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If you have se at 15 can the boy get arrested even if he was 15 also? Im not having sex but people say they can go to jail for 20 years and stuff.....

No. if he were 18 and you were 15 then yes. or if you were 18 and he were 15. otherwise you cant go to jail for sex. unless you are where people can see.

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Over the summer, this guy and i were friends with benefits. i know friends with benefits are never a good thing but anyway.. a friend of mine told me he had been dating someone. So i stopped talking to him to get him out of the picture. Well, i haven't talked to him in about 2 months and he texted me tonight saying that he missed me and how he wanted me to come over soon. I don't miss him, just doing things with him. I asked him about his girlfriend and he just said "yeaaah we can keep it between us" so i said umm ill think about it. so should i do it? i don't know the girl at all that hes dating so i wouldnt feel bad at all about that.

Honestly, i think thats kindof wrong. the fact that he has a girlfriend and wants to fool around with you is stupid. although you dont know her but how would you feel if you liked someone alot and they cheated on you? man, his poor girlfriend.
maybe you should just stop with him.

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what is blueballs???and what does it mean to have blueballs???.....and what is spooning???

spooning is cuddling
and blue balls is an expression guys use when they haven't had sex for a while or if you just stop right before he yeah.

which i think they make it up.

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how long do you have to wait after starting the pill until you don't have to use another form of contraceptive (like condoms) anymore? or i guess i'm asking how long until the pill is fully effective?

one month

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Whenever a guy is experienced it's always a turn-off to me. Like if he's done alot of stuff with girls or even just a little. Is this normal does anyone else feel this way?

yeah. it is a huge turn off for me.

i would rather have it be both of our first times.

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the expiration on my condom box says 2012-08.
What date does that mean it expires?



My other box says that it expires 05-2009.
what is the expiration date on that box?

can anyone tell me how to read expiration dates on condom boxes?

August in 2012. 4 years.

may 2009. 1 1/2 years.

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Do you have to visit a Gynocoligist [sp?] when you get birth controll pills?

you can go to
planned parenthood
doctors
pregnacy resorce center

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Hi, so i'm a bit stuck. I lost my virginity a few weeks before I was 16 (which i'm quite proud of considering the reputation of my school and friends). I was at sgegness and I met a boy through a friend I have there. We clicked straight away it wasn't love at first sight or anything. I had only known him a few days and we weren't technically together but I had sex with him anyway. The next day he asked me out although we knew we lived too far apart and I didn't want anything serious. But I said yes and we had sex again that night because it was my last night. I left and we kept in touch but we lost contact. I definately don't regret it. But I never loved him and everyone says that your supposed to love the person you lose your v to. Am I wierd for not loving him? will rate all answers :)

I didnt love the person i lost my virginity too.. i just had a little to much to drink.


its normal dont feel bad about it.

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hey. sorry if this is gross, but i have to know what this word means.
I have heard the word "queef" or something to that idea like three times. (i have no idea how it would be spelled, that's just how it's pronounced.
what does it mean?

It is when your vagina gets air in it and its like farting.

i have done it before.

its fun.

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my girlfriend and i were having unprotected sex, but i pulled out before i came. i washed my penis and peed after, and then we did it again, but i was wondering if there could be any left on my penis from the first time that i came, which would make her pregnant

PLEASE dont give me crap about "you can get pregnant from precum" because it's completely untrue, anybody with google could tell:
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/0922.html
http://www.corporatemofo.com/stories/021201inandout.htm
http://www.idsnews.com/news/story.aspx?id=33698&comview=1
condoms = 3%
pulling out = 4%

if that's not enough evidence maybe a government website can convince you:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&db=pubmed&dopt=Abstract&list_uids=12762415&query_hl=9&itool=pubmed_docsum

im not an idiot i did research before we did it

please just answer my question and none of the crap about precum because that's what i got on the other advice websites

you cant get pregnant from precum??

thank goodness.


No. she's fine. sperm dies when it touches air. and you peed and washed it.

you guys are fine.

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please tell me your first time sex stories..from what i have heard none of the first timers are pleasureable. i would really appreciate it if you shared yours and tell me how it went. thank youu soo much (:

i had a little to much to drink and some fat guy who had a lip ring took it..

it was painful and when i got home i bled.


i didnt have pleasurable sex until about a year after.

when i met my boyfriend.

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I have sex quite often with the same person,we've done it mannnnny times.
Tonight i was on my period and he knew that but still wanted to do it.
So i didnt mind,so we started to do it and he pulled out with blood all over his dick
He ofcourse got extremly grossed out and ran in the shower and obviously wanted me to leave.
I'm scared that ,just that will change things forever.
Do you think that things will go back to normal? or Do you think he's that grossed out that he'll never wanna do it again?

The same thing happend to me.


but if your close to him there should be no problem.


i mean i pull my tampon out in front of my boyfriend.



but maybe he just wasnt used to it.

if hes being an ass then breakup with him.

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not sure if this is the right category but yah..


say this guy has a girlfriend and he lets another girl like give him a hand job but it wasn't really a hand job because he still has his pants on and the girl is just rubbing his dick from the outside of the guys pants,


and then the guy rubs the girls vagina but outside the pants..

is that considered cheating on the other girl?

Um yeah. if this is the girl, break up with him. hes not worth your time.


if your the boy,YOUR AN IDIOT.

if you really loved someone you wouldnt think about doing that.


as jerry springer says..


once a cheater always a cheater.


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I want to know every detail of women and women have sex. With out a dildo!

I am Bi-curious

Hit me up!

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What do you think about sex before being married. I don't know if it's wrong or right so I'm asking you. Please voice opinions and experience.

i think if you really love the person sex shouldnt wait until marrige.


i wish i would have stayed a virgin and saved it for my boyfriend now. but it didnt happen that way.


if you love the person then you have nothing to worry about.

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I met this nice Italian guy on Myspace,
and he wanted to know if we could talk
over MSN, so of course, I was like, sure.
He seemed really nice but then he wanted to
get on his webcam, so I said alright.
I've watched other people (non-sexually) on webcam.

Of course I had to tell him: don't strip or anything,
and he said he wouldn't, but then I guess he
changed his mind and took all his clothes off?
I felt weird saying "No" and he obviously wasn't
going to take "No" for an answer.
Oddly, I watched him but felt really nervous the whole time.

Not to sound like a dork or anything,
but I've never really seen a guy close up naked.
However, I was kind of disgusted with this naked guy.
I was also really scared, which is weird,
because most of my friends have actually
had sex with a guy and obviously they are
comfortable with even more than just looking at that!

Is this usual? Is it ok to feel a little freaked out by...male parts?
I am really boy crazy and I love guys, so why
do I freak out so much if I see a naked guy?
What if I'm a Lesbian?

And by the way, I won't be watching that
guy on webcam again so don't worry!

ah how uncomfortable.


ofcourse you were grossed out. you didnt know the guy.


trust me hun. everyone goes threw that. i went threw it i thought it was just disgusting until i met my boyfriend. since i know him i think its alright.

dont worry. you'll be fine.

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my boyfriend has a hairy dick.
is that normaL? i'm confused,
i find that discusting.
and he wants me to blow him.

and i wont if he has a hairy dick.
what should i do?

tell him to shave it.

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every girl on advicenators that has ever had sex before i was just wondering...at the time that you had sex had you shaved all of your pubic hair off or did you just trim it?

Shave it dude.

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how much is a pregnancy test

well if you go to dollar tree there only a dollar.


and there 99 percent accurate.

thats what i do.

i dont like paying 30 dollars on a test its yeah never mind.

just go to dollar tree.

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I'm planning on having sex for the first time very soon.I am very hairy "down there" so should I shave ? I have shaved it before but it was really irratated and pinchy and itchy. What should I do ? Also I don't wanna be hairy like that.HELP !!!

um...YEAH.


do you want to look like a forest??

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