hey my names amy im 18 and experanced many things in my life though being excepted within friends, all kinds of emotions, sex, realtionships, bullying. never be affaird to ask for advice day or night
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Age: 16
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ok so ive had sex quit a few times and with different people but ive never orgasmed!! ive been with my boyfriend a few months now and hes getting really upset that he cant make me orgasm! i dont know what to do. i would fake it but we promised each other we'd always be honast about everything and he can tell when im lying! so is there any way i can help myself to orgasm? is there anything i can do??
please help!!
any advice is wanted!!
i'll rate high!! (link)
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ok have you ever cum dueing masterbation urself???? Often many ppl cart orgasm and they say it will happen witht the right person however if you was to experment with foreplay such as masterbation instead of putting to much pressure on trying to orgasm will realese the preasure and allow you to enjoy sex and possibly orgasm this many take a couple of times to pracise
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last weekend i had sex with my boyfriend and now im worried im pregnet cause we didnt use a rubber but he did pull out (link)
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ok im not sure if you kown this but pulling out is not safe sex because semen can still be present on the penis. You are to late to take the moring after pill in which should be taken 3 days after however i think there is another pill available up to 7 days however i am not sure. you never to visit a family planning or some hospitals offer sexual health pracises of confide in your parents or teacher. I wish i could put your mind at rest but you need to talk this though with an adult and i wish you the best of luck many of us go though this and we all need to keep safe and protected from pregancy and dieses
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I want to wait until I am married to have sex. My friend and I were talking and this is what she said to me, "My mom told me she didn't want me to wait until marriage to have sex, because she wanted me to know what to do." I was thinking about it and I don't know anymore. I mean I don't want to go and read things on what to do/watch porn and stuff. I am not that kind of girl. Plus, all my friends say they just want to wait until after they turn 16. I mean its not part of my religion. Its part of what I think is right. I mean I at least want to wait until marriage is on option... I don't know.
Should I wait? (link)
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i believe you shouldnt rush into having sex its not about you knowing what to do or where to touch its about the emotional side after words which people dont tend to talk about. if you was to wait till you was married or in a serious relationship it would be more special because you have formed the bond of trust, love and the emotional side. In sted of givin in to pressure having a 1 night stand and knowing the guy doesn;t care for you and your left being hurt. all strong relationships take place from friendships not based around sex make your own decisions when the moments right sex will become natural i hope i helped
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Ok the subject sounds a little harsh for what I am about to say. My brother watches porn. I mean alot of porn. Its not really occasional, it's routinely. Sometimes I feel bad because, I get a little curious and I watch a video, but I mean now sometimes I feel sick. I regret ever watching the video because all I can think of is its contents. Thats not all I have seen, I have seen pictures and things on TV. I wish I had never seen any of it, because now my mind wanders to places I don't want it to wander. Does anybody else have this problem? Is there anyway for me to restore my "innocence"? (link)
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being curious is natural as you enter your teenage years as long as it isn't exploting children of a young age (stars of the porn) the innocence you talk about is that your are curious about how u can ecplore sex yet i dont believe you are ready for sex.
the message is its natural and everyone does it. It becomes more serious if you are being fored to watch or take part in sexual attivity without your concent and if you are under the age of concent of sex . i hoped i helped a little
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Ok me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now and he wants to have sex and I do too but there is just one problem I have a disease and I don’t know if I should tell him or not because I don’t want him too to think of me different but we are going to use protection and everything just I don’t want to tell him! And I am sooooo scared! I don’t know about what maybe about him knowing my deepest darkest secret, I don’t know! Please help me! (link)
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Hey , Though personal experances of my own of beeing emontional attacted to guys you have to protect your feelings if this guy is your bf then be honest about your diseas however if this diesea is realtity to a STD you have no choice to tell him. Sex is an expertion of showing respect and if you cart be honest with ur partern then you arnt ready for sex.Sex will change everything and you may experance an emontion over balance. Take care and assure your having sex for the right reasons and that ur realtionship is strong sex is not going to save your relationship and make him stay around.
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My boyfriend and i are 17 and have just started having sex main problem is his penis does'nt go all the way in and it goes soft his penis isnt
real big and he's insecure about it, i told him it
does'nt matter but he thinks he is the problem
what can we do? (link)
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you need to resure ur bf, Guys feel let down if there cart preform for a girl they fancy. Ur bf needs to relase . U can use for play to spice things up and b intemate with. Give it time if the problem is consistance she the doctor
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can you get pregnant from anal sex (link)
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no but u can still catch std's. Another word of advice u should never use the condom in ur vagina and then use it in ur anal. U need to reuse a new one. The lubation on the condom rubs of and can cause it not to work probly always carry more than one condom. Also if a girl carries a condom it shows how responablie she is and SAFE ur bf will respect u for this.
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does it hurt when u have sex? like a lot...or is it just emotional stuff that hurts? someone please tell me!!! ...lost...
p.s. im 14 year old female (link)
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Some times sex hurts but its depends on how tight ur body is. the hurt will turn to plesure and if it doesnt there are creams u caN USE TO rub onto the condom andf it will allow the penis to enter a vagina.
At school they tend not to teach us about emontion hurt which i feel is just as inportant i got hurt very badly by having sex. You have to look inside ur head and she if u readt 16 + or if u wanna wait. My advice is when ur odd euff 16 + if =it want to and it feels right have sex with ur bf or some1 special dont have one night stands because sex is specail the way they touch u and kiss u special but in a one night stand it means nothing to them and they sleep with many women and men think of the STD'd allways us protyection
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IS a gigolo the same thing as a prostitute but it's a guy? (link)
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ive never heard of it look it up in a dictorary
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I wanna know the best way to pleasure my self without using dildo's or vibrators. I mean yeah i know figer yourself but that does nothing for me. I AM soo horny right now and i wanna know the best way to get a really awesome orgasm.......PLEASE HELP QUICKLY!!! (link)
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its about experimenting , use ur hands, fingers toys. Circula movements about the lips of the clit or fingering is a great way to cum but as i say its about experimenting and what feels right to u
have fun
by friend2all
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im a girl whos 13 and i cant stop thinking about having sex with this boy im sooo horny when i see him... what should i do? (link)
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do nothing u r to young. You are no where near ready to take on the responiablity of sex the goverment gave the legal age of consent 16 because they believe anyone younger is no where near ready. If ur horny masterbate by urself for urself.
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ok, lots of guys like me and think i'm hot. i think i'm pretty, but not REALLY pretty. but anyways, all the guys at my school grab my butt and all they want to do is have sex. i'm afraid that if i do go out with someone, that all they'll want to do is have sex, and i'm SOOOOOOOOO not ready or even into having sex yet( i'm in 7th grade). What should i do??
Pleaz help asap!! (link)
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u r far to yound for anything sexual. You need to tell a teacher guys are touching ur bottom and tell them to stop. I am sure u r pretty but beuity is with in and u need to be a kid have fun. U dont not need bfs but u can have boys as mates as long as its only mates dont do anything u dont want to. It is very serious u will suffer in the long run and if they do touce or force sex which i hope there dont there are old either to be charched and but in a child camp which is very serious if u need or anything happens advice nators r here 4 u
be a kid and have fun
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Me and my boyfriend are 17 and when we go to have sex his penis went soft a couple of times he got
embaressed about it next time i gave him a hand job and he got hard but he lost his erection after
a couple of minutes does this happen to guys often? im not sure what to do about it he really insecure. (link)
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ur bf must have been nervous guys sometimes fancy a girl so much that its the pressure to get everything right start slow kissing and be their for each other gd luck and take care
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Ok my sex really sucks! what do i do? gosh please help me soon!!! my gosh!! maybe its because i am really ugly and i have a giant mole on my chin! everyone calls me triple m! for monkey, mole, and mouse! gosh.....and i weigh like 290 lbs? is that bad? oh and i am 5'3" (link)
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there is nothin wrong with what u look like. Firstly if u start to feel bad about ur self u will begin not to like urself then ur sex liofe will really such. my advice if u dont have a bf look to make friends with guys and see if u end up datin dont rush it in the mean time u could pleasure ur self or buy toys. if u would like more advice im amy at aimiie@msn.com take care and lots of love.
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Im a guy...whats a good way to masturbate....
please use details!
Thanks (link)
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there is no right or wrong way to masterabate it about plzin ur self uring ur hand to pleasure ur self. take it slow and gentle u will find a way that plzes u best
take care and lots of love
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does it hurt when u have sex? (link)
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for some ppl it hurts and some it dont dont worry just relax and dont do anything u dont wanna do. Take it slow and dont try to end it to soon enjoy expressing ur self to ur parnter. p.s it is illegal to have sex under the age of 16 even it is consended . take care and lots of love
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Me and my boyfriend are 17 and we have started having sex both our first time problem is that
when he puts his penis in it hurts a lot 3 times
we've had sex and it hurt every time his penis is quite big and hard am i too small for his penis?
and what can we do ? (link)
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Some times many girls feel discoftort what u can do is go to the cemist and ask for advice on some cream that u rub onto the condom that will not affect the condoms or make them split but dont just find some cream lieing around coz there can affect the condom and will have a risk of u gettin preagant or u could go and talk to ur family planing who are always there to listern and advice. Good look and lots of love.
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I haven't had a boy friend yet but I feel like I could just pick any boy and have sex with them but i'm afriad to ask to hook up with the guy.
I just REALLY REALLY REALLY!!!!!!!! need sex do you think i'm desperate HELP ME (link)
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You may feel like a one night stand may not change ur life and its just for fun but what if this guy has STD's. I been down this road and yeah it feels good for a start but then you may feel used or dirty. Look to have make friends with boys first then nothing more special then haveing sex with your bf. Sex is special its showing your feelings to someone you care about and after you get to sunnglew up together please its ur choice but use protection. You can always going to your nearest family planning clinct they are friendly and give advise. Take care lots of love
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does it hurt to have sex if it is your first time?i eman is there a lot of pain involed for the girl? (link)
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it depends if sex hurts for some girls sex hurts and for some it doesnt. Personal sex doesnt hurt me i've have different size and the best sex ive had was with a guy who have a fat penis its doesnt hurt but it gives u pleasure but on the serious side always use condoms and think alot before you have sex it changes ur life forever. if its your first time do it with someone special. sont waste it on someone who means nothing take care and lots of love
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