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i just gave birth 5 weeks ago and my disposible stiches are irrating me so much, the dr said it was normal but id like to hear other opinions...also my discharge is really goopy, i think its the disposable-ness of the stiches??? im not sure...help...

If I knew more, I would tell you, but I don't. The best thing I can say it to check with another doctor, and to ask other women who gave birth if they had the same problem/s.

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I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and we really love eachother. We've talked about the whole sex thing and agreed that we'd wait until we were together for a longer period of time. My boyfriend said that he's ready whenever I'm ready but he doesn't want to pressure me into anything that I don't want to do. The thing is, I really AM ready. I know that he is the one that I want to lose my virginity to him and he wants to lose his virginity to me. Every time I see him, I get tempted to do more and more with him but I have to stop myself. It's not that I'm scared it's just that I feel that we haven't been together long enough to be doing anything like that. I trust him and I know he won't hurt me. I don't want to become tempted and do that. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I can avoid myself from being tempted? I can't have sex with him, it's not the right time for us yet. Thanks so much if you can help! If anyone is in or has been in my situation, tell me how you handled it or how you are handling it.

I didn't want to respond, because I can't really help you, and I tried to put myself in your situation, but I am confused as well.

You can try to think about something else...and there is a saying that chocolate helps. Your doing the right thing, and when YOU feel it's time, then just do it. Otherwise, it won't feel as good.

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ok when do guys like really start getting perverted(sex,makeing out)..like do the start at 12,13,14 b/c i kno some guys that are perverted that are like 12 but i dont kno if others are or if its just those guys!!! help i rate good!

It depends on the guy... Same with maturing. =S

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Hey umm im 15 and im preg. i need to know will i get my period?

The overy holds the eggs, if a sprem fertilizes it, then your pregnant and your overy STOPS sending eggs to the vagina since your ALREADY pregnant, and that means you can't get your period because the egg needs to develope into a baby.

You won't get your period, but when you have your baby, that month your period will come back, that WHOLE month, not just one-two weeks. x_x

Good luck with your health, baby, and that month.

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I have a friend who is totally in love with her boi friend and we're both 13...well my prob is that she's thinking of having sex with him and i really don't think it's a good idea at all...what shud i tell her?

*I'm 13, too! Jump with joy...

Anyway, she's too young. She can't be 'in love' when she is 13. People say you can, but since a lot of guys these days want just a piece of you, it's hard to believe that.

She can do whatever she wants, since it's her life, but I don't think she's in love, and I don't think she should.

Is she even thinking about what could happen is she does? Your a good friend, since you care this much to ask, so maybe just go and talk to her about it. If she does want to have sex, she should talk to her boyfriend that he could be a father! :-o... and it's too young to be a father.

"...kissing leads to touching and touching might lead to grandchildren..." Haha...that was funny.

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Should I have sex with my boyfriend even though he's 20 and I'm 16?

3 years doesn't mean anything! :P Joking...if you think you two will still stay together for a few more months/years, because your still in highschool and he isn't. To me, age doesn't really matter, but when people go to different schools or whatever, it's weird. :-/

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ok..idk if i am bi or what-- i started to get wet when my friend came over one time and we started to show eachother our bodies idk y but we did..and then the next thing i knew we were both naked-...we got closer and closer and then we kissed and then made out and started 2 feel eachother...and then we had sex. it was weird but it felt good. but i luv 2 c guys naked and i think they r cute and stuff 2. PLZ HELP ME WHAT SHOULD I DO!! i will rate u

You are bi.

What do do with what? Your friend? You could tell her how you felt and ask her about what she felt. Tell her that you might be bi. Open up, don't hide yourself, be proud.



I don't care if you rate me or not. =)

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my dad raped me. should i tell my mom, he said he would hrt me if i did. what do i do? thanx, gracie

Better to tell someone than bare with it. He could do it again, which is why he wants you to keep quite. Let your voice be heard, ROAR!

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So I've always been attracted to other gitls.I don't think guys are attractive at all.I have had ex b/fs and stuff but I think girls are hot not guys.Does this mean I'm a lesbian?Do you think its wrong?

Yes you are, and no, it's not wrong.

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Hey This is really embarresing to say but Im a girl and I mean I think Im bi but Im not sure one time me and my friend thought we should show our bodys off a little to eachother and after I was done She satrted and I started to get horny and sweaty and I just wanted to like fuck something right then so I went into the bathroom and started fingering myself and my friend knows that I finger myself a lot but anyways she walked in on me and she saw that I was fingering myself and she was like why are you doing that right now? And So I stop and pulled my pants up and started to cry and told her the story and said oh and I think shes discusted...:/ Also another time I started to get horny (i do a lot kinda) I told her I was getting horny and she was like oh i see and I was like would you do me a favor and she said it depends and I said get your dildo and stick it up there for me because i really needed it right then but she wouldnt /: So yeah it was embarresing I really just wish one of my friends were either bi or a lezbo because I really need someone to be able to do stuff with! When I see pictures of nude guys i just say cool but when I see a girls thats when I start actually looking good! I REALLY NEED HELP OR TIPS ON ANYTHING! PLEASE HELP ME! );I WILL RATE YOU

I'm not really sure what your question there is, hun. You are bi, but if you don't really get excited, or feel anything when you see a nude guy, then your a lesbian. There is no problems, except finding a partner. If you relaly think you like girls, share up. People might not be comfortable at first, but yeah - that's who you are.

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Well im 16 and so is my boyfriend. We've been together for 14 months and our love for each other is stronger than you could ever believe. Around our 11 month anniversary we lost our virginity to each other. I honestly don't regret it but im starting to believe that we are too young. I love him more than anything and it scares me how much i love him sometimes. Do you think we are too young to have this kind of relationship ?

Well, in some places the age of conduct is 18. I do think it's too young, but it's the 21st century. However, if you don't regret it, and believe you both ARE madly in love with each other, then it's all good. :)

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this might sound stupid...but whats an orgasim?

orgasm

1. The peak of sexual excitement, characterized by strong feelings of pleasure and by a series of involuntary contractions of the muscles of the genitals, usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen by the male. Also called climax.


2. A similar point of intensity of emotional excitement.

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hey.. i just need some advice on sex.. me and my boyfriend have been going out for awhile now but im not sure when we'll be ready to u know.. do it.. can u please help and just tell me when u think the right time would be? by the way, your VERY pretty i love you smile.. im sure you get that a lot hahaha.. yeah well i'll let you go plz respond!!

xoxo-
shelly

If you don't think your ready, don't do it. Talk about with him. See if he cares that you COULD get pregnant, etc... It's better if you two dated for months, as in, 7-12. Yes, a year. You'd know that person better than ever by that time, or should.

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If you wear a condom during sex does that mean you most likely won't get pregnant or do you have to take birth control pills too..?

Condoms help prevent STDs (sexually transmitted diseases).

The pill makes your hormones think your already pregnant.

It's safer when you use those two at the same time, and there *are* others, like the female condom.



Oh yes, condoms make it 70% safer to not get pregnant, even if the box or whatever might say 90%.

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what is a swinger??? or swing

When a couple swings partners with a different couple.

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please what is the average and biggest size of penis,and do penis size really matters durring sex?

The vagina stretches...the more you know.

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OKay. I'll try to keep this short. Can I getpregnant from not having sex or giving a guy a head? Like I have not done ANYTHING sexual and I for some reason feel like I'm pregnant. Like maybe this guy just touched his penis then he ate chips then he gave the rest of the chips to me. Could I get pregnant from that??? pLEASE tell me cause i'm 10 and I DO NOT want to be pregnant!!!!!!!

Lol..aww..

Anyway, if there is sperm near your vagina, then yes you can get pregnant. Other than that, no.

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If you have had cyber sex does that mean you have lost your virginity?

You lost your virginity online. :P

But no...it's online, it isn't real.

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I was just wondering if it will hurt getting in the butt, cause i really want to do it with my 2 boyfriends, you know like one up each hole type thing?? But I am scared whats it going to feel like.... please help!!!!

Firstly, dump one of your boyfriends, unless you three are swingers and are ok.

And about the hole thing, do you mean sticking their penis in your butt hole? If so, don't so it. That place is very sensitive and you could get infected.

Glad you asked, for, the more you know.

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Whats does it mean when guys have wet dreams???

I am 11 years old

Adding to what glamurgurl011 said, it may be that they are rubbing against the bed or somthing, and then "stuff" happen.

ha.

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