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Girl on top
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years now. We've been having since since the second month. I've only ever been on top maybe 3 or 4 times. I don't know why, but I feel wierd in this position. I feel like I can't move. Or I don't know how to. It's really embarrasing because I feel like he's always doing the work. I feel like it should be both ways. Any advice or websites or somethin that I could learn how to move properly. Ha wow this is awkward. THANKS =]
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Having the woman on top is great. You can look at her beautiful face, play with her perfect breasts and she can control depth and speed! You don't have to worry about squashing her flat if she is slim and you are beefy.If the angle of penetration is uncomfortable, try it with his upper body propped up against the headboard so he is more vertical, or try it with him sitting in a chair and straddle him and sort of do "squats" over him. And don't be afraid to take the lead. A little agression lets a guy know you want him as much as he wants you!
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I find that it is easier to lean toward him. Like have your hands one on each side of his head on the floor or bed. Then it's kind of like sliding your body up and down his. And if you would prefer to stay sitting up straight, then it would most likely be easier to bounce up and down and occasinally move your hips around in a circular motion. Hope I helped =)
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i would honestly talk to him about how you feel.i know it may be awkward but if you don't talk nothing will be done about it.me and my girlfriend actually discuss things like that aswell.if anything it will show him you are comfortable about talking to him.yes while it may be awkward to start after the first time or so it will be alot more comfortable to discuss with him
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My fiance and I discuss sex a lot. (Wow... I kind of feel weird saying that.) We communicate our likes and dislikes, and any worries we might encounter in the bedroom.
Recently we were having a discussion and I mentioned that when we were first together... I felt akward and slightly embarrassed in certain positions... And that, a lot of times, I didn't feel like I knew what I was doing.
My fiance responded with: 'You've. Got. To. Be. Kidding. RIGHT?!' He proceeded to tell me that I think waayyy too much during sex and the only thing that I should really be doing is enjoying myself.
My point is this... It's okay to feel awkward and embarrassed. The best way to get over it though is to start discussing these things with your boyfriend and for the two of you to get comfortable with each other. You should be able to laugh in your bedroom. And you should be able to talk.
Communication is the most valuable tool in any healthy relationship. So start talking... About everything... No matter how awkward you might feel about it at first. There really isn't such a thing as being 'good' or 'bad' at sex. Different people like different things, and what feels good for one person might not feel good for another. The only way for either of you to know what the other likes and wants is to tell each other. In a relationship, you don't just have to learn the naunces of the other person's personality... But also what it is that they want to happen in the relationship, both in and out of bed.
As for actual tips... You said that you feel like you can't move. Are you sitting straight up? Sometimes it's easier if you lean toward him. If you're nose to nose you should be able to move your hips a little more. And if it makes you feel any better... It took me a while to figure out how to move in this position too. You're not the only one, so don't feel inept. Just keep trying, and eventually you're going to figure it out. Don't get frustrated, and don't worry about whether or not he's getting frustrated with you.
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