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okay i gave my boyfriend a handjob he never came
i think ther was a little precum i washed me hands straight afterwards
i got home at least 20 minutes half an hour later and fingered myself in the bath i was due on my period 6 days ago and still nothink
do you think i could be pregnant or could i have just got my dates wrong
im so scared!

There is pretty much a 0% chance that you're pregnant. I really think you're stressing too much. Just relax. :)

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okay so my girlfriend is pregnant and she dont get her period does that mean the baby is like drinking the blood?

you gotta be kidding me.

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this is kind of an awkward question but this guy who i kind of like told me he was 5.5 closer to 6 inches , and hes a freshman i mean is that small? i told one of my friends that and she said her ex boyfriend was 10 so now im just wondering is 6 average? or..i mean i dont really care, just out of curiosity

Anywhere from 5-6 inches would be considered average. :)

And yeah, your friend is a flat out LIAR. Sorry.

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f/16, boyfriends 16
been dating for 7 months, known eachother for 3 years
theres no question that i love him, during thepast 7 months we've been through more and made it through it, between him moving an hour away and me being hospitalized for 2 months for an eating disorder
and were still strong
i feel more comfortable around him than anyone, we basically know eachother inside out

right now were basically at the hj/fingering stage i guess but we've spoken a lot about going farther and what not
basically due to all my insecurities it felt that i wasn't ready, and the fear of him leaving and the rest of it

basically the other night we were making out, but like really, really going at it and he asked me if i wanted to go to the next level
i said not tonight

at this pont though there really is no reason for me to be so uptight about it and like i want to, but im afraid to? i guess
any advice on how to just not be so worried maybe?

btw my boyfriends the best and not pressuring me or anything, and he really was fine that i said no, but i feel at this point i should? he's been there for me through everything

Wow, you sound exactly like me about a month ago haha. At that point, I'd been with my boyfriend almost 9 months, and even though he never pressured me, I felt like we should be at the point where we did stuff like that. I wanted to and everything, but was afraid. And then I finally decided to take the next step. It was a little scary, but not nearly as much as I'd expected. So if you think you're ready, then go ahead and try it. It's not as scary as you think. But it's also ok if you still want to wait. I can tell he loves you and won't pressure you, so you have absolutely nothing to worry about either way. :)

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i need advice, when i sit down a smell something from my vagina,it smells horrible and when i urinate it smells bad, and when i wipe my self i see dirt. i think it's because i might be dirty but it cant be because i tok a bath 2 weeks ago. also when i scratch my neck there's dirt in my finger nails, what is this? what should i do?

you are my hero.

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this is really embarassing for me. this happened 6 months ago. i got super super drunk, to the point of not remembering the whole night. i guess that i said 'i haven't hooked up with anyone in so long. i need to hook up with someone' and i kept screaming it. this isn't embarassing to most people but i can't get over it. boys still make fun of me about it and i try not to act like it bothers me but i can't get over it.. how do i forget?

i know the feeling. i once ran around asking every guy i saw to screw me. :-P

i still get made fun of, but i just laugh about it. stuff like that happens, and the best thing you can do is to just laugh at yourself. they'll stop eventually. :)

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so..my guy friend wants to play with me a little. And my vagina is really hairy. and im afraid to shave it, because it gets bumping and really itching, but he likes it smooth and idk what to do. i dont know how to shave it or wax it...

I would also suggest shaving. As long as you use a good shaving cream, meant for the bikini area, a good, sharp razor, and you shave in the direction of hair growth, then you should be fine.

And when you're done, put on some baby oil or lotion, and it will help reduce bumps and irritation. :)

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18/f

okay well i saw somewhere that someone said you have more control over what your vagina smells/tastes like more than people think. i was just wondering what kind of foods make it smell bad, like is it fast food? junk food such as candy, chocolate? and what foods will help the smell/taste and how much of it a day do you have to eat? anything will help :)

i've also heard that pineapple makes it smell better. fruits in general, really.

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this is kinda a dumb question but my friends were talking about how a guy wanted my friend to give him head. They were all laughing and I had no idea what they meant so i just laughed too! So my question is what is giving someone head? please explain.

Haha, to put it as bluntly as possible, it's basically just giving a guy a blow job.

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I'd love to try out different positions in the bedroom... it's just I hardly know any of them haha I know, I know, it's just I share a computer with my mum and I'm bricking it that if I type in 'sex positions' into Google it'll come up in the history haha =P

I've done the normal... like me underneath with the bloke on top, me on top, and anal.

I'd love it if you could give me the names of some really fun positions and how you do them. I'm willing to experiment. ;) haha

Thank you x

Nice haha. Go to this site:

http://www.cosmopolitan.com

Then move your mouse over "Sex and Love" and pick "Sex Positions".

All your mom will see is that you went to the Cosmopolitan website. So if she asks, just say you were looking for new hair/make-up ideas. ;]

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what are the first signs of being pregnant? when do they usually start appearing?

Here's a site that should be helpful to you:

http://www.americanpregnancy.org/gettingpregnant/earlypregnancysymptoms.html

:)

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okayy so im 15 and a female.. well i know for a fact, 100 percent that i want to wait until marriage before i have sex and i know that in the future guys will respect you more if yoou werent out and about being a little whore..but right now i feel like i cant get a boyfriend.. at all bc im just not like that idk im not ugly and im not shy but it feels likee every guyy just wants to have sex like all the time or something. idk what to do..is this just how they r at this age??

Oh, I was (still am) the exact same way. I really want to wait til marriage to have sex. And when I was your age, I felt like no guy would ever want me because all they want is sex.

Well guess what? It's not true.

I'm 19 now and I finally have a boyfriend who totally respects the fact that I want to wait. Not only does he have respect for my decision, but for me as a person.

So all I can say is to wait it out. As you get older, you'll find a more mature guy who will respect that decision.

The problem is, most guys your age are in the middle of puberty, so the only thing on their minds right now is sex. Once they get older, it will change. That is what I think anyway, considering my boyfriend is 24.

BUT, I will not rule out the fact that there are a rare amount of guys your age who will be mature about your decision. If you happen to find one, consider yourself lucky. And just remember, that if a guy you're with ever pressures you to do something you don't wanna do, get rid of them, because they're not worth your time. :]

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I'm so virgin it's not evevn funny.

I've never had sex, never fooled around, never had a boyfriend, and I've never evven had a first kiss with anyone other than my Grandmother.

I've missed my period for over a week. I looked up the signs of pregnancy and I have them all...?

It sounds so silly for me to ask this but it's bothering me.

I think you're just stressing over this way too much.. there is absolutely NO possible way you could be pregnant if you've never been in sexual contact with a guy before.

Rarely, but it happens, if a girl really thinks she's pregnant, she can actually get the early symptoms of pregnancy. I don't know much about it, but I just thought I'd put it out there, just in case. Seriously though, I think you're just overthinking things.

Periods are not always regular, especially the first couple years, so try not to worry about it as much. Stress can actually make your period come later, so just relax, you're fine. :]

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ok so i'm on the shot birth control thingy and i know its not 100% effective so idk i could be pregnant but how would i know other then getting a pregnancy test because i don't get my period while i'm on the shot?

I took a look at this site and thought it seemed pretty helpful: http://www.americanpregnancy.org/gettingpregnant/earlypregnancysymptoms.html

:]

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do guys really care what a girl vagina looks like?
because i know everyone is different, with the size of their libias and all of that..so which do you like better...big ones, or small ones?
thanks!

I'm a girl, but honestly, it probably doesn't matter. Guys are just glad to get some action in the first place, the majority of them aren't going to care. :]

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