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backstabing friends
Well I have two "friends" and i known them my whole life, we even went to church togather but now it seems like there not my best friends any more because when they get around certin people they start acting like the other people but I stay the same and now we don't talk as much. But sometimes when my friend octavia is around me she starts to talk about my other friend ashely and when ashely comes around shes acts like she didn't say nothing her and when they get togather they leave me out what should I do?
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Ok well first maybe you should just move on and just take some space from them cuz people change that's how it is. and i had something like that happen to me before and now we don't talk but once someone starts acting different u either tell them how u feel or jus stop talking to them for a while and let them figure out there problems themselves. The choice is up to u.
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ok, well they obviously got sum issues to work out. Anyway, u shudnt get between them. If they wanna talk behind eachothers back, wateva. However, if they keep leavin u out, it cud mean that they're moving on. I know they say *friends are forever*, but sumtimes people change. Its not yur fault. U jus have to find out wats goin on. If they keep leavin u out, maybe its a sign u shud move on too.
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I know exactly how you feel because the same thing happened tome. You need to talk to them about how you feel. Thats whatI did. Tell them your feeling left out. If you can't bring yourself to do it ask another friend, or person who you know to talk to them, without lettinf them know how you feel, they would say something like"are you mad at________" not "____ thinks your mad at her" Hopefully you and your friends can work somethingf out!! I hope your friendship continues!! Hope this helped!.bye
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you need to sit these girls down and talk to them about this because this is basically what happened with me and my two friends and now everything is str8ened out! so talk to ashley and tell her that octavia is talking about her because chances are that if she is talking about ashley behind her back then maybe she talks about you to! and maybe ashley will be so happy that you told her and mad at octavia that she will tell you what she says about u! then you two can sit her down and talk about it so she cant lie to you about it and say that she didnt say it bc ashley will be like yeah u did. and if they are leaving you out then maybe you shouldnt hang out with all of you at onece because that seems to always happens when its a group of three so eigther add someone or hang out with them at dif. times!
good luck i hope i helped!
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OMG you are like living the same situation as me. Everything you just said happened to me. Well when I had my situation, there was really nothing I could do. I lived though it and made new friends. And just this year I realized friends come and go even though that saying says "Friends are forever" Its like changing your clothes. You could either not hang out with them as much and make new friends but still chat every once and a while with them OR you could not do anything about it and sit there being miserable being left out :( I'd choose the first one ;)
3 is a tricky number to work with when it comes to friends :(
G/L :)
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I think that maybe they are trying to get you in the middle of things...
*Hal*
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