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i "did it:" 2 days ago and it was really no lie for 4 seconds cuz it hurt but im scared that im mite be well uk and im only 14 and that wont be good uk and well was wondering wat are my chances of being pregnate and stuff like plan parent hood if i go will they have to tell my parents and do they give out free birth control? HELP SCARED TEEN! (link)
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Chill out for a second and let's look at this in a calm manner.
Yes, SEX hurts. Not DOING IT. If you feel you need to refer to it as that then you shouldn't be engaging in sexual activities in the first place.
Secondly, you are probably not pregnant, but there is still that chance. Just chill out and if you miss your period, go take a pregnancy test.
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I would like to know...does sex your first times hurt? How do u know ure cherry poped...is it awkward with seeing your partner's hair or penis, or him seeing your hair and stuff...I would really like a completely honest answer, dont be afraid to give me gory details, but nobody else will be straight wth me..please...answer every question (link)
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Q: Does sex your first time hurt?
A: It really depends. Have you been stretched before, by fingering or other means? Can you get a tampon in easily. If you can get a tampon in easily, your hymen is probably already broken. But overall, sex doesn't hurt too much, just make sure your lubricated and he goes slow until you're used to it. It will hurt and you'll feel alot of pressure at first, but it gets better.
Q: How do you know your cherry popped?
A: It may have already been popped before you have sex, which is why many women don't bleed. I didn't bleed my first time, for the sole fact that my boyfriend popped my cherry when he fingered me.
Q: Is it awkward seeing your partner/having him see you?
A: Honestly, at first, yeah. But if you're comfortable enough having sex, the nervousness wears off and you feel comfortable.
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I hear that guys like girls to be shaved.
Then i heard guys like the 'landing strip' better.
Oh yeah and my friend shaves down there and she says that it grows back within a day and its prickley.. so i don't understand why guys would like that.. but yes input would be nice.. (link)
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I've got a landing strip and I love it. I don't like the bald look but I don't like alot of hair either. If you do choose the landing strip though, keep it neat and trimmed or it ruins the whole point of having it.
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Ive been told that you can still be preg. even if you get your period.. Im kinda scared because ive been feelin sick for a week now and i get dizzy and the only think i can think of is that i may be prego because on the 1st i had unprotected sex. but i got my period so is it possible to get your period n still be pregnant (link)
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You're most likely not pregnant. But think about how your period was...was it different in length of time it lasted or flow? Because if it was, I'd take a pregnancy test just to be sure. Peace of mind is all you need.
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alright, me and my boyfriend just had our 3rd year anniversery, and we're doing great. we've made it to 3rd base, and we're deffinantly not ready for 4th, but i want to learn some new techniques. I mean for everything, I need to spice some things up. any websites, or from the guys, things that your girlfriend does that turns you on. tips on just about antyhing, making out, tips on foreplay, like, I know teasing his neck turns him on, but I want to learn some new things, new quirks. just something new to try on him. ANYTHING, first base through third, we're pretty kinky, so i think we will try just about antyhing. please help me out.
thank you so much!!! (link)
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I'm assuming third means you will give oral, so I will share with you the best head-giving technique I have ever learned, taught to me by a 21 year old and I practiced on my boyfriend (who's 16, don't worry.)
Try giving him a hickey on the head of his dick without using teeth. I tried this on my boyfriend while he was laying on his back and he arched his back so high out of pleasure that the only thing touching the bed was his shoulders and his heels. GUYS LOVE IT, as long as you do it right.
And if you haven't tried 69-ing yet, DO IT. It's badass.
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i just turned 16 and my boyfriend who i have been together with forever has been fingering me a lot kinda. Im a virgin and recently he inserted more than 2 fingers and it hurt but alittle while later it started to spot blood only once and then when i woke up that morning there was another spot and thats all does that mean i lost my virginity? (link)
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One: Don't do any of this stuff unless you know what it means. You're immature and it's annoying.
He popped your cherry and that does NOT equal losing your virginity.
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For your first time having sex.. what is the best position in your opinion?
ill rate you a 5 fasho:] (link)
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Missionary. Him on top. It's less painful.
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In all honestly..can some precum get you pregnant? My bf have sex and we like to not use a condem for like 30 seconds at first. then he puts one on..and we go for 5-7 minutes usually (sometimes less sometimes a minute or so more) and he finishes. the likliness of me getting pregnant isnt all that high right?
second question...my bf only lasts for 3-7 minutes. is this normal? i have heard of guys going for 15 mins,30 mins, etc. is there any way to increase how long he lasts?
third question..i was dumb and made a horrible mistake thinking i would be ok if we had sex on the 4th and 5th day of my period (which was light at the time because 5th day is my last day) unprotected. my health teacher told me it was unlikely but still possible. i took a pregnancy test today..and im due for my period right around now or within the next 3 days about. .it came out negative. should i still be concerned?
PLEASE HELP! if you only know the answer to 1 of my questions..please answer! 5's for anyone who is nice! :) thank you so much
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I'll be honest, my boyfriend and I rarely used condoms. At all. Is this safe? No. Am I advocating unprotected sex? No. But I'm telling you, I've gone 7 months, using no condoms, him just pulling out before he came, and haven't gotten pregnant. The deal is though, he tends not to show much precum at all, in fact, I've never even see him precum, when giving him a handjob or blowjob. But I'm not saying he doesn't. I'm just trying to ease your mind about this. People are just telling you that you can get pregnant because, well, you can. It IS possible, but it is not as probable as you might think. But still, to be safe, I would go on birth control pills. It will give you peace of mind. It's what I did. =)
I have the same complaint. My boyfriend doesn't normally last very long the first time but the solution to that is to go again. But if you are going without a condom for the first 30 seconds and it is the second time going, DO NOT GO WITHOUT A CONDOM AT ALL. Because there could still be sperm leaking from his penis and that can get you pregnant easier than precum. So if you're going a second time, use a condom all the way. Okay?
I wouldn't worry about it. But I also wouldn't do it again. Just try and stop stressing and wait for your period to come. If you stress it'll be later and then you'll just freak out more. If you don't get it in the next week, take another pregnancy test.
Best of luck, if you have any questions or just wanna talk feel free to IM me at blondstbrunete34 I love helping people out!!
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My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him. I don't think I'm ready... see he's not pressuring me, but he wants me to... I can tell. It's gunna be my first time (if i do do it) could anyone give me any tips (gross i know, sorry) on what to do?
*Thank you (link)
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Alright everyone here has given good advice. I just want to say two things:
Do not do it if you are not ready because you will regret it and it's not something you can take back.
Don't use the condoms at Planned Parenthood I have talked to many girls who say they have broken numerous times.
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So, last night (Around 1:30 in the morning?) my boyfriend and I had sex and whatnot. We used a condom and all, but it ripped. I don't know if he realized it at first, so I don't know if he got his sperm inside of me or not, but I'm reallllly paranoid. We've had sex a few times before without a condom but he swears he pulled out before anything happened. I have no idea what to do, I'm really scared. Should I go get an ECP? I'm not sure when I was supposed to get my period but I was expecting it sometime this weekend/week. Any advice you can give me us greatly appreciated.. Please help? :/.. (link)
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I would get the ECP just to be safe and also a pregnancy test afterwards if you do not get your period by next weekend. And I would keep track of your period in the future so you know when to expect it and can avoid unnessecary worry.
Good luck, hope I helped!!
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Okay i just took a pregnancy test..And i cant till if it is positive or negative... There is a very very dark blue line across where it would say negative and a line that is barly barly even there ( it kinda looks like it was already there but i cant tell) Has anyone had this happen before? (link)
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I've taken one before that says even the faintest plus sign means you are pregnant...so I'm sorry, but you likely are. Take another one just to be sure though.
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Ok, so I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I have together for a good solid 7 months. We're sexually active, but trust me when I say that our relationship is about more than just sex. We respect eachother and this is the first relationship I've had that really means something to me. I'm not positive if I'm 'in love' but it sure comes close.
So, we've had sex maybe 8 or 10 times since we lost our virginity to each other a couple months ago. At first, I was totally "I'm ALWAYS going to use protection!" but we've gone a few times without (but we've made SURE to pull out). I know that that there are still SO many risks but I thought we were being careful. Well the more I've been thinking about it (and it's been increasing lately) the more I think I might be pregnant! The thought alone totally freaks me out!! I'm adopted and my birthmother had her first child at age 13 and me at 15 and I've always promised to myself not to follow in her footsteps. I've been researching everything online and I havn't had any of the 'earliest signs of pregnancy' EXCEPT for my missed period which was supposed to come yesterday but I've had missed/late periods before. Apart from that I havn't been bloated or tender anywhere and I don't know if it's just paranoia, but my stomache's been looking a little "poochy" lately. The last time we had unprotected sex was maybe 2-3 weeks ago but again, he pulled out wayy before he came.
I'M FREAKING OUT, PLEASE HELP!!
-kbabe (link)
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I know what you mean about using protection. I had always promised myself I would but now we use the pull out method too (I'm now vstarting birth control though, I started taking the Pill Sunday.)
Anyways, like you, I have had scares before about being pregnant. Almost every month actually. This month I was four days late and last month it was five. And like you, I thought my stomach was bloated too. But that can be because right before your period you retain water which can make you look "poochy."
Honestly, I don't think your pregnant. Have you been stressed lately? Eating poorly? Those could all be reasons that you may be late, other than just being a normal teenager. If it doesn't come in a week I would suggest getting a test but I think as long as you stop worrying about it (which is hard, I know!!) you will start soon. Anyways, hope I helped and send one to my Inbox if you have any more questions I'd be happy to answer them!
♥ Christina
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Me and my bf had sex without a condom and he cummed inside me..i was on my period though and it ends in two days. I figure i should be ok because sperm only can survive inside you for 3-5 days right? and the egg for next month wont be coming down for a couple weeks right? should i be worried or am i most likely not pregnent? (link)
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You SHOULD be fine as long as you do not ovulate early, but I would get on the Pill or something just to be safe.
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I took the morning-after pill 5 days ago (2nd May), and felt fine afterwards. This morning I got up and my underwear was soaked in blood. It has carried on bleeding on and off for most of the day, and seems quite like menstrual fluid, although there have been no blood clots. My period is not due for another two weeks though. Can anyone tell me if this is a normal side-effect of the morning-after pill (a.k.a. emergency contraceptive)? Should I go and see someone about it, and if so, who.
Thanks! Oh and I'm from the UK. (link)
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http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/files/portal/medicalinfo/ec/pub-emergency-contraception.xml
Irregular bleeding is a side effect of the pills, and it also says that some women may get their period earlier or later after taking the pills so no worries, you should be fine.
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okay, i just texted him asking why...he said "i am really sorry. i just broke up wit my gf, and i was driven by lust...i really like you and i really did not want to do that to u. i mean i did, but wen u were wit me and wen u were ready...sorry again" exact words...so wat should i tell him? (link)
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Whoa sorry I thought you were someone else. Much apologies.
REPORT HIM. He doesn't wanna get in trouble and that's why he is telling you that. I'm sorry but if you're going to believe that then, whatever. He deserves to be put away and you need to get tested and get emergency contraception pills or tested for pregnancy. Nonetheless,
TELL SOMEONE NOW!
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can i get pregnate from this? and he just came over 2 say sorry, so wat do i do? (link)
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Shit, I didn't know he came inside of you.
GET TO A PLANNED PARENTHOOD ASAP!
And get the emergency contraception pill because there is a high chance you could get pregnant. Don't wait, get there or to a doctor ASAP.
I'm not even kidding.
And yes, it is okay to like the feeling of him cumming inside of you, I'm told it is pleasurable but the fact that you could be pregnant at 13 freaks me out. You need to get help as soon as possible.
And if he knew the consquences of cumming inside of you and possibly screwing up your life and his maybe he shouldn't be forgiven. Ask him why he did it. Let him tell you. Then make a desicion. But I can't stress how important it is for you to get to a doctor NOW.
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Ok this is serious and I'm really scared. Please answer this truthfully. So today I was with my boyfriend of over a year at his house. He was fingering me and then he stuck his penis inside of me...without a condom. = ( I didn't realize that it was his penis. I quickly got it out, less than a minute. Then he went and got a condom and he put it in there for about five minutes tops. He wasn't being the rough but what are the chances of me getting pregnate? oh and by the way i'm only thirteen, but i've had my period. what do i do if i am pregnant and what is the earlyest i would be able to tell? i rate really high (link)
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I know what you mean. My boyfriend and I had just gotten done having sex and he wanted to know if he could get inside of me without a condom, just for a second. I let him and I was very freaked out for a month, as I should have been.
My advice is go to Planned Parenthood ASAP and get the emergency contraception pill. They make you pay according to income level so if you're broke they should give it to you for free. But it only carries a 70-89% rate of success, for reasons stated in the paper they give you. While you're there I also suggest getting on birth control so this need not be a worry for you.
And talk to your boyfriend about putting his penis in you without your consent, because that seems a little shady. Especially without a condom, because there is such thing as precum, which can contain sperm and can get you pregnant.
If I can ease your mind at all however I seriously doubt you are pregant but be more careful next time! But if you do happen to be pregant you will be able to tell from a test after you miss your period (if you do) and you need to tell an adult if you are, and go from there. Best of luck!
♥ Christina
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okay...i'm 13, and just lost my virginaty yesterday. actually, i'm not sure if i did or didn't. i was raped by my next door neighbor who is 16, and has a gf. also, my bf came to find me, and caught me being raped, but he thought that we were actually having sex. now he's mad and won't talk to me because i won't have sex with him. i really need help talking to him and everything. and should i tell my parents? or not? help!!! (link)
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Tell your parents right away and get a report filed. Rape is wrong. Don't let him get away with it. And after that have your parents take you to your boyfriend's house so you can talk to him about it. Tell him that you were being raped and explain that it hurts that he won't talk to you in this tough time in your life. Hopefully he will believe you and be there for you during this tough time. Either way you need to tell an adult, and fast! Best of luck and I'm so sorry this happened to you.
♥ Christina
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Me and my boyfriend have sex. But whenever we do, he can only last like 2-5 mins. He has no idea why. Before with his ex he said he used to be able to last like 20 mins+. Is there anything that he or I can do to make him last longer? (link)
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If he's not wearing a condom, he will likely cum faster. Try wearing a condom if he isn't already, as it numbs the sensations so he will keep his erection longer.
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hey this week have been very longgg week because i've know alot of people who are commenting suicide or died of suicide its so depressing for me right now because i've known this girl who just died of suicide this monday and it was hard for me to get through because i've known her since 1st grade and some reason my life have been in a total shock and it keep staying in that way its making me want to do something and i don't know what it is. its hard i can't help it its just like somebody have tooked my life away. what is really suicide? i know what it is but i don't know everything about suicide tho can you give me facts about it please!!. This past month i've known 2 suicides right now its sooo depressing for me right now its making me want to cry my eyes out for a year. i need some help. thanks
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Suicide is the acting of taking your own life, mainly because you are depressed and feel like you can't handle life. It is not a smart desicion as you hurt all the people that truly cared about you.
I suggest seeing the school counselor to talk about your feelings. School counselors often see students traumatized by student suicides or deaths.
I'm so sorry to hear what you are going through, take care!
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