So, my name's Blake to start off. I live alone in a bachlour appartment and rather enjoy it. I'm a health nut for the most part and love things like martial arts and the likes. I'm also some what of a geek though in the sense of pretty much the only thing I watch is anime. I'm a very open person and I never really shy away from a question or topic. I've had to go through a lot of strange things already in my life so I help my experiences can help people on here. If you'd like to know anything in particular about me feel free to ask.
Hobbies:
Biking
Cooking
Photography
MMA
Wrestling (sure it could go into MMA but meh)
Playing with weapons
18+ rated activites
and I'm sure there's more but I can't think of any right now.
My universal advice (These are things that I would urge everyone to take to heart):
1) Drink more water, because I'm almost positive you're not drinking enough.
2) Excersize at least once every day. It only takes like 5 minutes to do a few push ups and sit ups, and no, it's not as hard as you may make it out to be.
3) Eat properly. Try to eat at best 6 smaller meals a day and to get all the food groups. Also try to limit your intake of junk food.
4) Try to find one thing about yourself that you like every day.
5) Don't have friends that will just drag you down. Trust me, they're not worth the effort and will just make your life a lot harder.
6) Don't focus on the negative things in life. If you keep a happy demeaner then you're life just seems to start working better.
7) Stop putting yourself down. If you think you're ugly/fat/both or whatever. Then either accept it or do something about it. If you keep going on about how your fat or whatever then that opinion will rub off on others. If you want to look good, then just believe that you do, it really is that simple. And if that's not enough for you, then refer to advice 1, 2, and 3.
8) Sleep more!
Finally, I have a challenge for everyone that has visited my page. For a week straight set a schedule for yourself. Make sure that you get up at the same time every day, when you get up, do a set ruitine for an excersize (if you need help figuring one out just message me), make sure that you eat properly through out the day (no junk (come on, it's only for a week, don't make such a big deal out of it)), make sure you drink lots of water, make sure you get to bed at a good time (if you want to you can do another excersize before going to bed, you'll get the best results out of that), and then repeat the cycle the next day. I don't care what you're lifestyle is, if you do that for a week you will see a significant difference in your life. Although you will feel slightly sick for the first day or so due to your system being in shock.
Anyone that actually does that challenge I'd love to hear from and get their opinion/testomony/rant about wasted time.
And that's everything outta me for now. I hope that I can help at least a few people on here.
E-mail: ice232@hotmail.com
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okay. i was protected when i had sex about a month ago. but he messed up. it was only his twice having sex and he came but didnt tell me and he kept going and the condom fell off on me
but i picked it up and the semen was still inside.
i know there is a possibility of it spilling or him dripping on me from residue.
i wiped n i saw no semen
i missed my period for march
i then got a bladder infection the following day after having sex with him
i went a week later hurting bad from the infection he turns out i did have a bladder infection. he did a prengnacy test on me and he said i was fine. but it was only like a week and a half since i had that sex. after i got rid of my bladder infection i had light blood then dark blood but usually my period are very heavy n nasty with many cramps but my past few periods were not very painful but this time there was really no cramps except for dark reddish brown blood. and not a lot except for three quarter sized spot. just thursday morning i got diarrhea n i had a little of it all the way until now. sunday.
i threw up twice last night.
but my friend had a stomach virus just like i have now . all three of us hung out. first he got the virus then my other friend n i got it and we both feel better now. i feel my abdomen n once i press down i feel my stomach is a little harder. but i dont find myself bleeding anymore.
in total i bled for about 5 days. remember the doctor tested me. (link)
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Alright, lots of things to cover about this then. First things first, if you want to be absolutly sure that you're not pregnant, go buy yourself a test from a store (there about $20 for a box with 2 in them) and follow the instructions on it.
Now, the bladder infection you got was probably caused by the fact that you needed to go to the washroom before you had sex, and you didn't go afterwards. That's the most common cause of it for woman.
As for your blood, it can change for a lot of different reasons: your diet, ammount of physical activity, ammount of water you drink, stress levels, etc. all effect your period.
Also, one cool little fact is that having sex can actually reduce the time it takes for your period, as well as reduce cramps. Remember that sex releases endorphines and adreniline in to your system (that would be the body's natural feel good drug, and pain killer).
In all likelyhood, you're diarrhea and vomiting are caused by the same virus that everyone else has. Drink lots of water and eat chicken noodle soup and you'll hopefully get over it soon if you haven't yet.
As for your stomach being harder, one possible explanation for that is that your stomach is getting a work out while you're having sex. Most people don't realize but if you're going all out in sex you're normally working a lot of muscles.
Anyways, again, if you want to be sure, just go get a test from the store.
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alright, let me give you a little background. in past sexual experience im used to bein dominated 99.9% of the time because of the guys ive been with, plus the fact that i used to do a lot of drugs with the guys i was with. im also used to black guys.
now im not datin a black guy, and i had a conversation with my boyfriend and he said he wanted it to be an equal thing. the thing is, though, ive been sober for a while now and im not used to the kind of guy im with. so now i kind of have to learn sex all over again.
so i have a few questions. one, when a guy thrusts in me do i thrust with him at the same time? and when im on top should i just bounce on him if you know what i mean? or 'booty pop' (which i can do when im dancin, not sure about sex) and just any tips for really good sex basically.
any help will be appreciate him, im a girl btw :) (link)
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You're going about this in the wrong approach. There's no one tip or another that's specifically right or wrong in an equil relationship. Just when you're having sex, do what feels the best for you. If you enjoy just bouncing on him, then go for it, if he doesn't enjoy it then he'll talk to you about it. Since every person is different no one here can really tell you exactly what to do. You need to feel it out, and learn what makes you feel good, and what makes him feel good. The best advice I can really give is don't get caught up with thinking too much, sex is a natural thing and as such I've always felt shouldn't be contemplated very much. Go with the flow!
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Hi look im really woried im really SHITTING my self. I have a girlfriend of 10 months and we have done everything exept full intercourse. Now she made me come and I fingerd her. But what I want to know is because shes still a virgin can she get pregnant? She missed her period, and im getting woried. Could my sperm from my hands of got into her vagina?? Could this of made her pregnant?? Im so woried about this. Will you please find some helpfull links about this subject and your honest opinion. Thankyou so much for reading this mail . Please im so woried. Im desperate. (link)
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Hey, first off you should calm down. Panicing wont help the situation at all no matter what the out come.
Now, on to the issue at hand. First I should say that while yes, it is possible for it to work like that, the odds of it are very, very low. If you're worried about it that much, go spend $20 dollers and buy yourself a pregnency test. You can get kits that come with to tests in them. Get her to take the first one and if it's negative, then wait a few weeks and get her to take the second one just to double check; if it's possitive then you'll both have to be mature about it and think seriously about what you want to do. This is just my opinion, but if she is positive, then I would recommend that she aborts it, as it doesn't seem like either of you would be ready to support a child.
Just so you know, there are plenty of things that can cause a period to be late. Things like daily activity, diet, even stress levels all effect it.
Now for the case of her being a virgin: while speaking in the since of she's never had sex she's a virgin, that doesn't mean that biologically speaking that is true. The term "virgin" refers to a thin layer of tissue that is inside the vagina that is normally pierced by the penis during intercourse. This tissue can accedentally be ruptured though from lots of different things: bike/horse back riding, rigerous sports, etc. can cause it to break, which really doesn't mean anything biologically speaking - which is to say it's not that this is a bad thing, it's actually rather natural in this day and age - it just means that that layer of tissue wouldn't be there to prevent dirt etc. from getting in there.
Anyways, I again go back to my original statement by saying just go buy a test and answer the question yourself. Either that or wait for her to get her period and spend your time guessing about it. One way or another, if you have any questions just feel free to ask me.
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how long will i need to wait to have sex after i get birth control? like we reaaaaaally want to. we've been together for 7 months and haven't! i mean..do we have to wait a full month for the bc to kick in? does it work at all right when you start using it? (link)
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Last time I was in a clinic with my gf at the time getting BC we were told that it takes a week to fully circulate through the system. So after a week is gone go at it. I'd still advise using a condom though just because it's a good habit to be in and makes it just that much safer.
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i was wondering if anyone had any good tips on giving head.
i need some quick and easy ones.
and i'm not sure what else to do along with head..
theres a million things..but anything would help.
thanks a load. (link)
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Alright, well I there's a lot of pretty simple things that will feel really good. Really easy one, if you can't fit him fully in your mouth then cup your hand around the base to make up for the difference. Make sure not to let your teeth scrape along him (it's not really a fun feeling).
Remember that the head of the penis is the most sensitive, so if he's not circumsized put the forskin back. You can try just using your tongue on the head, as well as you can suck on just the head (be careful with this one though because it's a very intense feeling and can get to be too much pretty fast.
Another good one is while your using both your hand and mouth twist your head one way and your hand the other way. Make sure you don't have such a death grip as to pinch the skin, just enough so that it slids a bit. Make sure that he's properly lubed up with saliva or whatever first though.
Also, one thing that a lot of girls overlook is the testicles, there's a lot of nerves in them and they make for a good place to take the attention away from the penis for a while.
Last thing to remember, the most important thing you can do is to constantly switch up what you're doing. Don't just sit there constantly doing the same thing for 10 minutes straight. Use your hand for a bit, then use your mouth, then maybe go pay attention to another part of the body, then come back about a minute later, you'll find that's he's gotten a lot more turned on and a lot more sensitive. You can keep doing this for a while if you want, but don't do it too many times or he'll become over sensitive. If you want any more help or advice feel free to message me.
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ok, well you no how you have the signs that your periods coming soon..well, my friend says that your vagina hair has to be black. is that true?? (link)
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No, just like all the hair on your body, it really just depends on what colour your hair is to start with. Most of the time pubic hair just seems like it's darker because 1) It's normally shorter due to Trimming/Shaving/Waxing and 2) A lot of the time it's seen under lower lights.
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Alright dude just gonna be straight up I'm 15 yr old male and i had sex with this chick 2 days ago And im worried if i have gonorrhea but the thing is i used a condom and right after we were done i washed my penis with soap so im wodering if its the soap and not a std, so i phoned her and asked her if she had an std and she said no so im wondering also if i should believe her or not, anyways i would kill for some advice
Sincerely, Scared Dude (link)
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Alright, first thing I can say is relax. You probably couldn't have asked a better person right now because I went through something like this a while back.
Anyways, what I'd advise you to do is to go to a health clinic nearby and get yourself tested first chance you get. I know it's an embarressing thing to do (trust me, I had to do it) but it's better then the alternative of not knowing and things turn for the worse. Also, even if it turns out that you are positive, there's lots of drugs out there now to combat it and the health center should normally give them to you for free, depending on where you are.
Since you used a condom you can probably relax, all the same I'd still suggest going to a clinic to be on the safe side. Washing with soap wont actually do anything besides potentially cause an infection. And remember, relax! When I found out there was a posibility of me having something I wanted to punch a hole through the wall but instead I just ended up chucking my water bottle and then I calmed down a little. For the most part the nurses you'll deal with are very understanding and they also do everything they can to keep things confidential. So even if they end up calling your house they wont tell your parents even what they're calling about.
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okayy so im 15 and a female.. well i know for a fact, 100 percent that i want to wait until marriage before i have sex and i know that in the future guys will respect you more if yoou werent out and about being a little whore..but right now i feel like i cant get a boyfriend.. at all bc im just not like that idk im not ugly and im not shy but it feels likee every guyy just wants to have sex like all the time or something. idk what to do..is this just how they r at this age?? (link)
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Unfortunatly for you, guys at that age are approaching their sexual peaks, don't blaim them too much for it. I know we have a tendancy to be dicks at times but there are guys out there that share the same feelings as you, you've just got to be patient and keep your faith that you will eventually find someone that's right for you. If you think about it, there's no point in getting in to lots of relationships that don't mean anything. Might as well wait for those one or two special ones that'll treat you right.
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