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what positoins can i have sex? (link)
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This is a great site for sex info:
http://www.sexdictionary.info/sexpositions.html
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im 16/f & ive had sex twice,& i didn't bleed. how can i tell if my cherry/hymen is already popped?? where is it anyway?? any websites or anything would be great. thanks :] (link)
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A great site, there you'll find all information you need :)
http://www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/hymen.htm
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Ok, I heard that a guy's ejaculate is supposed to taste a bit like tears. Then what is the analogy for a girl's ummmm... pussy? (for lack of a better word) What is it supposed to taste like?
Only for people who have tasted one.... lol.
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Lemonade!
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okay. me and this kid have a history. we've dated on and off. but he's the only guy im fully comfortable with.
he asked me if id have sex with him.
and i want to .. bad.
but at the same time. this is gonna seem weird. but i get really bad ingrown hairs and their red and gross. i dont want him to think i have some weird disguisting disease .. i'm not sure how to go about it. i've avoided all stuff like this so i dont have to tell anyone. its embarassing and ugly.
so its either dont do stuff. or do it like udner blankets wit the lights off. i dont know .. (link)
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Razor bumps are hard to prevent, they are almost inevitable when you shave if you have sensitive skin (and skin in that region is more than sensitive.) Try not to shave daily, because that irritates your skin. But here's something that will help you short term - before you meet with this guy, apply Visine eye drops to razor bumps. They will disappear in about five minutes. It's harmless, and it helps.
However, if I were you I'd really consider waxing instead of shaving. The reason why we shave our pubic region is because we want it to look good, and if it doesn't look good, we should try something else. If waxing isn't an option for you, let the hair grow and trim it short. Shortly trimmed pubic hair looks decent and isn't something you would want to hide by turning off the lights when you're making love. DON'T continue doing something that makes you feel self-conscious about your body.
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just a concern.i've just noticed that wenevr i get fingered i bleed a little...it does not hurt i just see a little blood. i've only been fingered 3times...the 1st time i bled a little and the the 2nd time i didnt at firts but after my boyfriend and i stopped i noticed some blood on his fingers. the same thing happend the 3rd time. is something wrong? i am 17 years old. (link)
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You're not losing your virginity, your hymen is being stretched. There is a difference, mind you. Stretching can cause minor tears which bleed. The same thing can happen from intercourse, some girls' hymens won't tear completely the first time, maybe not even the second or third time, but there will be a little bleeding from these minor tears caused by stretching. And some hymens won't tear completely at all, if they're elastic enough.
It's good that you've tried fingering before having intercourse, that's one of the ways to make your first time truly enjoyable for both of you.
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What happens if your partner's penis is too large for your vagina? Is there anything you can do to prevent this? (link)
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I assume you're worried about the girth of your bf's penis, since almost every vagina can accomodate very long penises. If his girth is really impressive, say more than 4 inches, there are some things you can do to make your first time more enjoyable:
1) Use A LOT of water based or silicon based lube.
2) Stretch your vagina by fingering at least a couple of times before you try intercourse. If your partner's penis is normal size, penetration won't hurt if you're able to insert two fingers into your vagina without feeling discomfort. If his penis is really bigger than average, using a small dildo would be best - choose one smaller than your bf's penis. Both fingering and penetration with a dildo can be very enjoyable activities you can try with your partner or alone.
If you take time and use gradual approach - first inserting one finger, then two, then a small dildo, with a lot of lube every time, your hymen won't tear, it will just stretch. (But keep in mind that the presence of hymen doesn't mean that a girl is a virgin - some hymens are so elastic that they just stretch, they don't tear even from intercourse, so women have them until childbirth. On the other hand, some virgins have torn hymens or they don't have them at all - a girl is a virgin until she has had sexual intercourse, i.e. until a penis penetrates her vagina.)
3) Make sure you're VERY aroused before you try any kind of penetration. Not just because your vaginal wall will be wet and therefore more elastic, but also because your pain threshold will be higher.
IMPORTANT: I am not saying that your first time will inevitably hurt, I am talking about extreme cases of penile thickness - I wasn't a virgin when I had sex with a guy whose girth was 5.9", but it hurt.
4) Repeat the same process before you have intercourse again, because it takes time until your vagina can stretch enough to accomodate your partner's penis, one intercourse is not enough.
5) Last, but MOST IMPORTANT - have fun, be relaxed, and enjoy yourself :)
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ok so i was having sex with my boyfriend and i was already having an amazing orgasm but then we both thought it would be fun to add my back massager into the mix, when he put it on my clit i squirted so hard it was like i peed. was it pee or was it vaginal fluid...it shot out of my body as if i had been tickled too much and pissed my pants but it didnt feel like it came from my urethra. so what was it? (link)
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When you ejaculate, that fluid comes from your urethra, but it's different from urine, it has different smell and colour etc. I suggest you visit this site for more information:
http://www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/ejacula.htm#prost
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Hello ,
Okay lets say you have it with a guy and he has a condum on will it break ? Is it more likely to get pregnanat? Is it safe if the guy wears a condum cuz if anything happens i rele dont want to get preganant.
Thanks ,
Betty. (link)
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Condom is pretty safe, if used properly. It means that it should be stored in a cold place, and used before its expiration date. Be careful not to scratch it when putting it on, and use water based lube like KY jelly because condoms are more likely to break when there isn't enough lubrication.
If it does break, go to your doctor as soon as possible (or you could go to your local Planned Parenthood) so you get prescribed the morning after pill.
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Hello ,
Does it really matter to the guy about the breast or does it matter if the girls lower area is hairy? Because my friend said it does and im just wondering.
Thank you :)
Betty (link)
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Some guys like big breasts, some prefer really small ones. On average, they like medium sized breasts (by this I mean B or C). The same goes for pubic hair, it depends on the guy. Some guys will find it weird and ugly if that area is shaved, but some won't like any pubic hair at all. On average most guys will be happy with nicely trimmed pubic hair (for example half an inch long).
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i have a lot of discharge. its almost everyday and even when i wear a panty liner it'll go through so it looks like i peed my pants. i can't wear a pad everyday because, you just cant. so i was wondering if there was anything causing an excessive amount of discharge. im a virgin but i do masturbate. so could this be a factor? (link)
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You shouldn't be worried about masturbation, it can't cause significant changes in the amount of discharge. You said that it happens "almost" everyday. It's normal for the amount of discharge to vary during the menstrual cycle. If it smells normal and you don't experience any strange symptoms like itching or burning, there is nothing to be worried about. However, it's always better to be safe than sorry, so I suggest you talk to a health care professional. If you see a gynaecologist they can take a sample of your discharge and test it in the lab to check if there's any reason for concern.
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