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Gender: Female Occupation: Student Age: 14 Member Since: May 29, 2005 Answers: 64 Last Update: December 1, 2005 Visitors: 5003
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HI JENNA!!!! this is jackie who just happens to b ur bff!! ha i found this nd idk wat to say but i wanted to say sumthin^_^ (link)
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Hey jackie! Ask me some questions next time you get the chance, be anonomous, lol. (^:
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well i have a question (please answer fast i rate high) well how do you know if one of your really friends likes you? like with out asking him about it like signs would help..
please help..
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Well if he is not like your total best friend, and he gets kinda personal with you (Like asks different things that normal friends would probably not ask.) Or you can always ask one of your friends that hangs out with him to tell him, i noticed you acting different around (you) and have her/him ask do you like her or something. Hope i helped!
Thanks,
Jenna
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ok i have a friend name aurora. she's bin really sad alot latly. the reason why is that she barly has any friends. well i've tried getting her out into like really socil public places where she's likely to make some really good friends. but she keeps on my offer. and she is being too stuborn her self. ok here is my question. How the hell can i help her out if she wont listen to me? (link)
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I don't think she needs new friends, it might help, but i think you should go shopping with her, do some fun stuff together, maybe that will cheer her up a bit. It is also sometimes hard for people to make new friends if they are shy. Have you ever asked her if she wants new friends? I think you are being a really great friend to her. Keep doing your best to help her out. Maybe invite some of your friends to hang out somewhere, and invite aurora, maybe they will like each other, and you can all hang out. Hope I helped!
Thanks,
Jenna
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I don't have much time in my crazy schedule and my boyfriend and have gotten really close lately and hang out all the time... my friends are getting annoyed and are saying that i don't spend enough time with them. i try really hard to do things with them, but it seems that i can never fit everyone in.. i want to stay close to my boyfriend but i don't want to lose my friends either.. comment please! (link)
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Just tell your boyfriend that you can hang out with him, but not all the time. Your life isn't only devoted to one person. You have friends that you love to hang out with, but you still want to hang out with him as much as possible. Hope i helped!
Thanks,
Jenna
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ok.. i have this friend, and she's been my friend ever since pre-k! i haven't been in her class for a while, and now i am. we've been hanging out a lot more often, and she gets really annoying!! please help! thanks! (link)
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I think you should just make other friends, make plans with them, and if she asks you to hang out, just say you have plans. Don't stop hanging out with her and be mean, but you don't have to always hang out with her.hope i helped.
Thanks,
Jenna
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i hate myself i really do. when i look at myself i just want to end my life. i feel so ugly. and i have no friends. i never had a bf and no one ever liked me before. But that is not why i am crying. i stop caring about my uglyness. i was in my bestfriends house and she was talking to her mother about me. I guess they thought i wouldnt hear it. Her mother goes i know u feel sorry for her and all but now that you made new friends its time to let this one go. my friend goes yeah eww gosh i hate her. She smells bad and wow shes very ugly. my new friends dont like her and i just dont know how to leave her with out sounding me! wow i started to cry. that hurt so bad. the only perosn i loved and cared about hates me and never liked. she just used me!!
what do i do? how can i change for her? i need to be her friend (link)
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Just tell her you heard her talknig to her mom about you and that you know that she doesn't want to be friends with you anymore. Also tell her that you don't want to be enemies and not talk, but you can say hi to each other and still be friends, but not best friends.Hope i helped.
Thanks,
Jenna
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I have this friend and she hangs out with me all the time and stuff but shes kinda mean to me and sometimes it gets to the point where im so sad that i cry . what should i do? (link)
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She sounds like a really cruddy friend. Just tell her "i hate when you are being mean to me. It really bugs me and you hurt my feelings."do not tell her you cry though, because if she is as mean as you say she is, and is mad that you said that, she might tell everyone your a baby or something. Tell me how it works out.Hope i helped.
Thanks,
Jenna
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hello...
the other night i went to my friends b-day party and the girls(and guys) triple dog dared me to call up this guy (hes kinda a nerd) and ask him out just to see what he would say...
so i called him (not thinking of what i was getting into) and he said yes. so anyway i saw him at the coffee shop the next day and told him what my friends dared me to do...and BIG MISTAKE i told him who dared me. now he is "plotting revenge" against them...
do i tell my friends what is going to happen to them or not?
BTW: im 13/f and dont tell me that i was retarded for doing that because i already know that. WILL RATE enless its a smartass answer. (link)
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I think you should tell your friends what happened, or what's going to happen to them. If you don't, and they find out that you knew about it, they will probably be furious at you, more than they will if you tell them. this may be confusing to you, but it might work. at least they know what will coming so they are not so suprised. Anyway this nerd might not be telling the truth, he might just try to scare you. But you never know. I hope i helped.
Thanks,
Jenna
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hey,
ok well here's the problem --- see if you can do the math. Ok my friend Eric is the FUNNIEST guy i've ever met, he's my sunshine in total *u*king darkness... like i talk to him to help me deal with my oh-so-emo life. He's always there for me, and i'm always there for him. I'd help him with ALL kinds of his problems, but then he just got a new (and totally bad!) one.. that i cant seem to solve. His girlfriend broke up with him, and they went out for 2 years, the breakup was REALLY hard on him *he thought he was gonna marry her or something* and he really wants a girlfriend. I'm not sure if he's on the rebound, but i dont think so. He's 16 and driving this September, and yet he cant get a girlfriend. He's semi-hot, but looks dont matter *even though they sorta do but..*. He said that he knows alot of girls and has alot of friends that ARE girls, but they are all taken. He dosent see the beauty of being single--yet. But he's been really depressed and so have i, i got threatend to be killed, and i wanted him to help me cope with it through laughter, but he was just as upset. Also, he's in my band, and the band is me and him lol, and we both make lyrics, and my lyrics are serious and emo because i'm going through that stage in life when everything sucks, and he makes the fun, jump-in, dance, funny, sorta lyrics, but ever since he's been depressed, his lyrics are just like mine, and i dont want everyone to think our band is emo and gothy. Also, i want the best for him, cause he's my homeboy lol. My friends and i talked to him about dying his hair and stuff *changing his apperance* but he's a band jocky, and he's a lost cause. WHAT DO I DO?! I rate high!!! (link)
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I'm sry to hear about all the crap that is happening to you and your friend. I think you should tell him that he can't rush love, or just fake love (like not love). Try to show him how much fun it is to be single sometimes, and before you know it, love will come to him. It may not happen right away, but tell him not to base his life on finding a girlfriend. I know breakups are hard, i've been through it, but i got over it after a while. Right now, he may be asking you to help him to find a girl to go out with, but what he really needs is for you to help him get over his ex. I really hope i helped you and your friend out. If you ever need more advice, i'm always here.
Thanks,
Jenna
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kay i have these friends that i meet in 6th grade ive known them for two years now and a short time ago they all got mad at me and started curseing me out. they wont leave me alone i want to for get them because they have mad my life a leaveing hell. they even got my best friend to curse me out and blow stuff of with me and go with them. we are goign to the same high school in a year and they wont stop. i dont kno what to do? im lost please help. thanx!! (link)
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It sounds like they are a mean group of people, you should try to find some new friends that are actually nice to you. I can't believe how mena some people can be sometimes. I can't really give anymore advice to you except this: never be like those girls and be mean to people, that way you'll never have friends if your mean. I hope i helped.
Thanks,
Jenna
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ok. well one of my best friends is best friends with my enemy. ok lets call my enemy sally and my best friend holly..ok anyways sally used to be my best friend but she dumped me..(long story) and she is really mean to me now. and now she is trying to get all of my friends like holly to be her friend. ok and when sally is around her new friends that hate holly she is mean to her. and also sally is really mean to me and it just drives me crazy of how holly and sally are always doing things together and holly talks about sally behind her back and stuff...im just really confused and how could i get them to not be friends or do you have a better way i could solve this without there being a fite?
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Do not try to make them not friends anymore, when friends tell friends that they can't be friends with someone, just becasue they don't like them, that would be a huge mistake, trust me, i've seen it happen. Just tell her the truth, don't tell her in a bratty way, she'll think ur just jealous of her, and tehn she'll be mean to you and be amd at you. If she doesn't understand what your trying to say when your talking to her, try and write her a note or a letter type thing, try to explain it so she can undersatand that your not trying to be mean to "sally", but your jsut telling what you know about her. I hope i helped you out.
Thanks,
Jenna
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So i have this "friend" that thinks everyone likes her and all and she's always like "oh everyone's posing me" and what not. and she CONSTANTLY wants to prove something to me, like she's better than me or something. and i frankly, don't care if she's better or not, but what really bugs me is that one of my bestfriends is ALWAYS complaining about how annoying she is but always goes out of her way to be nice to the "annoying" kid. i talked to her about it already and it didn't help but strain our relationship. and quite frankly, a lot of kids think she's kinda...awkward but they all STILL go out of their way to please her and all. it's gotten to the point that i just can't stand being around her because of her so focking annoying behavior. she ALWAYS wants people to pity her ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS and she ALWAYS thinks people are posing her when in reality, she's as much of a poseur as any of us. this has been bugging me for the longest time so what do you think i should do? sitting down and talking to her is definitely not a choice because she's such a butthole. (link)
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If she starts bugging u again, tell her, in a nice way, that she is really bugging you, and you want ehr to stop it, and if she doesn't then just don't be friends with her. Hope i helped.
Thanks,
Jenna
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