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Outgoing...
i dont know why but all the sudden im VERY queit,not outgoing,not noticed,i just hate it!! im not lucky and i say EVERYTHING at the wrong moment.how can i become more outgoing? i need to find my true self! i need to become more outgoing and fun befor i seep into the walls! if this help... 13/f/aries.
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Oh, you're just thirteen. You'll grow out of it, I promise. We've all been there.
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ok, i am pretty sure i know how you are feeling. it is probably because you are a teenager.. your changing alot & going through a lot. if it helps you could read the book "HOW TO WIN FRIENDS & INFLUENCE PEOPLE FOR TEEN GIRLS" - it will teach you how to become more outgoing and make friends.
if you want to be more outgoing, smile and say hi to people and use their names (it makes them feel closer to you.). start talking to people and ask questions about them. if you have simliair interests, talk about that.
try to let go a little bit & not care what everyone thinks of you .. this can make you more shy and self-conscious. dont care so mcuh about what others think.
hope i helped!
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It's good to be reserved like that people respect you a lot more. You are 13 and trying to find your place in school, in your freinds, and in life, what I would say is just to be happier. Go into school with a smile, leave wiht a smile. Laugh at funny things and enjoy yourself.. you can't go wrong with that!
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there are alot of girls going though the same thing believe me!! you are only 13 yrs old, what do you expect. you are now just figure-in-out who you are as a person and you are just going through something that will pass in good time. so please dont worry about this you will change believe me!!!!!!
krystal<33
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Well, to tell you the truth you really aren't the only one going through this. You are only 13 years old and a lot of teenagers have that time in their lives and it's pretty normal. The reason that you are quiet and starting to go back to your shell is because you are letting yourself be that way. I could never let myself just be all sad because it's wasting my time and it's not worth it. Do the things that you love to do and go out with your friends. If you don't have many close friends try meeting new people and have fun. Be yourself and just be friendly. Don't do anything that isn't who you are just so you can impress other people.
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