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ive had sex like, 10 times with my bf and he sticks his penis really deep in and so it feels really good, except for when he uses a glove. is it weird for it to feel kinda itchy? also, when we do oral we wanna spice it up. what are some styles so that its more fun and naughty?
Ummm, its not necessarily for you to itching in any kind of way after sex. For the spicing it up, I heard that having sex in the shower and giving him head will excite and give you a new way of pleasure, be flexible and bold, try any new ideas, grab a cosmopolitan mag, they def. have ideas
for some reason, it never fails, after sex i get a bad urinary tract infection. my mother is beginning to wonder why i keep getting these out of the blue. is there anything that can prevent this?
I think you should see a doctor, or if you want it to be anonymous, google a nearby hospital, get a random woman doctor's bio, and get the email (I know this sounds stupid, but it will work.). Email the doctor, and see what she says. THat way, she will give you an unbiased opinion on what is the problem and how to solve it. Till then, you may want to obstain from sex until you find the reason.
Hope this helps
hi. i had sex for the 1st time on the night of january 20th. it is january 22nd and i am still randomly bleeding. its not blood like period blood, its thinner and lighter in color.like a wound. i know the 1st time you have sex you bleed and it hurt a lot so i was expecting it. has it been too long though, for me to have been bleeding? my boyriend used a condom and he did not cum. he said that there was absolutely no sperm. We waited until the condom was on to do anything. however, i have read about conceptional bleeding and im worried. im so stressed and nervous that i may be pregnant. what should i be thinking right now?
ok, my personal opinion is that you are not pregnant. Because it was your first time, your cherry popped (your hymen), so it might bleed for a few days, even up to a week (anytime after that, see a anonymous nurse or doctor. Skin was torn, and so it will bleed. Dont worry about it.Just stop stressing, and wear a light pad. Its only been four days, you should be ok. IF you are still really nervous then get a pregnancy test. But honestly, i really dont think thats the case
Hope I helped
Good luck
I lost my virginity to one of my guy friends on jan.7th. We were fine and talked a couple times a week up till yesterday. He sent me a text message yesterday and was telling me how he liked one of our friends and wanted my input on what he should do. I obviously told him that i wouldnt tell him what i thought because i care alot about him and dont want to see them together.
He told me that i knew that i was just a one time thing and i need to get over it. i got really upset and started flipping out on him. He said i was just a booty call and i should of kept my legs closed and quit throwing myself on him.
(he is the one that Asked me out that night, hes the one that wanted to have sex with me)
Im really upset and i cant handle this anymore. Its the second time in three months that he has used me.
Im begging you guys to help me out here.
18/f
It seems to me that this guy is a jerk. ANd i know you care about him, so you need to really evaluate yourself on how much you can really take. BUt the fact that he was willing to admit that you were a 'booty call', means that he doesnt care about your feelings. PLease im begging you dont ever have sex with him again. My advice is to disown him completely or for w little while, because honestly if you dont, he will think that it is ok to take advantage of you just because he knows that you like him. SO distance yourself from him, and close ties (it doesnt have to be all). And since you still care about him, you can maybe say hi to him everyday, or everyweek. Just try to slowy take him out of your life. I hope you feel better.
Take care of yourself
Hope I helped
okay so i am 16 years old/female and i have only gotten my period once.. when i was 14. i think this is really wierd because like i have gone through every other part of puberty, like im done growing and my boobs are big and everything. when i did get my period it was a full 6 days and i dont know why i never got it again. it was late to begin with too since i have been the same height and stuff since i last got it. my parents say want to take me to get blood work done and im scared though. what could be the reason for not getting it? i've also never had sex and i also get a normal amount of discharge. help please!!!!
DOnt panic, however, you should see a doctor. OR if your uncomfortable with that, look up a random (good) doctor, and ask him/her a anonymous question, and see waht advice he gives you.
I have a boyfriend who has already had sex. I think i'm ready to have it and I love him very much.
I want to have sex with him.
But i'm afraid of what will come after,
or when people find out.
And it'll be my first time and I wont know what to do.
And I guess I'm just scared and need to know
what i should do before sex to make sure im protected enough and is it okay to have it if im ready?
Well its good that right now you know what you want, but on the other hand, your smart that you know that there can be real consequences. I think that if your taking these all in, and are kind of scared, then you might not be completely ready. You should talk to him. Have a discussion. But first ask him to think completley about you feelings when responding in this talk, tell him not to take in account that he might want to have sex with you. YOu should have the talk, because then your want may increase or decrease, by actually talking to him as if it were a reality.
And if you think your ready....I think you should have at least two condoms ready. Because once that moment escaltes to almost sex, saing no because you dont have any and neither does he, will be hard to stop. So stay protected, and know what you want. THis is a turning point in your life, choose carefully
Hello. I'm very nervous. Okay well me and my boyfriend have sex now. I'm 14 and he's 16, and he popped my cherry. We usually have sex, alot. We sometimes don't do it with protection. He pulls it out though. I'm just extremly worried. My period always changes though. It rotates, like some months I get it at the beginning of the month, and some twords the very end. Last month I got it at the beginning so I figured I would this month, I haven't. I'm scared, but I don't know what to do. I've been getting cramps, like you do from the period. Uhh, do you think I could be pregnant? What should I do!!!! Thankss. (=
wow your 14, but dont panic, u obviously have a regularly irregular period, so you dont know exactly whether your pregnant. Hopefully your not, but maybe you should secretly get a pregnancy test. Honestly maybe this is a sign that you should either give sex a break for awhile, or you should be alot more sexually resonsible....Just be careful,...ure really young for a child
ok so a couple of weeks ago i was at the movies with a couple of friends. one of which i really like. so we started making out and "feeling" on each other. then he undid my belt and i sort of kicked him. and he was like "oh sorry is that too far?" and i said i dunno. so he
re-did my belt (it was the cutest thing ever) and we proceded with the "kissing and feeling". im 14. so my question is...should i have let him into my pants and such?
Wow! 14, I am actually that age and I have gotten about that far also...you have a good head on your shoulders since you told him to stop, you should not of let him into your pants, not only to boys talk after its done things could have gone way to far. And if this is th first time and you would of let him....it would have only gone farther,the nest time
ok, me and my girlfriend are planning on having sex,and she is scared that the condom might break or she might get pregnant. i was wondering if i pull out soon enough and im using a condom if that would decrease the chances, even tho theres the pre cuming thing? and i was also wondering if there are any other precautions we could take besides for birth control?
I know this might sound corny but it makes sense....the feelings you have about sex is very important, you have to be both physically and mentally ready, and thats both of you. She sounds unsure and you sound worried, those are not feelings that should go into having sex. Yes, that should be a concern of every person, however, its supposed to be a beautiful thing, oh yeah, and pulling ut right b4 u ejacualte isnt going to prevent her from getting pregnant, all it takes is one egg and one sperm, thats it. If you are completely set onhaving sex, then then there is a diaphram ( a female condom) there is a pill, a patch and you can always be ghetto and layer the condoms 2-3-4 times over. But make sure you are ready. Other precations is getting tested, uless you are both virgins, then I honestly think that both people should be sexually responsible by getting checked.