Ok me and my wife were making love I was having oral sex and i licked her but hole she said stop so were going at it and i get out the vibator and start giveing it to her doge style and i start to rud her but hole and she lets me this time so i want to know does she want me to play with her but the next time we have sex she tells me she dont like me playing with her but
If you're not very careful, if you don’t warm her up properly, if you don’t go slowly enough, you will probably hurt her. This really minimizes your chances for trying anal sex again. Do your best every time and you have at least a fighting chance at having another go.
Anal sex is obviously a hot spot for mess. The idea that you could penetrate her butt and come out in a sticky situation is hugely embarrassing for her before it’s even happened, and for this reason she may avoid anal sex altogether. Women spend so much time making themselves look and smell beautiful that to have something ruin her hard work can be mildly devastating. Worrying about mess can be alleviated by using an anal douche before engaging in any anal play. Try taking a shower together too, and make sure her bowels are emptied at least an hour before starting.
It is important that she is very turned on before you even go near her butt. When she's turned on, her body is much more open to you than if she is only mildly turned on. She needs to be aching for you to touch her there. Then, when you start to touch her closer to her anus, she will respond with moans and groans instead of a tense grimace. Rub her body all over with oils, relax her, love her, adore her, and caress her. Get her to the point where she is begging you for it, and do this without putting a single thing in her -- tease, tease, tease. Anticipation is one of the greatest sexual tools you have -- use it to your advantage. [ leatherjackets99's advice column | Ask leatherjackets99 A Question ]
MissYMelisS answered Thursday June 10 2010, 1:30 am: If she says she doesnt like it then she doesnt like it. It really is that simple. She probably let you do it because she was involved in the moment and didnt want to make it awkward.
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