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Hey, i'm April. I'm 17 and live in Indiana. On September 2nd 2009 I had mt lovely daughter Avril Jane. Being a mom is not as hard as everyone always says it is. I have been dating my wonderful boyfrendd Jarrod since Sept. 28, 2008. I'm pretty relaxed and I love to help people!

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Hey you said you were on depo provera before. Did you stop getting your period right away? Cuz I have not gotten mine since the shot. My doctor told me I wouldnt get it...but every web site i read says you stop getting after a couple months.

Personally I haven't had a period since the shot and it's been 2 months.

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Okay, so im 14 and all and i've been having my period for 2 years, btw. But anyways to the point: Last night my boyfriend fingered me for the first time. (that was the first time ive ever done anything like that) and well it didnt hurt or anything but i wasnt supposed to start m perios till next week and this morning/evening when i went to the bathroom i started it. I dont understand why this happend. Like, was it from him fingering me? Or it that possible?

It most likely didn't have anything to do with him fingering you. Your body was just ready to have a period then.

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Do self-actualized or people who credit themselves to a point, with making them who they are, masturbate a lot? Just wondering.

I searched and searched on google and I couldn't find anything that connects the two, sorry!

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Alright so I am on the depo provera shot for about 3 weeks or so. It is right around the time of my normal period. Last night i noticed i had very light pink discharge. I know that can be a early sign of pregnancy but i really do not think i am because when ever I've had sex while on the shot we used a condom or he pulled out. Could this pink discharge just be a result of the hormonal changes from the shot? I'm concerned...

I'm on the shot and I had pink discharge for about 2 days. I went to my gyno and she said that pink, brown, or red spotting was normal. I highly doubt you're pregnant since depo provera is such a potent birth control.

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okay so i get my legs waxed (full leg) and under my arms, but i shave my area.
i was just wondering how much it hurts to get a bikini wax ?
i know you cant really do it at home, but i highly doubt theyre going to let me do it concidering im 16 in august.
thanks :)

I get mine done regularly. The first time, I wont lie, hurts realllly bad.My eyes watered. you start to get used to it though, then it is just a mild sting.

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since i hate shaving my "down below", would it be okay if i naired it with the stuff i use for my legs? or would that be bad..

Not nair for your legs. Tey make Nair for your bikini area. Don't out it by your vagina though, just on your pubic bone part.

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wat brand of coundoms do u prefer

TROJAN all the way!!!

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I heard that after having a child you can have your pussy tighteneed. Like surgically. It is this true?

Yes

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i hooked up with my ex last night... he has been talking to me adn everything... but i dont know if it was just a hook up... how do i find out

Ask him if he wants to go back out with you. If he says yes then it wasn't. If he says no then it most likely was.

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whats something really sexy i can do to turn on my bf without actually touching him sexually cause we havent been dating long and i am not ready for anything like that. plus we arent even considering having sex or going to third base. so anyway what are some things guys find irresitable? like i have kissed him and rubbed his back and stuff and act really flirty but what can i do to like tease him and where do guys like you to touch them and stuff. i know every guy is different and that i could ask him but i want suggestions from you please and what you do, etc. thanks a bunch :]

4 words. Sit on his lap.

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If you go to the gynocologist can she tell if you've had sex, or you've done something else?

She can tell that your hymen is not intact but it isn't always from sex. The hymen can be broken due to many things. She can't tell your parents if you don't want her to due to Doctor-Patient Confidentiality.

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ok does it hurt to get done up the butt?
or does it feel good?
please help!!! thanx

It feels good for the guy because it's tighter, but for the girl it hurts a lot. That's why a lot of girls don't like it.

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to mostly guys, but girls too - should girls shave their vaginas?

It's up to you. if you don't want to don't. If you want to, do it. Most guys prefer it shaved at least trimmed. Once he's down there though he shouldn't really be bothered by it.

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can women get pregnant if her hymen isnt broken but a guy came in her?

Yes

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how long, on adverage, does it take for a girl to come? is it possible that some girls cant come? i've had sex and such with guys, and never came. Of course, it could be that they weren't adequate in the sex department, but I just want to know if there's possibly something wrong with me.

Every girl is different. Some come quickly, some come slowly, and some don't come at all. If you aren't orgasming maybe you are focusing too much on it. Just relax and think about good it feels.

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Okay so I have this problem Im in to the vampire sex i love it when my bf bites me and well i like practically everything he does to me and i mean everything he knows how to turn me on really fast does that mean im easy of does this mean hes really good

Neither. He just knows what you like and obviously he wants to please you.

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I know its illegal if one person is above 18 and the other one is below but is it illegal if you're both 18? My parents said it was but then why do they sell condoms to kids if that's promoting illegal activity?

It is legal if both persons are 18 or older. I don' think that they sell them to promote any illegal sexual activity. They sell them to promote safe sex. Hope I helped!

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Does it feel good when someone fingers you? Because my boyfriend wants to, but I'm scared that it wont feel good or it will hurt. What about after if he's fingers are wet? What does he do? I feel like an idiot for asking, but I really wanna know..

If he's gentle and knows what he doing then yes. If you are scared of it hurting then have him start off with one finger then work his way up. If his finger is wet it might make it easier depending on how wet you already are. He will put his finger(s) inside of you and move them around. He may also rub your g-spot. It is about an inch inside of you and can be reached if he does the "come here" motion with his finger.

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