Hey everyone! The names Melissa and I'm just dying to help everyone out.
Sometimes i might be brutally honest but that's what people need!
If you need some help or have a question feel free to send me a message I would be more than happy to help!
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Occupation: Sales Associate
Age: 21
MSN: missy_meliss@live.com
Member Since: February 18, 2010
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Im not gay but I would like to masturbate with my friend but I dont know how to ask him. (link)
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I wouldn't if I were you he will think your gay
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when me and my boyfrien fool around sometimes it goes farther and he eats me out adn hes asked me to blow him but i refuse and tell him that i think it is gross, but the truth is i dont know how to give one, ive sucked on condoms before but nothing for real, can someone help me????? (link)
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Ehhh why would you suck on a condom? That can't have tasted good. Next time your boyfriend asks just tell him the truth. Say, I don't know how and I haven't because I don't want you to think I'm bad at it. I guarantee that he so t care that you never have before and that he would be MORE than willing to teach you.
If you try it once or twice and decide its something you don't like than that is fine to. But at least then you can honestly say that you gave it a shot and its just not something your interested in.
Just remember, do it because its something your curious to try, not because he wants you to.
Good lick and have fun ;)
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I've always wanted to have sex in the shower ..but isn't it kind of unsafe? I've been on the pill for 3 years now I take it on time every single night ..and usually we wear a condom every time but I don't think it's possible to wear a condom in the shower because it will just come off? What would be the chances of me getting pregnant if we tried it in the shower ..at least just once so I can fulfill this desire :) (link)
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You'll probably be okay. I know that pulling out isnt considered safe, but if your on the pill, and he pulls out, i dont see any reason why you cant have a go in the shower. Just remember, its slippery, and loud, and kinda funny. You may not know what i mean now, but i promise, if you "fulfill your desire", you will. Have fun!
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I'm thinking about joining Facebook but I hear there are pro's and con's. I'm told the banks, police and federal agencies monitor all the information posted there that others cannot get. I'm also told I give up all rights to whatever I post there and that it is recorded forever. This sounds like I might be putting my personal freedom and privacy on thin ice forever. My friend was denied a car loan because his bank said they read he was planning a vacation to Hawaii on his wall page. A student from a nearby college committed suicide after someone posted a photo on his page that showed him kissing another man. I want to share things with my family and others but is it really wise to put myself at risk like this? (link)
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Jobs and such things can find your information on facebook, but guess what, you can make your profile PRIVATE. No one can look at it or even search it. Only way you can add friends is...if...YOU...add them.
Go ahead, make a facebook, and have your friends and family on there. Its not that big of a deal.
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so i turn my boyfriend alot. but he sucks at turning me on he does little things like pull my shirt up with his teeth but im just not feeling it. what are some good and some creative ways to get him to turn me on. also how can i get my boyrfriend to last longer. (link)
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Well first off...pulling up someones shirt with there teeth is just weird. Life is not a porno.
Im not sure how old you are, but some simple things you can do is have him nibble your ear lobe, kiss right around your belly button, (its very sensitive). He can kiss the inside of your thighs, or rub your legs while you two are kissing.
To get in the mood you two can also take turns giving massages, use oil, candles, nice music to set the mood. Its all about ambiance.
It sounds to me like your both a little inexperienced. Him lasting longer is something that comes with practice.
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If you give head to a guy at a party while your boyfriend is not there does that mean you cheated on your boyfriend? Yeah, the guy was really hot but it's not like we had sex or anything. I didn't even let him finger me! My boyfriend is really pissed and won't talk to me now but I really can't see his reasoning or point of view. I've done this a few times before but I haven't told him about it and regret telling him this time. Do you think giving a blow job is REALLY cheating? I mean, come on...it's like...kissing...sort of...I don't see a problem. (link)
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Yes you cheated.
If he thinks that kissing is cheating, then obviously sucking some guys dick is cheating.
You need to have more self respect for urself, and more respect for your boyfriend.
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I'm meeting up with my bf and I'm gonna give Him handjob through his pants. When he cums it's like an explosion. So he gonna have sticky boxers. I was wondering how it could be made less messy. Also we arnt in a house so we he can't get cleaned up. What shall I do? (link)
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Honestly, you should just give him a handjob minus the pants. Less mess, and he can clean up, and you wont have to worry about "sticky boxers"
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Okay, so I'm desperate for someone's opinion right now. I recently, on July 12, had sexual contact with someone who I really shouldn't have. If I were to get pregnant, the world might explode and my partner and I would be exiled from our families.
So, here's what happened: we did everything, except we did not have sex. However, there was a point where he was on top of me and (I was wearing yoga pants and underwear,) but he pushed himself right into my vagina. I mean, he didn't go inside me, but he was pretty close to it. He might have a little bit, but not much at all. He was attempting to grind into me since we couldn't actually have sex. (He had no condom with him.) And when this happened, it freaked me out a little, so after like thirty seconds or so, I changed positions with him so that he was not doing that. To be honest, I didn't think much of it at all, until now, July 23. About two nights ago, I got a major head ache and some side cramps. The next day, today, I had intense side pains and just a little bit of a head ache when I woke up in the morning. My back hurt really bad, so I took an Aleve. It seemed to somewhat work. Later tonight, I had very minor side pains and lower abdomenal cramps. However, about two or three hours ago, I noticed my body temperature felt hot, but I was cold. I took my temp and got a response of 100. So I definitely had a fever. I haven't taken anything for it. I typed my symptoms into google and got "early pregnancy symptoms." So, of course, I began freaking out and remembered that night where I had sexual contact.
Basically, what I am asking is, do you think I am pregnant. Remember, I was wearing yoga pants.
Should I buy a pregnancy test, or am I freaking out for nothing. Please, please help me. Because if I am pregnant, some serious shit could go down and everyone's lives will be fucked up.
I'm sorry if I sound stupid. I just need someone to calm me down. Just don't lie to me. I'm hoping I am just catching a virus or something.
Thank you in advance! (link)
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Personally I dont think your pregnant. Your probably fine, but to calm yourself down you can always go ahead and buy a pregnancy test. It cant hurt.
Just remember, you didnt have sex. For you to be pregnant, your partner would have had to leaked through whatever he was wearing, and then through your 2 layers of clothing.
Your probably fine hun. Just relax, you might be getting period symptoms or actually getting a summer cold.
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I have been married for 5 years and have never been satisfied in the bedroom because of this 1 thing. My husband is great but this is really weird. I have this fantasy of him having sex with me while I am sleeping. It would be OK with me if I woke up during it as long as it started while I was asleep. I know this is not normal but it's what I really want. How do I approach him about this without sounding crazy or creepy? (link)
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Just tell him that's what you want. He'll probably be excited that you want to try something new.
Now on to the 5 years without any satisfaction. That's a problem, you both definitely need to address it because if you don't it will definitely make your relationship suffer.
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If my boyfriend wanted to have oral sex with me I know there is no way I can get pregnant. He doesn't have any STDs or anything so is there still chances of me getting anything if he doesn't? (link)
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If he has no STDS and ur postive of that, you should be fine. Just make sure his mouth is clean, your mouth is clean, etc etc. And dont fall asleep before cleaning urself up. You can get UTI's
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16/F so this might be a dumb question, i dont know, but me and my boyfriend were messing around and we had had sex earlier but he didn't go inside me or anything but than later i gave him a hand job and it went every where and i was on top of him and some could have gone in me... so i don't know if that could be bad. but i am on birth control. so could you help? (link)
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No. Your not pregnant.
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Can sperm travel? Like if my boyfriend came on my leg by my vaginal area can i get pregnant, can it travel towards it? We always have unprotected sex and i was just wondering because he has came in my stomach or once even right next to my vaginal area and i was scared but it was a moment of passion but none got in that area, but i was just wondering if it can? (link)
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No, sperm cannot travel from your stomach to your vagina. Or your leg to your vagina. If he cums next to your vagina, say on the lips or something of the sort, there is a slight chance some may enter your vagina and impregnate you.
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Ok me and my wife were making love I was having oral sex and i licked her but hole she said stop so were going at it and i get out the vibator and start giveing it to her doge style and i start to rud her but hole and she lets me this time so i want to know does she want me to play with her but the next time we have sex she tells me she dont like me playing with her but (link)
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If she says she doesnt like it then she doesnt like it. It really is that simple. She probably let you do it because she was involved in the moment and didnt want to make it awkward.
Respect what she wants, and leave her butt alone.
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okay so i am really weird i guess because i only like having sex with my boyfriend when i am on top. he wants to be on top every once in a while...but it just feels so uncomfortable....
any tips?? (link)
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Has he done you from behind yet? Also known as "doggy style". its not unusual to not enjoy missionary. Most people think its the most boring of all the positions.
Try a couple of other things. Doggy style, reverse cowgirl, or if he really wants to be on top, have him pull you to the edge of the bed and have him stand while you lay on your back on the bed. It might change your mind about him being "on top".
Also if you want to know a few other positions look around on the internet, theres alot that is out there :) Good luck!
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well im 15. and i had sex for the first time. im wondering..could i be pregnant? i mean..i havent gotten my period yet..so..idk..could i be prengnat? thanks. (link)
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Sex can be extremely stressful. Although it is possible you could be pregnant, and yes you should go out and buy a pregnancy test.
But your period might also be late because of your emotions. If you just had sex for the first time, your hormones might be affecting your period in a number of different ways.
Wait a bit, and if you skip your period i would be a little more worried.
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Ok do guys like it better if a girl is tight or loose?
I know what it means kinda but still confused.
Can someone explain and tell me which they prefer? (link)
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Well....Id say Tight, but just because its wrapped around them more.
But honestly most guys don't care either way. There just excited to get some action. You cant help it if your loose or tight or whatever. So dont worry about it :)
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I am going to blow my brains out but I want to make sure I do it right the first time. Do I place the handgun between my eyes? or under my chin? or on the right temple? (link)
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Well personally i would place the gun far far away and hope to god it missed cause lets be honest, dying = not so much fun. And this isnt really the place to ask questions like that if you really are going to kill urself you need to call 911 or go to a therapist.
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Well, being honest, I am 16 years old/M my girlfriend is 17/Fm. Any who we've have sex twice now both our first times. The first time we had sex she skipped her period for over month, This time shes late, or at least I think she is. Shes getting a "very light period" so she says, I'm curious if she may be pregnant being as though it took so long for her period to start. I'm not really worried at all, but she is, (She was also worried the first time we had sex.) (Yes we use condoms) But anyway she is like I said earlier getting a light period and I think that means shes not pregnant. She also says, its never been this light before? Help me out so I can put her at ease please? :( Its been around 16 days since sex, and her period skips around a lot. (link)
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Okay, she just lost her virginity. It can be a very stressful time in your life. Your period can be affected by a number of different things. First stress can cause you to skip ur period, or have it come late.
If you've used condoms she's probably nto pregnant, but double check, go buy a pregnancy test, you dont have to be a certain age to buy them i promise.
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okay so i'm a 16 YO girl and i masturbate haha. i like doing it, it feels great and i orgasm every time i do but i feel like i'm the only girl that does it... i mean i always read that girls do it a lot to but i feel like if i told my friends they'd be totally grossed out.
so my question is, do guys know girls masturbate? like if i was with a guy and i told him i masturbate would he be grossed out or think i'm weird or desperate or something? anywayss let me know what you think. thanks! (link)
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All my friends masturbate and so do i. Dont worry about it, just because no one talks about it doesnt mean its not happening
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Yes hi umm i was just wodering what is Cum? (link)
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Cum is what a boy ejaculates when he has an orgasm. It is a mixture or Sperm and everything else that comes out.
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