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Hey, I'm Jen. I basically get on here when I'm really bored and I promise to be honest when answering your questions. :)

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Your a fucking idiot. Pot causes cancer... Get your facts straight before you say something that will influence how other people will think about this drug. Remember who told you pot caused cancer? He was misinformed, and then misinformed you. Now you've become that misinformed person and thus, have also become the misinformer. See how life goes ina circle?

What are you talking about? I never told anyone that.

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Is it worth it? Will we turn out the same if I make the first move?

How am I supposed to approach him about taking this relationship further. We're best friends and we're like a couple, such as cuddling, holding hands, and talking about our personal lives, but excluding the title of boyfriend/girlfriend or any kissing/making out. I'm 50% sure he likes me and 50% he knows that I like him. But how do I tell him that I'm ready to START being able to kiss him, and call him my boyfriend.

We're both 18 by the way, freshman in college, and on Winter Break, and won't see each other for another 2 weeks.

KISS HIM!!! :) good luck!

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okay so im graduating from middle school this year and i really want an AMAZING party :) i havent even asked my mom yet but shes gonna wanna know what my plans for the party are. i really hope she says yes and im expecting 20-30 people that are gonna be invited. i want something fun to do and i wanna do something like a water ballon fight or spray those silly string things but those are small things and want to do something else to do...i have decoration and food covered but what i need are the activties for 14 year olds to do...i no it sounds young but still we like to have fun :)

Dancing. It does not matter how old you are...dancing is always cool. You can hire a dj. Parties with them are always cool. Water balloons sound fun... I've never been to a party with one of those fights...lol Imma do one now. You can also use shaving cream.

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http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=534630

i don't think you guys understood my question.
i am completely aware of the fact that it's unfair & terrible for me to be mad at a girl who did nothing wrong.
THEREFORE,
AFTER I CAME TO THAT CONCLUSION,
i went to advicenators to find out
HHHHOOOOOWWWWWWW
to stop being mad at her & being jealous of her grades.
not to be retold that it's unfair & terrible.

can someone please help me? i really need help & advice. i cried so long yesterday and i felt so worthless... i need you guys to please help me. she gets perfect grades. i don't want to cry as i type this but i can't help it...

In a stereotypical society filled with parasitic destitute and the chronic dormant disease of propaganda I feel that the tobacco industry is responsible for your intense feelings of abhorrence.I know what you’re thinking – how is that hypothesis plausible? Well where did these feelings of indifference towards your friend begin – I’ll tell you where. In public places. And what happens in most public places. People smoke. Are you familiar with the Big Bang Theory? We’ll get into that later. But the point is that these toxic fumes not only kill brain cells but are able to manipulate our central lobe (located in the right side of the brain) and discord the production of several hormones, including testosterone. My point: You’re having a sever case of brain PMS.

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hi! im from saudi arabia and im looking for my friend... before she was in phil, i want to know where she is now... her names is louella roco robles. thanks for the help..

try myspace or facebook

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Recently, I don't know why but it seems like all my friends either odn't like or, avoiding me, or loosing interest in me.

Some things that they do alot know is being very sarcastically mean like "Oh...realllllllyyyyy..."

And sometimes i need hlep with my work and when i have a huge assignment and go on, EVERYONE goes offline or says "Sorry, G2g!"

I'm so hurt, what should i do? Making new friends fast isn't a skill that I have and things are the same as usual so it's not that I'm saying things behind their back or anything

Wow, I had the same exact problem last year. My best friend would just give me her thumbs up and pretend to listen. Well, I really dont know how to stop it. Im sorry. What I did was that when would do it, I would give a face saying the expression "yea" (as if I didnt care). I think she got the point and stopped. Maybe your friends dont notice that they are doing that. Maybe they have some problems and are just thinking about it too much. Try what I did, or just talk to them. I know, so weird. But what good about a friendship if you cant be honest with each other. Itll be over soon dont worry about it.

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Ok ok I know a lot of people have been asking this ,but I really am stuck. I really want to get my best friend something really nice for christmas, but I don't know what to get her. She is 16, loves theater and musicals, normally wears (American Eagle, Holister ect,) but I dont want to get her just a shirt. I want to get her something she will like.

Thanks in advance. I'll rate you. =]

Socks, who will say no to a pair of socks. Maybe a car would be nice too... lol Im sure she will like anything you give her. Christmas is not only about giving, its also about receiving...do you know what she is going to get you? lol. jk. If she is your best friend, anything will be great. After all, you know her best.

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16,f
There is a girl at school, she seems nice. So recently she got a myspace. She tells me "Oh you're on my top so I better be on yours!" so of course that means for me to put her on my top. I'm a nice person, so I did. Now I find out she is not the best person. She FAST in other words. And I do NOT want to be associated with people like that. I want to take her off my page, but what do I say if she asks what happened in the most polite way?? THANKS!

I hate it when that happens to me. Its really annoying. What I do, is hide my top friends. I cant give you the link because my friend does it for me. But go on yahoo and type "Hide top friends in myspace" and it will come out. If anything, just be straight foward with her or just smile and say "O really? You arent? Ill put you on right away" Then you just "forget". :D lol those are my ways.

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my best friend is dating my crush of three years-- she knows that i like him. infact we almost dated last year but some things happened and it didnt work out. ive never liked someone as much as i liked him, she knows that. she acts like she forgot. what should i do? do i want someone like that in my life?

ignore her and pretend that it doesnt bother you. she is probably dating him to bother you so by acting like its cool, u will bother her. and no you do not need that friend. actually that isnt a friend at all. so you shouldnt even call her that. flirt with him and try to win him back. therefore, you can date him and bother her. if she knew that you liked him, and even flirted with him then she is not a friend, she is a hypocrite.

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For a long time I have not been the typical friend happy wild and crazy party person a lot of people are I am quite boring at times actually but I am a good friend and I can be fun with the right person doing the right things. It is just that sometimes I think that I don't want a lot of friends any way because a lot of times they can cause drama or it's just another person that knows dirt about you that you have to be reminded of everytime you look at them Right now I have associates but no close friends and sometimes I feel lonely. Is it okay to be a loner or not?

you should get some friends, they are there for you when you are lonely, and to just have some fun! But know that its hard to get a good friend and i know this from experiece. But when you get that one good friend, your life changes, and you wont be lonely anymore. You will have someone to depend on. There are pros and cons on having friends, but i suggest you just think of the pros. Hope i helped...
xoxo
jennifer

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Hello to all. I'm a 14/f. I'm in the 9th grade. I have a serious problem. It's ruining my life. I've been noticing lately that people are using me. And I mean EVERYONE. When they need an answer (on a test, or a quiz w/e) they ask me. I, being a pushover, give them the answer and try to help them to the best of my ability. However, when *I* need something, like help, or advice, they shun me out. They ignore me and make up some lame excuse to not have to deal with me and my questions and problems. I used to think I can rely on a group of people, but now it turns out they're just using me. On the weekends, they NEVER call. They NEVER want to talk. However, when they need something, they always come to me. (This is probably because I get straight A's...) I feel like an object...a piece of gum, that has been chewed up and spit out. I'm coming to the point where my favorite band and my own cat are my best friends. I can't rely on anyone because I know they will use me. I help them truthfully...and they end up backstabbing me. Like an example of a situation: I finished an exam online (it's worth a grade) and I got a 60. My friend asked me to give her some answers to cheat since it won't affect my 60 anyways...so I gave her 7 answers...and she got a 79. While I was upset, she started asking me if I think the teacher will pull the grade up to an 80 -_-. I then asked her for help and she rejected. I'm so confused.

You have the same problem i once had...you need to learn to say "no". When they ask you forsomething, make an excuse, and they WILL eventually get the point and leave you alone. that used to be me in 6thgrade(im now in 10th). Leave that group of "friends" and find new ones. find true friends, smart friends, friends that you will still know in 10 years. Dont befriend the "popular" girls because most of them arent smart and just pretend to be friends with you for the answers of work. They are hypocrites. Just find smart, nice, normal friends...they are the best.

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i'm trying to plan a party with one of my friends
what kind of stuff would be fun besides a scavenger hunt in wal mart?

like crafts or something thats cool?
for like freshman in high school...? haha thanks

well i am a sophmore in high school and i do indeed love scavenger hunts. You can dance at you house all night long!!! Thats alot of fun. Also, if you want, do a karyoke contest to see who will win. That is always fun. But dancing is what most people do at parties. Hope you party goes as planned!

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13/F

I'm kinda tomboyish and only hang out wit like 5 girly girls.da otha ppl i hang out wit are guys. so i like this guy dat i knew for a long time but me n him always play around and make sex jokes about each otha but i think he really like me so how can i know if he does or if he jus wanna stay friends?

Talk to him. There is only one way to find out for sure, and its to ask him. Tell him that you like him more than a friend and if he likes you the same way. If you dont ask him, then you will stay wondering if he truly likes you, which he might. If he flirts with you, and only you, then he does. If he flirts with alot of girls, then he might be just playing around. I have a friend that flirts with everyone, but that is the way that he is. So ask him. Dont be afraid to. And, if you are brave enough, you make the first move. You might not regret it. Hope it all works out!!!!!!!!!!!

Jennifer

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one friend that i have mentioned before has been relly gettin on ma last nerves. i was late for skool one day went up behind her and said "boo" the girl turned around and punched me in the face and i was ready to scream and cry but i didn't.All i could do was hold my nose.Then, another day i was in the lunchroom and i tripped on her bookbag and fell on her and she took he hand and dug her nails into my wrist and i started bleeding. i have been in so many arguements wit her and she says stuff behind peoples' backs. it wasn't pretty. please try to answer me right now!!! THANKS!!! and she said she is very nice. HA!!

It seems to me that you are by far better off without her. Who in the world needs a friend that hurts you physically? Isnt that abuse? Well get rid of this friend until she does something worse...that can be life threatning. Just ignore her, and find a new friend that will actually be there for you and never hurt you. I know its hard since there isnt alot of decent people in the world, but im sure ull find someone. Hope i helped!!! remember: she doesnt deserve you!!!

xoxo
jennifer

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Im 13\f i reallyyyy like this guy and i havnt meet anyone like him before. two of my best friends like him to i was okay with it because me and him talk everyday and i didnt think that he would just like forgett about me because he seems like he likes me. then he said one of my friends was pretty and nice and he was going to ask her out. i started crying and i told her that i didnt want her to because it was weird since i like him. and she got all mad at me because i was jelous but i knew him first and stuff but i dont wanna ask him out cuz it would ruin our friendship.
I REALLY NEED HELP!!! i cant take it anymore.
thanks

You did the right thing by telling your friend your true feelings. Hidding them would only make things worst. However if your friend freaked and acted like a total lunatic then she really isn't your friend. She chose a guy over you! No REAL friend does that. I think you should stay away from her, she seems like trouble. That's the type of girl that steals boyfriends. And that guy doesn't seem worth it. Besides, why get stuck with a guy who can't even make up his mind as to who he likes? That only causes more drama which leads to a lot of bullshit. Move on. Get a new friend. And go back to fishing for a guy.

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