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Q: what does it mean when they say the term "wetter" ? like that if a guy and girl are doing it, she gets wet? what exactly does that mean?
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Masturbate. You'll find out.
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Q: What exactly is the definition of losing your virginity?
No, I took health so I know the basics. So don't go into that.
Let's say that a girl & a guy wanna have sex. The guy puts his penis inside her, but the girl's in a lot of pain, bitches, tells him to stop, etc. and he pulls it out. The end. Has she lost her virginity even though it lasted all of 3 seconds?
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Yes, shes lost it but unfortunatley didnt enjoy it to keep going. If a guy does this to an unwilling female it would still be labeled as rape because it IS in fact, sex. The penis entering the vagina no matter how long or shot, its still considered sex.
Hope this helps.
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Q: Okay so this is kinda gay but here goes...
I met this guy through my friend and he seemed pretty chill. I only met him one but after we met he started texting ke and was like hey hin I wanna hang out you're so cute and hot andni wanna hang it with you. So I'm kind of prude, I've only hooked up with two guys and I've never had a bf. I've heard from some people that this guy is kind of weird or desperate or whatever but it's not like he's uglyI thought he was pretty cute andnhes obviously interseted in me . So he weants to hang out and hook up so I have two concerns.. .
First of all shouldni hang out with him in the first place, I mean if people say he's desperate I dint want to se desperate or prude cause like he's the only guy. Could yet or somethig like that
and second.... Imnervous to hang out with him because I onlyy met him once in person and then he starts texting me saying you were so cute but j feel like he's gonna see me and be like oh I remembered you diifferently or something idk I guess cause I'm inexperienced I'm ius nervous to hang out with him one on one. Sorry this is so long and lame haha.
Any advice???.
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hey there.
first of all, (this pertaining to anyone you come across) dont always believe what other people say about a person. rumors about certain people are very untrue, sometimes they are made up for one reason or another but regardless, you'll never really know unless you know the person right?
in this case, what other people are saying about him is preventing you from getting to know him. dont let what other people say hold you back (from getting to know someone) if you dont see, or have any evidence of him being desperate. as i said, you wont know unless you find out yourself.
secondly, try not to be so self concience. the best thing to do when hanging out with new people especially when on a potential date, is to be yourself. if you like this guy, try to relate to him and just let things flow, but dont try too hard lol. be confident in yourself, dont listen to what others are saying and just get to know him and give him a chance to get to know you.
hope i helped and good luck :)
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Q: hey.. so im 16f and wanting some advice on a guy and sex.. so ive known this guy, lets call him john, for a while and we've liked eachother on and off,we havnt talked alot he moved and cuz i started talking to one of his friends which i still am. but me and john want to hangout soon and first im debating on wether i should or not.. me and him always had the emotional aspect of a relationship but we never experienced the physical with eachother. so i know if we hangout we're going to get physical, and i want to have sex with this guy but i cant, im a virgin and i dont want to be that easy and other reasons, so how do i know when were about to have sex..? like are there specific things that he will do that shows like hes ready to have sex. and when we are about to, how can i stop that from happening without like crushing him and killing the moment? lol. other than that i want to get physical with him, just NOT regular sex.
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heyy there
well in this situation the best thing to do is be straight up honest with him. if he doesnt take it well then oh well what can you do, its your body so dont give it up until you're ready. just tell him you're not ready to have sex and if he has any respect for you, he'll be fine with it.
well several physical things may lead him to wanting to have sex with you like touching, feeling each other, grabbing, kisses on the neck and things like that.
But dont lead him on thinking the both of you are gonna have sex then and there. if you find the both of you getting into it tell him that you're not ready before things really get going.
hope i helped hun and if you have any other questions feel free to ask :)
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Q: f/16 ok iknow this might be a werid qustion but here we go! my friend told me that she gets confused when shes havin sex like she doesnt know if she's about to cum or pee she said they both feel the same. im confused too! like wat happens!? is it like yu pee first && then cum or yu cum first && then pee! or wat!? please help thanks ;-%
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Hey there :)
Well sometimes certain sex positions put pressure on the bladder, particularly sensative ones. Some women also find that this sesation comes from g-spot stimulation. The best thing to do before sex is to urinate. This should reduce the pee feeling. Its also a good thing to urinate after sex as well to reduce the risk of UTI (Urinary Tract Infection) If it still feels like you have to pee during sex, its likely that hes hitting your g-spot. For some women g-spot stimulation causes a sudden burst of clear liquid (not pee) from the urethra either before, after or during the orgasm. This is called female ejaculation. The best way to figure out how your g-spot works is by self stimulation.
Hope I helped.
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Q: everytime after i pee, like right after, i have this pain that feels like i have to pee extremely bad. like ive been holding it in but i just went pee and cant pee anymore. what is it and can i do anything to fix it?
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hey there
hm...sounds like you might have a urinary tract infection. Its very important that you take care of it so that it doesnt do anymore damage. It's very common for females to have (I've had it before lol) so dont worry!! Go to the doctor and have them check it out. If it is, they'll just give you some antibiotics for a few days and you'll be all better. =) Hope you feel better.
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Hello my name is Gina. I'm 21-years-old
and would love to help anyone out.
A little about me: I've been married since I was 18 and have been to hell and back to keep this marriage together. But the only thing that has truely kept us together is our love....and a LOT of work. We have a son who is just a few months old whom I LOVE SO MUCH!
I am honest & blunt in my advice giving, and will probably tell you what you dont wanna hear.....Life isn't easy folks.
I look forward to helping anyone who needs it so please, ask away!
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Gender: Female Age: 20 Member Since: November 25, 2009 Answers: 43 Last Update: April 12, 2011 Visitors: 4042
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