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I know a girl, who i played soccer with and who was in 1st period with all year during school, and it seems like we have a lot in common. The only problem is that she is a senior, and i am a freshman. I've always been nice to her, being that she is an upperclassman, and she has always been nice to me. I think we could be really good friends, but i feel like something is holding both of us back. Could it be because of the age difference? If anyone wants to know more to answer the question better, comment me back. (link)
Yes it could be because of the age difference, but it could also be maybe you two have completely two different groups of friends so she is holding back on becoming good friends because of her friends? which shouldnt matter who is friends with who, but lets face it unfortunately it does matter in highschool to people for some reason. Try asking her to the mall or the movies or something if you want to become closer friends! ♥ if there is a reason you can't do that just ask me again telling more to the story.


My best friend in the WHOLE world told me that she is going to privite school next year. Today was the last day of school and she's leaving for 8 weeks of sleepaway camp TOMORROW!! I know I will see her after camp but I just have this feeling we'll get torn apart during the school year. I'm really scared to walk the halls of my school without her!! Help me get over this emptiness im starting to feel! (link)
Aww
maybe you should start hanging out with your other friends too! you shouldnt stop being best friends with her, but you should start hanging out with other people before the school year starts! i know what you mean cause i'm moving so i'll be going to a completely new school next year..and I still call my best friends every day and we keep in touch! =D


Ok I have these 2 friends. I know them both really well. We are so close. Well today they played a trick on me. They made up a screenname and pretended they were this girl that I hate with a passion. They talked a bunch of shit. Well it got to the point that when the convo was over that I sent the convo to 2 of my other friends e-mail and told them to read it. Well i go to tell my friend about it and turns out it was her and my other friend..The thing that made me mad and pissed off at them is the fact that they said it was that girl and they know i hate her. They completly don't know what happened between me and her and shouldn't have done it. But my ? is .....What should I do about it? I mean it might of been funny to them but they don't know the whole story and it completly pissed me off...Should I tell them it made me mad and that I am still mad at them....But please tell me what I should do....
Signed ,,,,TrueHope10 (link)
That is messed up.
tell them that was a bitchy thing to do and it wasnt funny and you would def. like an apoligy. OR give them a taste of their own medicine and do it back to them with someone THEY hate =D


my best friend marissa moved to germany.i really miss her.i've known her since pre-k.we did everything together.she was like a sis to me.but what really sucks...is that before she moved we had a fight.well actually she was mad at me for somethin real stupid.i can't call her b/c i don't have her#.and i don't know if she still has her comp.but i want to apologize.please help me.what should i do? (link)
Aw well what you can do is tell someone who has her number that you would really like to talk to her! and try to email her if you have it, and apoligize and let her know how stupid the fight was and you don't want her to remember you that way and you don't want to lose your friendship over it! goodluck babe! ♥


I'm having a party tonight and i dont know what games we should play. Does anyone have any suggetions. Please no dirty suggestions b/c my parents will be home!!! (link)
twister! =D


theres this boy that i like. But his like my best best best guy friend. sometimes he flirts with me, we do everything together, his brother n'd my brother are friends... what should i do?? should i ask him out or should i wait until he makes the move?... (link)
aw wait until he makes the first move so you won't feel ackward! =D


ok so heres the thing: im WAY too quiet, shy, and boring and its stopping me from meeting new people!! like whenever someone talks to me, they say something like hey and im like hi, then... *awkward silence* so then there like whats up an im like um,, nothing. *awkward silence*. like just today i met this really nice girl at the town pool ( not like i LIKED her as in crush, cause im a girl too) and she talked to me then there was awkward silence!! what can i do to have fun and comfortbale with people!! (link)
You need to open up a little more and ask questions when meeting new people such as "So what do you like to do for fun?" "do you have any brothers or sisters?" "how long have you lived here for?" questions like that, that will help you get to know eachother more. theres nothing to be afraid of! just be a little more outgoing and open =D


well i want to go to the movies with a friend of mine, but its a girl. how do i ask a girl to go somewhere (without having a group)without it sounding like a date? (link)
Well you can tell her "Would you like to go to the movies with me just as friends?" its simple as that =D


Im sorry its quite long but i really really do need help! I know its kinda bribing but I will give you 5 if its any reasonable answer! lol!
I have a friend, lets call her Hobbit because she is very short. Now she is, not that im being mean, rather unatractive but quite a nice person. She met this guy on the internet, we will call him Ent because he is very very tall.
Ent and Hobbit got together when he asked her out about a week or 2 after they started talking. He is 21 and she is 17. Quite a lot of her friends didnt like the idea of this so she told them she had dumped him but was actually still going out with him. I didnt really like the sound of it but i knew someone would have to stay on her good books to help her if things went pair shaped. Anyway, she met up with him for the first time last saturday and I came too because i wouldnt let her go on her own because he had been sounding more and more freaky by the day. When i met him though i thought yeh maybe he is alright, but i have discovered recently just how tempremental, slightly peverted and freaky he really is, oh and he also likes to mess with peoples minds for fun.
How can I convince someone who thinks the world of him, who falls for anyone who comes her way, that he is bad news and that i am scared for her, i have tried explaing to her but it just wont get through and im really really worried for her. (link)
Whoah thats pretty scary =\
I would def. point out main reasons you don't like him to her and ask her "you're really okay with him ____ (doing whatever he does)?" if she still says yes, you tried to warn her and do everything you can. You could contact an adult and let them know such as her parent or your parent but she might get mad. But if you are concerned and you think she is in danger def. tell someone!!


Okay , this girl moved from another part of the town to the part i live in around last year . I was quite popular in school. I became friends with her because i thought she was sweet and friendly. But since last month ( or maybe even before that ,who knows?) she started backstabbing me , but still acted nice and sweet and oh-so-innocent in front of me .I have been busy for some time because of some commitments i have , so i didn't realise this until last week . None of my old friends talk to me as much as before , and now even when i sms my best guy friend , he'll talk about her smsing him at the same time .And it seems as though all of them like her more than they like me , and my best guy friend ( former ? ) he'll say stuff like :" oh , me and her and ___ and ___ and ___ are real close man " Without even including ME ! And if he wants to go somewhere he'll say :"if she goes , i'll go . " It turns out she's been saying stuff behind my back , and now , SHE'S where i used to be , with MY friends , and MY popularity .Even my crush seems to sorta like her , and pay attention to her like how he used to do with me . WHAT SHOULD I DO ? (link)
She sounds like a real bitch.
you befriended her when she didn't have anyone and now shes backstabbing you? Tell her shes a bitch and to fuck off. And if your other friends are TRUE friends they will realize that she was the bitch and come back to you. If they don't I'm sure you will make new friends when school comes around, just give it time =D


hey therr. ok heres my problem . in july im going to universal studios for 5 days and i invited my friend to go with me. i bought her a ticket n evrything and her ticket was like$120 . well i just called her and she tells me she cant go anymore because her little sister found out and got mad because she wanted her to go to keywest with her. so she completly bailed on me and its most likely i'll never see her again either because shes trying to move back in with her mom and shes not going to the same school i was at anymore. can anyone give me advice on what I should do now. Ive tried inviting other friends but my mom hates most of my friends andthe ones she does like are busy doing something else or im not that good of friends with them to take with me for 5 days. i need help...fast.
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Maybe you could ask a family member you're close with like a cousin you like? Or ask your mom if its okay you bring a friend she doesn't like very much just so you will have someone to have fun with! hmm this one is tricky =\ hope i helped ya


Online I was talking to a close friend of mine about guys. He said theres alot of guys who would like to date me except they see me more of a friend than someone to go out with. I drop hints to the guys I like but they just dont get it it since their clueless lol. What could I do to make myself seem datable but not act like a slut at the same time? thanks , I'll rate. (link)
Maybe you're acting too much like "one of the guys" or maybe you dress a little tom-boyish? which there is nothing wrong with but if you want to catch their attention, dress a little more girly, maybe do your hair and some makeup.. and flirt =D if that doesn't give them a hint i dont know what will! ♥




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