my friend's boyfriend flirts with like every girl he sees. i always tell her and she was like "oh, it's ok. he's not sesrious." and i'm like yeah he is! he ALWAYS does it! Not just that, but she ruined her relationshp with her best friend to go out with him. none of her friends like him and they totally dont approve of them "dating" he's always hanging on her in school and he wont leave her alone sometimes, and then other times he refuses to talk to her because he is busy flirting with other girls. she's making a mess and i don't want her to. i'm trying to help her, what should i do?
lildiamyn_69 answered Saturday January 29 2005, 9:11 am: hmmm.. i had a b/f who flirted, but stopped when we hooked up. Flirters are supposed to stop when they're in a relationship. But if he's ruining things and all that, i think you should help her out and find her another b/f. It might hurt, but he's toxic, and poisioning their relationship and friendship.Hope i helped some:D [ lildiamyn_69's advice column | Ask lildiamyn_69 A Question ]
thpsmasta2k answered Saturday January 29 2005, 12:46 am: you should sit her down and tell her... and tell her she is not leaving the room until you two agree on something... and make sure you are very kind to her about it... and make it seem like you are REALLY concered for her well being... and tell her that this guy is nothing but bad news for her and he doesn't care about her... and if she isn't big enough to say hey ya friends are more important than any boyfriend in the world...and if she isn't big enough to admit it... then you tried... then when things fall apart... and they will she will have to spend several lonely nights by herself because she dind't listen to you
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