I am 19 and live in Massachusettes. I love listening to music. I graduated from high school..class of '07. I like giving advice to people because there is always someone who needs and i need it too. well if you ever want advice from me feel free to send me a question or IM me. my AIM is listed on my Advice Column page.
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years now. We've been having since since the second month. I've only ever been on top maybe 3 or 4 times. I don't know why, but I feel wierd in this position. I feel like I can't move. Or I don't know how to. It's really embarrasing because I feel like he's always doing the work. I feel like it should be both ways. Any advice or websites or somethin that I could learn how to move properly. Ha wow this is awkward. THANKS =] (link)
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I find that it is easier to lean toward him. Like have your hands one on each side of his head on the floor or bed. Then it's kind of like sliding your body up and down his. And if you would prefer to stay sitting up straight, then it would most likely be easier to bounce up and down and occasinally move your hips around in a circular motion. Hope I helped =)
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this is very embarrassing, but my boyfriend often teases me about having hair around my butt hole. is this normal? I'm a 17 year old girl and i was wondering if its normal or not. its not very hairy at all but there is a tiny amount of hair around it.. is that weird? (link)
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Get it waxed...it might seem awkward but you wont have to worry about it for some time and it will be smoother. Plus you dont got to worry about cutting yourself.
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whats a good type of birth control? (link)
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For the pill form I would suggest Loestrin 24 FE. Its what I take and I think its wonderful because you only get your period for about three days. It's also less heavier. But when being sexually active condoms are also good to use at the same time because its added protection. The pill isn't completely 100% effective and neither is the condom at preventing pregnancy. Also, the pill doesn't protect against STD's. A combination of the 2 however will make the chances of getting pregant or and STD less likely.
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I am going on birth control (i'm not sure what brand yet...i just got a blood test done...i am seeing the doctor for persciption and stuff next week)
while on the pill (or patch or w/e i get) can you have sex w/o a condom and still be safe?
Yes; i know that having both is ideal. and yes i know that BC doesnt stop STD's or anything; im just curious...
and also; do you still have your period while taking birth control? or is it stopped? (link)
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Like any method of birth control you use whether it be the pill or a condom, etc..there is always a chance of getting pregnant. I know this because of friends who have gotten pregnant while takin the pill. If you take the pill as you are supposed to the chances of it happening are less likely. But if you absolutely don't want there to be a possibility either use a condom or don't have sex. And as for still getting your period the answer is yes for the most part. There are many pills where you have 3 weeks of active pills which stops it and one week of pills where you will have your period. Another kind of pill (which I am on) is Loestrin 24FE. There is 3 1/2 weeks of active pills and only 4 of the other ones. On those last 4 is when you'll have your period. If you want more information in Loestrin 24FE try this site: www.shorterperiod.com I am pretty sure thats the site. And another type of pill is Seasonale which you only get your period I believe four times a year.
This is what I can give you for help and other questions you have you should as the doctor. And you can research it through google or something. Some things you might want to talk to your doctor about are the different forms of birth control you could use. Because there are many forms such as the pill, the shot, the patch, the ring, and others that doctors insert in you that stay there for lenghty amounts of time.
Hope I helped =)
And good luck
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last saturday (may 13th)me and my boyfriend were having sex and the condom broke. he noticed it a few minutes after it had broken but he hadnt cummed yet. there was still precum though and im worried i might be pregnant. ive been showing all the signs. having to go to the bathroom a lot, severe mood changes, eating a lot more, and ive been having dreams everynight since then. like sex dreams and dreams where im pregnant. im suppose to be getting my period around the 27th so could it just be PMS or should i get a test if my period is late? i rate 5's (link)
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Although you have been showing the signs doesn't always mean your pregnant. Worrying about it and thinking about it a lot will sometimes make your body think you really are. So naturally it will do what it would if you were pregnant. Wait a couple days to see if you get your period. If you dont wait a couple more because it just might come late. Then if it still doesn't come get a test.
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alot has been going on around me. i'm really depressed. well last night i thought of cutting but i dont have the guts to do it. so instead with a pin i carved an X into my wrist. i feel so addicted i did it again this morning. i keep having these suicidal thoughts and i dont know whats wrong. my life is a mess. and i dont know what to do help? (link)
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I had the same problem as you. I had the urge to cut but was too afraid so I used a safety pin. It's still not a good way to deal with things so I tried like someone already said snapping an elastic on my wrist. It worked for a while but I eventually got used to it and it didn't help. Now I have found my own way to deal with my problems. For me, because music and swimming are like the most important things to me, I go listen to music,write poems, swim, or anything that involves those things. It helps me escape from everything else because they are what I love and NOTHING can change that. So you should find something that you love doing so much that is safe and do that whenever you are stressed or depressed.
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