and i cant think of anything else hope you get any ideas from it =) or google it ..fun couple games. or anything like that good luck!
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Okay well the last time I had sex was 7 months ago (it was also my first time). Since that time my period hasn't come. I know I'm not pregnant because my belly hasn't grown and I don't think I've had any pregnancy smptoms. My question is "Why hasn't my period came?"
go see a doctor ,, i mean after your 1st time you are a little irregular but not TAHT much
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