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My friend moved out to Colorado a year ago. I'm 15/f and he was my best friend. Yesterday he told me he had sex for the first time. Which is totally different from when he lived here. He never would have done it. I understand that he changed because of the different people. I get that. But, its just the fact that sometimes, when I talk to him online, he's drunk. And alone. When he's sad, he tells me he WANTS to be drunk. I'm afraid I'm going to lose my best friend.
What should I do? Just get over it?

well you should def. tell him how you feel...basically tell him exactly what you told me. idk where you live so idk how far Colorado is from you but try to makes plans to visit eachother on a regular basis depending on how far away you live, that way you wont have to like try to work it around your schedual you will just know not to make plans that day. talk to him on the fone a lot. i know its really hard...my friend moved not even that far away but now she has changed so much so def. understand where your coming from!
good luck i hope i helped!
if you need me IM me xbellabambinax69
xOx Emily

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Well I have two "friends" and i known them my whole life, we even went to church togather but now it seems like there not my best friends any more because when they get around certin people they start acting like the other people but I stay the same and now we don't talk as much. But sometimes when my friend octavia is around me she starts to talk about my other friend ashely and when ashely comes around shes acts like she didn't say nothing her and when they get togather they leave me out what should I do?

you need to sit these girls down and talk to them about this because this is basically what happened with me and my two friends and now everything is str8ened out! so talk to ashley and tell her that octavia is talking about her because chances are that if she is talking about ashley behind her back then maybe she talks about you to! and maybe ashley will be so happy that you told her and mad at octavia that she will tell you what she says about u! then you two can sit her down and talk about it so she cant lie to you about it and say that she didnt say it bc ashley will be like yeah u did. and if they are leaving you out then maybe you shouldnt hang out with all of you at onece because that seems to always happens when its a group of three so eigther add someone or hang out with them at dif. times!
good luck i hope i helped!
if you have a ? IM me on xbellabambinax69
xOx Emily

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okay heres my story! me n my friend went to the beach together n i took her there for her birthday! and we met this guy who we both thought was hott there..i talked to him first cause she was too scared! and he is realli intrested in me and i'm into him too! but i don't wanna hurt my friend! and i feel bad now cause i told her i would take her to the mall when me n him went but i didn't..we went last night but she doesn't know we went cause i know shes gonna get mad! i don't know what to do cause i realli like him! and i've had rough relationships in the past and he feels right for me! and i don't think talkin is gonna do much good with her feelings so instead of talkin to her what else can i do?! i feel kinda bad..but i realli truely like hiM! he's a sweetie!
ugh! help me please! i'll rate high!

Ps:she is just a friend..not a best friend

okay..well most people wil tel you to "be a good friend and dont go out with him" honestly...how many people do that? like none! so im gonna give it to you str8...i went out with a kid that my friend liked and she was mad for about a day and then she got over it. if shes a good friend she will forgive and forget! people get in fites and people make mistakes but ur friend needs to realize that you need somebody there for you rite now and that you mite not get another chance to be with him! so go for it and i hope it lasts!
IM me if you have any questions at xbellabambinax69
Good Luck! I hope i helped!

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arite..well when i was about 5 or 6 or maybe even younger ihad a best friend and he was a boy..he lived around the block frum me but directly behind my house!! i juss used to hop the wall and go walk in his house...our parents wer good friends too....i went EVERYWHERE with them and we wer best friends...we did karate together, we juss went eveywhre...swimming lessons, soccer, erything...we wer best friends...and i had a lil brother who we never really liked to play with wed hide frum him, lock him out, nvr invite him newhere etc....and then one day we wer about 7 or 8 i think idk...but my brother n *chris* the guy friend...got in a fight about POKEMON...how dumb...and it juss caused a big argument!! i wasnt allowed to see chris and r parents stopped talking...but now r parents talk alot over the wall and chris mom juss had a baby so id use that as an excuse to go see chris but we nvr really would talk...wed say hi...but nothin else.,..and he is shy around gurls so hes nvr really had a gf...and i was his best gurl friend!!!!! and he was my best guy friend it wuld b s0o0o awesum if it was like that now...and hes s0o0 hott now and im not bad lookin either...and his mom always says she wants us to b friends agen n stuff bc we nvr really got in a fight but it messed ery thing up...it wuld b s00o awesum to hav a best friend thats a guy...who i could talk to...who lives s0o0 close wat shuld i do?...im goin over ther to see the baby tonite i think....wat shuld i say?? hes really shy...and hott...but wat shuld i do?/ plzz help!!!! i miss him!!! it wuld b awesum!! omg plz help me on sumthing i shuld say to him

okay tell him that you really want to be friends with him again because you miss all the fun you guys had together and that it was stupid for you guys to stop being friends because you two never really go into a fight. start to hang out more and more...remind him of all the good times you guys had together! xox Emily {rate me}

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I live in a small neighborhood, huge houses and lots of kids. That is the bad part lots of kids, so i have a bunch of friends, and they are constantly fighting. But i am always stuck in the middle, and then i give advice to 1 friend and the other thinks i'm on there side. It is so confusing and bad. hOW DO I handle this?? And i already tried the whole "its not my fight so don't get me in the middle" it doesn;t work!! i rate **LaUrEn**

well instead of giving one friend advice try sitting them both down and reminding them of all the fun they've had together. and try to get them to become friends again. and if that doesnt work when they try to bring you in the middle tell them that if they cared about u they wuldnt drag you into it. i hope i helped! xox Emily

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hey k so my boyfriend smokes and when he came back from thedoctor he said that if he smoked again hed die right there and then , he keeps wanting to smoke each night how can I get him to stop and hes 15, need help fast
~need ur help~

this sounds serious! you need to tell him that he cant smoke no matter how bad the cravings are! buy him the patch or something my mom used it before and it worked ((but then she forgot to put it on and started up again)) and make sure he wears it everyday! keep a close eye on him! xox Emily

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i hjave this friend that i love very much but the things she talks about somtimes i dont beleve are truthful..i know if i confront her then she'll get mad and not want to talk to me and say i think shes a liar so whats the point but i dont like being lied to..what should i do?

i need help!

Thats funny because i have a friend kinda like that too! but she doesnt get mad if i confront her about it ((not saying your problems are funny))...well you kno what i mean)) and the way i would go about solving this problem is to catch her in a lie! ((it mite sound sneaky but its the only way u can say something about it and knowing your right!)) plus whats the point of being friends with someone who you cant even talk to and is always telling you lies! but i can understand that u stil want to be friends with her so maybe theres a reason she lies...like maybe she feels like shes not interesting enough and she needs to lie to be more interesting! so make her feel like what she says u really care abut ((but not the lies becaus then she will think that the lies are workig)) so wen she is telling the truth even if its the most boring thing uve ever herd...ACT INTERSTED! if this doesnt work write back for more advice! xox Emily

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