My friend(mia) liked this guy(bob) for two years and she told me a week ago that she stopped liking him. Well I was talking to a different friend, Chrissy today and she told me that Bob hooked up with this other girl(Rachel) alot over the past few months. Should I tell Mia this or just let it go? Bob was hooking up with rachel while mia liked him.
I would just let it go, cause she doesnt like him anymore and it would be pointless to get her all upset about something that shes not interested in anymore. Ya know? Save her the pain.
KRystal
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k i have this friend and shes 16 and we're like really close... shes really sweet and teachers love her, all honors classes, honor roll, the whole deal. but lately shes been like rebelling a lot i guess and i don't like it at all. i mean i'm finee with alcohol and i'm even ok that she does pot once in a while.. but now shes like hooking up with random older drunk and she wants to have sex with one of them... but i think she'll really regret it later.. i mean shejus met the kid and they're not gonna go out. and also shes going to this party for st patricks day this weekend that im esp. worried about.. in order to get there she has to drive her and her friends and she only has her permit! so like.. if she gets pulled over i'm really scared.. plus there's gonna be more intense drugs at this party that i really don't like. i try to tell her she's making a mistake but she won't listen and tells me to 'live for today' ... idk am i being to harsh?? are there any specific ways to tell her? and getting new friends is not really an option for me. trust me, its not gonna work. thanks =/
Well i think that she needs to experience the damage herself. Let her get into trouble and then maybe she'll see that she needs to stop. Thats aboutt the only way to make someone stop doing things that their friends or family knows is hurting them. Well i dont think your being to harsh at all, your just looking out for a good friend of yours. She may get mad and want to do even more bad stuff if you keep nagging her about it ( not saying your nagging!)..so dont talk to her for a while and maybe she'll get the point that if your ignoring her then she'll stop.
Good Luck
Krystal
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Sometimes, my one friend can be really mean. She is very controlling, and ALWAYS has to have it go her way. We are all getting really annoyed by it. But one thing she does that just drives me crazy, is that she changes her mind about things! I'll have her over to watch a movie, and she'll really like it, but then the next day at school (when we're around our other friends) I'll talk to her about the movie, then she'll say something like, That movie was strange. I always say that you liked it when you watched it, but she'll usually say something like, well it was good, but it was also strange! I just want to slap her or something! Why do you think she is doing this to me, and is there a way to tell her to stop doing it?
your friend is two-faced. she acts one way around you and another way around everyone eles. i think you should ask her why she does that. ask her when there is alot of people around so you can make her feel stupied, like the way she makes you feel stupied. its only fair.... ya noe. then i would stop hanging with her until she stops being two-faced. i hope iv helped!!!
krystal
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I really don't know why, but I'm scared to miss a day of school. I never use to. I'm just scared that my friends will talk about me when I'm not there, and if they don't call me after school, I'm worried that they are mad at me. I never use to be like this. I don't think I should worry because I know I have done nothing wrong, and once when my other friend was absent, my one friends didn't talk badly about her.(my one friends talk about people behind their backs all the time!) So I shouldn't worry. Do you think I sould call them when school is out? Or does that make me kinnda desperate?
this is something that i cannot help you with. this is something that you need to take up with your friends. and if their really your friends then they will not talk about you.
good luck
♥ krystal
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There is this girl who use to hang out with us, but then she stopped and I was very happy about that because she hated me! Well, now she is starting to hang out with us more and I don't want it! We don't really like her, we'll be nice, but we don't want her in our group. She was the reason we got in a fight once. She never liked me. I have tried so many times to get her to like me, but she wont. My one friend said, "you just have to have her over." So I tried to have her over about 4 times but it was alwyas a no! She is being nice to me now, but I know she really isn't. I bet she is just being nice, so when I go to my friends and say she is really mean to me, they wont believe me. Is there any way to get her to leave us alone!?! Thanks.
You need to just tell her to leave you guys alone. if you dont ever tell her then she will never know there is a problem!! (see what im sayin)so you just need to be honest with her and dont be scared!! she'll understand.
good luck
♥ krystal
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I have 3 really good friends, but one of my friends constantly changes on which friend to be her favorite. You can always tell too, becasue she'll always want to be partners with her, always want to sit/walk/stand by her, and she'll call you after school everyday. I'm really getting sick of it. When she does favor one friends, she ends up leaving the others out, and sometimes being really mean. Today when I called her on the phone, she seemed like she didn't want to start a big conversation like we always do. I was starting to think that maybe she wasn't in the mood for a conversation, becasue when I do call her when she doesn't favor me, she does like to start good conversation. But Once at the end of the day, I was walking right beside her, and my other friend was up a little farther, so she yelled out "Wait for me!" Everytime I try to say something like, why are you leaving me out a little bit, she'll get mad. How can I tell her without getting mad?
Well it seems to me that she a a real mean person. if u were her true friend then she would not be doing this to you. i think that she likes seeing you always felling like you are left out all the time. what i would do is dump this girl as a friend, and see what she does.
keep in touch
always krystal
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I'm always constantly worrying that my friends are going to turn against me. I never use to be like this till 7th grade, because my friends got mad at me for something that happened in 6th grade. Everythings really good now. But I worry almost every weekend thinking that their going to do it again. Is there any way I can relax for once? Thanks.
Just dont give them a reason to turn against you. if you dont do anything to them they most likey wont turn against you!!!! Ways to realx is: stop worrying so much, and just chill out!!
good luck
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krystal
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i dont know why but all the sudden im VERY queit,not outgoing,not noticed,i just hate it!! im not lucky and i say EVERYTHING at the wrong moment.how can i become more outgoing? i need to find my true self! i need to become more outgoing and fun befor i seep into the walls! if this help... 13/f/aries.
there are alot of girls going though the same thing believe me!! you are only 13 yrs old, what do you expect. you are now just figure-in-out who you are as a person and you are just going through something that will pass in good time. so please dont worry about this you will change believe me!!!!!!
krystal
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