Hey I'm wisemen, I'm 15, I'm single, my yahoo i.d. is wiseguy_2011, and I'm always here to help ask anything and I'll try to answer the best i can so that you will be happy. I'm a very peaceful guy so i don't get mad often, any relationship problems ask me, because most likely I've been in the spotlight once. Thanks!
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I have a very good friend who is 15 like me. She's very pretty and she's very desperate for a boyfriend, problem is she can never keep one. I've given her all the advice I can. Next week she's planning to lose her virginity to a guy we both know. I know that he's playing her, he's said he doesn't want a gf. She's nervous and I've told her it's better if you've been in a relationship, are in love and know the guy well. How can I get her to changer her mind before she gets a reputation as a whore or gets pregnant? I know she'll regret it but I can't change her mind. (link)
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Well you have to remind her that she is pretty and there's more to her than just "sex," also tell her that some guys don't look for sex, they want a good, caring, nice girl. I would chose personality over looks any day. If she still doesn't listen to you though just tell her to talk to this guy before they do it and ask him if this is for real and just keep questioning him. Hope all goes well!
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theirs this guy who was an old friend but at the age of 8 i left to a different school so i found him on myspace and he added me as a friend but never responds to my emails and i would like to know why (link)
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Maybe get another friend of his to ask why he won't talk to you and kind of just go back and forth that way. I'm sorry but I'm not that kid and wouldn't know why. Hope all goes well!
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you see, one of my best friends like this guy. let's call him johnny. well, one of johnny's guy friends who i am really good friends with told me a month or so ago that johnny likes me. my friend always thinks the guy she likes likes me, and to have one guy ACTUALLY like me would kill her. it's weird to ask this, but i need to get him NOT to like me, or my friend will be crushed forever. she will never let me talk to the guy she likes again. helpppppp. (link)
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Well that's very difficult, but possible. Whenever this guy talks to you just ignore him just be completely snobbish or rude to him. Hope all goes well!
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ok so ive been friends with this kid jake and everything and all of a sudden this week hes just been ignoring me and stopped talking to me all together and i dont know what i did and i m almost positive i didnt do anything bci n ever say anything bad about him or anything
and theres this other kid dylan and he liked me btu was always mean to me and yelled at me the other day so i ignored him today and now hes really upset and mad at me and i know i shouldnt worry bc he did it to himself but i hate making people sad
what should i do with both of them??
please helpp.. thankks!! (link)
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For Jake you should ask him if everything is alright and if not ask him what is it. For Dylan you shouldn't stop talking to him just because he yelled at you maybe he was just frustrated with himself. Hope all goes well!
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Alright so im 14/f. anddd like im sort of going out with this guy who is in 8th grade, while i'm a freshman. we're a year and a half apart. I was just wondering if this is weird.. considering i'm a freshman and hes still, you know, in middle school. i mean he acts pretty mature and stuff, and he looks my age, but i was just wondering if it seemed weird or.. like not right to anyone?
thanksss. (link)
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no its not weird because your only one grade apart and think next year if you two are still together you both would be in high school then that wouldn't be weird. He sounds like a pretty cool guy to if he is mature in 8th grade thats cool because usually no one that young is mature. So don't think anything of it all that matters is that you are happy. Hope all goes well!
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Well there is this boy that I like but we are bff so I thought we where than one day he said that he did not want be to hang out with me untill I change my attutde. And becase I like him I thought that he liked bad girls so I started acting like one but im not really one and my real Q is do boys like bad girls or nice girls??? (link)
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well I like nice girls personally but I don't speak for everyone. but maybe you could just go up to him and ask him what about my attitude what did i do? Hope all goes well!
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My bff and i have always been close, and we still are, were freshmen in High school, and both go to two different skools. We call each other everyday, and c eachother whenever we can! But i can't help think that she likes her new friends better than me. I mean, i made new friends too, theyre real cool and all, but you need your bff, you kno? Someone that youve known forever, and well......she has friends that have more in common with her than with me and i guess im....jelous.
I really need some answers (link)
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well there is no way that someone could replace there best friend, because you've probably been friends for a longer time then the new friends she has and no matter what her new friends do it cant make up for the long friendship you and your best friend have. Hope all goes well!
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So my best friends hate one of my friends. They said that he follows us around like a lost puppy or something, and I really like Chad. They think he's annoying and going to try and steal our band but I know Chad wouldn't do anything like that. But I'm sorta afraid that Mike and Danny will get mad if I keep hanging out with Chad, and they're like, my two best friends in the world, I don't know what to do. Like I mean Chad, I really really like him, he's practically my twin brother, but Mike and Dan are also really important. And I really don't know what to do. I can understand why Chad is all lost puppy like, his dad's over in Iraq and he doesn't really know what's going to happen in his life from one day to the next and I really like being there for him and making him laugh and smile. But Mike and Danny, I don't think they can really understand what he's going through right now and I've tried to explain it to them but they don't seem to understand. I feel so awful right now. HELP! (link)
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you don't have to choose unless you want to and if your friends can't except Chad as a friend then i don't think there your friends. But just tell Chad that your a good friend but my best friends just don't want to get to know you and i don't want to lose my best friends that i have had for years so go and find some other people that you would like as friends. Hope all goes well!
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Okay so recently I've become really annoyed and irritable.And I don't meant to be.I start saying things I don't mean to the people I care about and I regret it.Is this normal? Maybe it's a sign I don't know, But I've been really bitchy to my boyfriend and I don't know how he takes it. It's really not intentional, But I'm already a teaser to where I call people dorks and freaks and stuff. I really hope I'm not becoming bitter and getting tired of my boyfriend.Everything's just happening all at once and I'm stressing out big time and I don't know how to handle it.Anyone knows what's happening to me or what I can do to prevent this? (link)
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well maybe because your not eating breakfast for me breakfast gets my mind moving and i can think through what i want to say before i say it and if you are eating breakfast try to think before you say something and who ever you are teasing i would probably talk to them or anyone you hurt in saying something.
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16/F ok so you know how friends sing in cars together or just blast their music and sing out loud? well i cant seem to do that with my friends. i sing in my room all the time with the music blasting but i cant with people around.. what can i do? (link)
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maybe you could take choir or start of with you singing to one person like a little brother, sister, mom, dad, cousin or someone and then build up from there.
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this is gonna sound way conceited, but i promise, im not trying to be. im much prettier then my friend. i mean, shes like fat and everything, so i mean obviously, guys dont like her much. plus she acts really stupid alot. anyways, since im a freshman, ive made alot of new friends. and so when me and her will be wlaking down the hall, just about every person says hi to me, and i stop and talk and make yano small talk. and she gets mad, and walks away. anyways, whenever i talk about like guys or something, she like finds some way to insult them. and its just really annoying. what should i do? (link)
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you should introduce her to the people that say hi to you and then maybe they will start talking to her and say hi to her.
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Why does everyone hate me so much. I don't have to do anything to them and they hate me. Tell me why? (link)
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well maybe its not what you do to them maybe its what you do or how you do something try and not do a lot of things around other people because they have to see it to hate you but im sorry everyone hates you but i dont because i havent seen you do anything.
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