my friend's boyfriend flirts with like every girl he sees. i always tell her and she was like "oh, it's ok. he's not sesrious." and i'm like yeah he is! he ALWAYS does it! Not just that, but she ruined her relationshp with her best friend to go out with him. none of her friends like him and they totally dont approve of them "dating" he's always hanging on her in school and he wont leave her alone sometimes, and then other times he refuses to talk to her because he is busy flirting with other girls. she's making a mess and i don't want her to. i'm trying to help her, what should i do?
you should sit her down and tell her... and tell her she is not leaving the room until you two agree on something... and make sure you are very kind to her about it... and make it seem like you are REALLY concered for her well being... and tell her that this guy is nothing but bad news for her and he doesn't care about her... and if she isn't big enough to say hey ya friends are more important than any boyfriend in the world...and if she isn't big enough to admit it... then you tried... then when things fall apart... and they will she will have to spend several lonely nights by herself because she dind't listen to you
BE STRONG!
BE BOLD!
kev
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Hi I am christian, and I have a friend who is jewish. I want to get her a "holiday" present, but I am not sure what to call it, or if she would think it was rude. I am also not sure when i should give it to her. I don't know when haunaka is. What do you think?
just give her a gift it doesn't have to be a "Christmas Present" or anything... you could just give her a gift and don't even tell her what kind it is ... but give it to her as soon as you can...so it does't look obvious... just tell her that you got her this gift to show her how mush you care for her and just drop it at that...
kev
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My friend and i are both in theater arts, and she got the role i wanted, and i tried not to be jealous of her, but i am. i know she's really good, and deserves the part, but i get mad at her whenever she brings it up, because shes almost bragging. I just really wanted the part, and now she thinks im mad at her, and i guess i kinda am. wat can i do?
i am sure she isn't bragging you just think she is bragging...cause i bet she is really excited about it...my only suggestion is this... jealousy is sometimes a good thing cause without jealousy how else would we strive to do better... so i say it is ok to be jealous but DON't LET IT RUIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP... because after your theater act if over you two are gonna be close whether she had this part or you had this part... besides be happy you got a part... so basically it is ok to be jealous just don't let it get to you and don't let it ruin your relaionship because that is what you don't want NO MATTER WHAT!!!
hope i helped
kev
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So this is my first year at this new school and I came here looking forward to a whole new future and being able to restart witha clean slate and nobody knowing who you were or what you were like. And I have been doing pretty good so far I wanted to be friends with everyone, because that wasnt how it was at my old school, and that worked except I had this one bestfriend at the begining of the year now we hardley ever hang out and she says that I am just trying to be popular. She is completely wrong I think???? I tried to explain and she says she understands now but I dont think she does. What do you think I am dong trying to be popular or just trying to have a lot of friends?!?!?!?!?!?!
trying to have friends is like being popular they are the exact same thing just different ways of saying it... LOL... i say cut back on trying to meet every single person in your school...and at the same time also try to inculde your friend into the things that you do with your new fiends...because i guarantee she is just lonely and misses your company so...like i said do two things 1.) cut back on meeting every single person in your school and 2.) try to inculde your friend into the things you do with your new friends...
heop i helped
kev
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i use to be really good friends with this gurl. but we dont talk anymore. we both said some really bad things about eachother. she wrote a note to when we were friends saying that we would be friends forever no matter what. I feel like she wants to fix things with me but im not sure. Should i talk to her. If i do what should i say?
i would definatly talk with her... it never hurts... and NO MATTER THE CIRCUMSTANCE, APOLOGIZE, for what ever happened even if it was her fault... YOU STILL MUST APOLOGIZE..i mean if you apologize and tell how wrong and sorry you are she will probably ultimatly forgive you if you guys were really good friends... so ya i say call her up some night and just APOLOGIZE and don't stop apologizing...even if she complains that you did this and you did that...instead of trying to argue back... JUST APOLOGIZE...
i hope i pounded my point to you
good luck
kev
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MY BEST FRIEND has turned into a real jerk. Me and him loved each other and he just turned me away. He tried to kill himself and that really got me worked up and i guess i said a few things i sholdn't have but i miss him and he's sending me these e-mails that r insulting me and saying he's glas i'm out of his life. What should i do?
try to mend your problems and be forgiving no matter the costs... because he will find that he made a mistake and he will come back to you especially if you 2 were such good friends... just be supportive of him and try to get to the bottom of your argument because samething happened to me and i was the kid that was getting mad at my friend and no matter how mad i got she was still their after i ralized what i had done to her and now we are cooler than ever and we pretend like it never happened
kev
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ok so over thanksgiving break i hung out with one of my friends like every day. i basicly lived at her house. and we became really good friends. but my other friend got mad at me kas i didnt hang out with her at all. and shes like my best friend ever. but heres the thing. she was at her moms house which is an hour away from where i live. her dad lives down the street but she hates him. anyways, now shes really mad kas she thinks im replacing her with my other friend. what should i do?
invite the two of them to hang out together with you....it almost always works and now you have 2 really good friends
kevin
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