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i dont want to lose our friendship..
Im 13\f i reallyyyy like this guy and i havnt meet anyone like him before. two of my best friends like him to i was okay with it because me and him talk everyday and i didnt think that he would just like forgett about me because he seems like he likes me. then he said one of my friends was pretty and nice and he was going to ask her out. i started crying and i told her that i didnt want her to because it was weird since i like him. and she got all mad at me because i was jelous but i knew him first and stuff but i dont wanna ask him out cuz it would ruin our friendship.
I REALLY NEED HELP!!! i cant take it anymore.
thanks<3
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You did the right thing by telling your friend your true feelings. Hidding them would only make things worst. However if your friend freaked and acted like a total lunatic then she really isn't your friend. She chose a guy over you! No REAL friend does that. I think you should stay away from her, she seems like trouble. That's the type of girl that steals boyfriends. And that guy doesn't seem worth it. Besides, why get stuck with a guy who can't even make up his mind as to who he likes? That only causes more drama which leads to a lot of bullshit. Move on. Get a new friend. And go back to fishing for a guy.
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I think you're being unfair to your friend. She liked this guy as much as you liked him, and her crush asked her out, so you should be happy for her. I know you're upset about it, but how would you feel? If this guy asked you out, and a friend told you not to go out with him because she likes him too, wouldn't that be a disloyal friend? It's wrong for you to do that.
It's awful that you've known him longer and everything but he chose to ask another girl, but I don't think you should get in the way of your friend's relationship with this guy. Slowly get over it. You'll get a chance with another boy. You're only 13. Love isn't a big thing to worry about yet. Take a deep breath, and move on.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
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