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im amanda. im 16 && if you ask me a question ill kinda help you. i wont be bitchy, unless youre bitchy first, so ya.
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Two questions about pre-marriagal sex... first one, am I spelling it right? I just like to know how to spell things, sorry to waste your time. Second one, before Advicenators, I was always under the impression that pre-marriagal sex was just for the screwed-in-the-head potheads and the sluts/whores. But now I'm looking at these questions, and seriously folks, it's just insane how many people are saying "I've been with my b/f three months and we had sex last night, is that too little time?" or something like that. Are my thoughts on pre-marriagal sex wrong? Note: Smartasses get 1s and will be reported. Give me real advice. (link)
Your views aren't wrong at all. You just have high morals, which is very good. I know how you feel about thinking that your views are wrong...but they're not i promise! lol If you have anymore questions just ask! Goodluck!


is it possible to become pregnant in this situation:
a guy touches his.. thing, and gets that "pre-cum" or whatever on his hand/fingers. then he fingers a girl, a few minutes later, with the same hand as before.
please only answer if you actually know what you're talking about. (link)
the chances are VERY low...pretty much impossible. you never know though, but i think its safe to say you wont get pregnant. just be more careful next time, good luck!


Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex and i bled on him, we thought that it was jusy my period coming because i am late...but it wasnt my period. He said that it could be possible that i contracted a std from my previous relationship or i could be pregnant. Im not sure what to do or what to believe~Im going crazy because i dont have anyone to talk to about this and if i do have a std he'll probably leave me...and i dont think that i would want to live without him; i'll be better off commiting suicide. (link)
you need to get tested for stds and to see if your pregnant. but it also could've been something else...like you had a cut and it got irritated while you were having sex and started to bleed...or something else. but if you do have an std you need to make sure you tell him. and if he does leave you..you'll be okay. it'll be hard but youll make it.

good luck and be safe!!


I keep having these sexual fantasies where I'm sexually dominated - the guy hits me or forces me to have sex; mostly, they revolve around rape. These are my most frequent fantasies. I'm a very strong-willed girl in my actual life, and what I can't get is, why is this the most surefire way to turn me on? Would this scare guys? (I've never had a boyfriend). Am I a sadist? (link)
no this wouldnt scare guys, a lot of people are into that kinky kinda stuff lol. but...umm its also probably because youre usually very strong willed, you might want a change, to be dominated. a lot of guys are actully turned on by this kind of thing. its kind of hard to explain. if you have other questions leave some in my inbox.


if u gave a guy head, and they didnt cum could you still get a STD or aids? (link)
unfortunatly yes, but you cant get HIV/AIDS.if youre worried you should get tested... good luck!


how do you know if you have an std without getting tested (link)
some stds have sypmtoms..but most dont, so the best way to find out is to get tested.


Okay.. I'm 14 and a female.. I've had my period since like 6 or 7th grade now I am in 9th.. It's been pretty regular for the most part! Well like the week before new years I got my period.. then I went to my friends house on new years and my ex bf was there. He still liked me and he was acting pretty fricken horny.. well hey it was new years so I got really drunk.. I only remember parts of what happened! Anyways I felt kinda weird the next day.. I thought it was just like the hangover or something because I mean I didn't know.. I don't get drunk a lot!! Well anyways.. it's now February..almost March and I haven't got my period at all!! I don't know what happened between me and my ex.. I have a bad feeling he took advantage of me when I was drunk and took my virginity! The thing is if I am pregnant by any chance... it wouldn't be rape.. at that time.. I might have wanted it! Does anyone know what I can do.. I am going to take a pregnancy test and all I just don't know if I should be looking for signs.. I have gained weight since then too.. not a lot but like 5 pounds! I am really small too I went from 89 to 94 in the past month and a half! Should I be having any discharge or what?? Someone help please! (link)
if you were drunk, it would be considered rape. but you might be pregnant. you should take a test. and if you are you should tell your parents, or mom or whoever. then you need to talk to your ex about it


ok ive done a hand job before but my friend keeps askin when is he gettin his and i keep tell him i dont kno and like i dont wanna come off as a ho doing that to someone im not with..is that hoeish ? i do have feelings for him though (link)
if you have feelings for him, and you wat to do it. do it.


hey um this is kind of awkward, but i'm 13 going on 14 in a couple of months, and i belive i have met "the one" and he wants to um finger me, and i am totally comfortable with it, but my parents arn't. should i do it behing my parents back, or listen to my parents and not do it at all, but my mom is the one whos conserned my dad doesn't care. i've already talk to them about it, have you ever got fingered of done ti to someone? if not then how old were you when you did it, please.... im so CONFUSED! i'll rate! (link)
wait...whoa. you told your parents? hmm well i guess if youre cool with that lol. but umm i guess if youre reay go for it!


how do u get tested fo a sti?im worried (link)
gyno, doctor,or somewhere along those lines. good luck.


I was wondering if it's possible to get pregnant from swallowing...my boyfriend and I have been messing around so this question came up. Thanks.

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no, you cant


well i like this guy.. duh lol.. so anyways during the summer he told me that he liked me and i didnt like him then but i was really good friends with him so i was flattered but didnt like him back.. so then during the school year we kinda "hooked up" and we went to 3rd base.. and so ever since them i have had feelings for him... whenever hes around other girls i get jealous and it sucks.. i told him that i liked him and said i dunno if it is because we did stuff together or not.. and he just said "aww" and i still have these feelings for him and to make it worse we hooked up again so my feelings are even stronger.. but i dont really want to go out with him.. but i just like him a lot.. sry its so long --please help-- =] x3 (link)
if you dont want to go out with him, dont complain about it he can do what he wants, and stop hooking up with him because its only gonna make you more jealous




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