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well im 16 and willing to answer any problem you have. all my friends come to me for advice and i thought why not offer my services to everyone! if my advice is good please rate so i know if im helping and if not i can improve my advice! anytime!
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hiya
recently i have been getting deeper feelings for my best boy mate (liam) i want to do stuff with him like give head, kiss etc.... but i dont know how to seduce him what to say or whatever. any help would be good.
oh by the way we always talk about sex and stuff like that.
the next time you two are together just be really close to him and then lean in and kiss him. the shee how he responds. if he doesnt kiss you back and pulls away then you know where you stand. if he does then just slowly move you hand down his body and rest it on his groin and again see how he reacts. and take it from there!
but you've got to decide if you want it to be a relationship or just friends with extra and let him know.
p.s if you like talking about sex then talk dirty to him it will make him sooooooooooo horny! i duno why but guys love you to talk dirty to them!
hope i helped!
My 16 year old female best friend is dating my 17 year old male cousin who just moved in with her because of family problems! I am okay with all of this but I am not okay with the fact that they have been having sex for over a year now. The problem is she hasn't had her monthly since May, but she hasn't been sick or anything. Is it true that having a lot of sex can mess up your monthly? Also: should we buy a test to see if she is pregnant or tell her parents before we do that?
Help For Baby's Sake:
Godmother Of My Best Friend's Baby At 17
ok id go out n get a test i mean it cant hurt to be sure! and then see what happens from there. if its positive then its got to be up to them to tell her parents and if its negative then dont worry, lots of factors can mess up your monthly. but just to e sure id do one test now and another in say a week or two weeks time just to make sure!
hope i helped!
what's pop a cherry mean?
its when a girl looses her viginerty becuase her hypem is broken by penitrative sex!
hope that answered it for you!
ok im sorry if this is going to be long..and this is more like a girl quiestion..
well i have been going to the bathroom..and when i wipe all this stick nasy white stuff comes out..and its like nasty..my mom says its discharge but i dont think so..and its like chunky and stuff...(sorry for the details)and some times its brown..so it comes out in brown chunks..but any ways i told my mom and she said its just left overs from your period..like left over blood..and i said i dont think so because its brown not red..and she said shell take me to a cudor doctor..and i said hell no..and shes like fine...and yes i take a shower everysingle day..morning and night..and i do wash down there..and its not when i plat with my self..i dont think so!!
need help bad..ill rate 5's to all!!!!
dont worry! your mum is right! its just discharge thats gettin rid of left over blood. its kind of like a natural cleaning process. so dont worry about it! we all get it, maybe some worse than others, but theres nothing wrong with you!
hope i helped!
does sex hurt the 1st time? how bad? plz help
yea it does hurt the first time you have sex but its nothing bad. its more uncomfortable than anything! and you may be sore for a few days afterwards but its nothing major!
hope i helped!
Ok..well the other day my best friend came over. We were in my room listening to music. I dontreally remember what happened much but we basically ended up kissing and doing other sexual things. Were both girls. I really like guys..but what I did felt good. I've never liked girls..but after what I did with my best friend, I just dont know. Were both 14. HELP!! am i lesbian? I like guys..but hooking up with girls doesnt sound bad either..
dont worry about it! you a teenager, its only natural for you to experiment with you sexuality! so just go with it and see how you feel as things progress!
hope i helped!
Ok. so my boyfriend just told me that he didn't want to have sex tell he is married but I really don't want to wait me and let's call him stuart have been dating a while and i'm in love with him so much but I really don't want to wait. What do I do?
well you shoul explain how you feel but ifthat doesnt change nything then if you really do love him then you have to respect his decision!
sorry but thats the way it is!
Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for over a year now..and for somereason I just can't get wet anymore...why not?
it may be that your getting used to the sex and your not enjoying it as much as you used to. try spicing it up with a bit with, for example, body paint, try painting it on each other and licking it off each other, its really senseual. or using toys, or role plays or in a hot tub. just be a bit more adventurous and you should get wet again as you get turned on more.
it could also be caused by a hormone imbalance that will right itself in time!
in the mean time use lube and that should sort out he problem inthe short term.
ok a few days ago my boyfriend was messing around down there, and he asked what these weird, almost square-like things are inside the hole. i never noticed before, but do you know what i'm talking about? kinda like ridges, but yea. i was just wondering if that's normal; i don't really know why it wouldn't be, but just incase. thanx!
totally normal and nothin to worry about!
My boyfriend fingered me three days ago, and I guess he must have done it harder than usual, because when he pulled his finger out, it was covered in blood, and *down there* was a little bit bloody. I have been bleeding a little bit since then, but not that much. I don`t think that it wasn`t my period, because I just had it like a week ago. Could it have been my cherry that was popped, or what?!?!
yuor hyemn probably just broke but dont worry you can do this horse riding, cycling or with vigarus exercise.
either that or he scratched the inside of your vagina and thats whats bleeding but dont worry if he has this will heal quickly.
just tell him to be careful next time! just dont let this experience put you off!
hope i helped!
why does it itch done there when u shave and how can i maybe ask my mom that i wanna get a bikini wax ... anyother way i could remove hair with out my mom really knowing
it itches becuase you skin is sensative thats all. if you dont want to ask your mum then go and buy yourself a waxing kit and do it yourself! there really easy and dont cause irritation if you do it properly! just remember to read the instructions carefully!
hope i helped!
My fiancee wants to have sex, and the bad thing is, IM SCARED OF SEX. I am almost positive my hymen is intact, because I don't masturbate, im a virgin,and I detest tampons. Any suggestions?? And since I know were getting married in August, don't tell me to wait, because he's talking about sex on our wedding night, and since I've already told him Im scared, he still wants it, wich I don't blame him, were both virgins, we both dont have diseases of any kind, and after all, IT IS OUR WEDDING NIGHT, so its not furnication (since were both Christians) so please help me, because I'm scared of the blood and the pain. Btw, is it true that when you pee after sex it hurts? My mother said it hurts the first couple times you have sex, and that you bleed, and it hurts, and it burns when you pee for weeks. Is any of this true? Plz help me.
dont be scared of it! i mean its natural so just relax. yes its true it will hurt a little becuase you are so tight being a virgin and all because nothing has been up your vagina so when he does penitrate you and you skin streatches then it will feel a little uncomfortable but this will only be for the first few times. this feeling may last a few days but it is nothing bad. and you may bleed a little,some people do and some dont. this is just because you hymen has been broken but this is nothing to worry about either. the worst case is tht you will spot for a few days.
the first time you pee after you've had sex for the first time it may hurt a little its just feels more uncomfortable than actual pain itself. and no it wont last for weeks!
by the way congratulations on the wedding and i think its really good you've both decided to wait until you were married!
remember relax! its natural! the more tense you are, the tighter you are and the more it will hurt!
hope i helped!
okay, so my soccer team is having a pool party and the boys team will be there too (varsity, jv, and freshman teams for both the girls and guys) and its on the 7th. i'd like to get in the pool, or atleast in my bathing suit, but i shaved everywhere down there one time and i got really bad razor burn and it itched and was so irritating for ever! my mom and i dont have that kid of relationship where i can just be like "hey i'd like a bikin wax take me to get one please" and i dont know of anyone who could take me to get one, so how i could i "clean up" down there and get rid of some hair on the edges so it wont stick out when i'm swimming? thanks for any help you're able to give. 14/f
well you could always get a waxing kit yourself with either a pot of wax n strips or readyto use waxing strips. both are really easy to use. just make sureits good quality stuff and you read the instructions first! it will explain how to get what you want!
hope i helped!
oh and have fun at the pool party!
is there a certain size dick needed to pop a cherry? like how many inches?
nope there isnt a certain size.
how everyones mean to me and i rate them 5 because i think its funny when there mad lol!!! like.. people who said im ugly. i didnt mean it like im think im pretty i was being carcastic.
FREE 5S!
i dont get it? am totally confused now! av been having a very confused day! lol!
how do you like a guy like a bf but not attracted to him? dont say that means you dont like him or the personality thing because wait i dunno why you shouldent say that. ill rate 5!
well you obviously just like him as a person and are not attacted to him in a sexual way!
i had unprotected sex with my boy friend 3 months ago, ive had mild cramps in my tummy ever since i've taken 4 preg tests 2 possative then negative (early miscarrige)then today i was told to take another because it didnt add up it was negative.. they still think i had the miscarrige but now they think i've got Chlamydia!!!!! im so f**king scared im only 14 and cant take losing the baby and now maybe having this, they took swobs (spelling), i cryed the hole time, but i knew it was for the best i just dont know what to do, what will they do if they find out i have got it?? what are the symtoms anyways?? will i have to tell my mum and dad???
im so s**t scared?? has anyone here had it??
thanks!
chlamydia isnt too bad if its caught early enough. it can make you infetile but thats if it stays im your system for ages. there are no imediated symptoms thats why so many people get it and dont know and pass it on. if you do have it all they will do is give you a course of anti-biotics and that will sort it out.
dont worry you will be fine!
Aright well im 14/f and me and my b/f have been together for almost a year...and he hasn't tried anything, I mean im not waiting for him to do something with me...but is it weird that he hasn't tried anything after almost a year or does it just mean that he really loves me? Like he's always all over me and touching me, but whenever im around me friends they just keep on askin me "have you guys done it yet?" and ill just be like "no" cause we havn't. And sometimes they just end up saying that he's stupid to not try doing it with me (i don't think that) and that they expect us to do it now that we've been together for almost a year! So I need to know does he really love me or is it just weird?
Thanx
I think he just respects you. dont listen to your friends opinions because after all who is in the relationship? all of you? i mean if you ask for advice then fair enough but just tell them to back off a little. maybe your both just not ready to have sex. dont do it just because your friends say you should. you are obviously happy with each other the way things are so dont ruin sumthing good. look, he could be pressuring you ans asking you about it all the time! which would you prefer? (a bit of a no brainer really) so just say, the next time your friends say some thing, that you know he respects and cares for you and thats all that matters!
I lost my virginity and it doesnt seem like it was what i had actually wanted to happen.. people who arent virgins... can u tell me how it went for you cause im jus really curious now. none of my friends have lost their virginity yet so its kinda hard to talk to them about it. thanks!
Its just because of all the hype about it. there is so much of a build up hat you think it will be this amazing this butthe firsttime it isnt cos it hurt. but dont worry, as they always say practise does make perfect! it gets better believe me! its never like it seems in films because of course there not actually doing it so it just shows the good bits! so dont worry it will get better!
okay big health project and the question is what turns a girl on about a guy?
his eyes, the way he messes with his hair to makesure it looks ok, the way they try to act tough in front of you, the way he smiles every time he sees you, the way he cant keep his eyes off you when he is with his mates.