I started to realize my friend who I became friends with at the beginning of the school year is a complete loser. She looks like she has a mustache and she doesn't use common sense. She's really ugly, annoying, and hangs out with complete losers.
One of my friends dumped me last year because of popularity and I wasn't popular, I'm not popular, I probably never will be, but I will be considered a 'cool geek'.
Okay here is why I don't want to be her friend:
~She has a mustache and wears boots every day, not cute boots but horse riding boots or what looks like those kinds of boots.
~She has a mustache
~She went out with a complete loser
~She doesn't use common sense
~Is friends with other losers, one of which looks like a hippy
~She calls me her 'gym buddy'
~SHE WATCHES SOAP OPERAS(and in seventh grade)
~She doesn't have a facebook, cell phone, or email.
So how do I dump her without hurting her feelings? I've been kind of ignoring her lately. . .why should I do?!! Also all of he losers I mentioned are losers according to everyone except heir 'friends'. Oh and we are in seventh grade 13 years old she is 12 though.
you say your friend dump you last year, how did you feel? and now you want her to feel the same way you did?
that isn't really something i would recommand you doing. friends are suppose to accept each other as they are and that is what you should do. There are friends that would always be there for you, and she is one of them...
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so what i want to know is what to do about my boyfriend cheating on me with 2 bff's.i am still dating him and he does not know that i know he is a nasty cheater. me and my 2 bff's are making a list to get back at him. so what i am saying what do you think i sould do?
Two wrong don't make a right. As angry as you are, i think you should just end it. you have your best friend for support, and the fact that they want to get back at him show that they love you, but getting revenge isn't something that is necessary. what would you prove by doing that? i don't think you want to do something you would regret. and staying with him knowing that he has done something bad and using that against him in revenge doesn't make you any better.
so please, i advice you break it off and go your seprate ways
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i know friends that talks crap about people and make fun of them or just talk behind people's back, but i know a friend that she doesnt talk bad about anybody or doesnt gossip about anyone and when one of my friend is talking bad about someone to my friend she just doesnt say anything or agree with them, it seems like shes uncomfortable by it, does that make her loyal?
you friend is very loyal thats the kind of friend that you want to hang out with..... it shows that she can be trusted.
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are you being fake if your being too nice to a person you dont like? lets say you dont want to talk to them but when the person starts talking to them you end up talking to the person you dont like because you are too nice to say "i dont want to talk to you" so you talk behind that person's back?
thats not necessarily fake, but it's not nice either and for you to right it here, then you understand that it's wrong as well. if you don't want to talk to someone simply say you don't want to talk to them instead of pretending. the person might be angry, but they will be happy that you were honest.
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Why do people talk bad about people?
why do people talk sh*t about other people? how come some people doesnt talk bad abou people and theres people that gossips all day?
they have nothing better to do and they want to make themselves look more angelic like. gossiping is a sin that people don't realize they commit so anytime someone starts to gossip and talk bad someone else you should exit because even if you just stay they and listen it makes you just as guilty as them.....
BYe
HOpe i HElp
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i have a hard time admitting that im wrong i always blame the person and get mad instead of saying sorry, because when i say it i feel weak,mad,sad and defeated and i dont know why. I know its bad but i dont know why i feel this way. Is it pride?
that happens to my friend a lot.
yes it is pride, it's like when you apologize you feel weak and like the bad guy. but unless you apologize, you ARE the bad guy....apologizing only makes you the better person and from people will actually like you better because you can admit when your wrong....
my friend learned that the wrong way lolz
GOOD LUCK!
HOPE I HELPED
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just her attitude towards me at some points, like the way she talks to me, its always condescending and makes me feel stupid. and i'm just tired of the way she talks to me and acts towards me. when she's in a bad mood, she won't speak nicely to me and i try to help but she's just a bitch and theres only so much shit i can take from someone until i just want to sucker punch them. when i try to talk to her, she gets all offended and pissy. and today i was fucking sick and couldnt eat anything and she kept saying that i was agitating her for not eating anything and now she's all over facebook saying "ohh, certain people make me want to scream at them to freaking shut up" and it makes me mad. i'm mad. i want her gone, but when we're getting along she's a really good friend. i don't know what to do.
there is a limit to how much you have to take to "a friend". from your explanation i can tell that you have taken a lot of stupidity from her and that she hasn't even realized it. you need to talk to her and tell her that if this friendship thing is going to work, they has to be some respect invovled. is she doesn't changes, they are plenty of other friends you could make and those other friends could show better appreciation than her. If she continues with the attitude and stuff, then i think it's time to move on, it will be hard at first but i am sure it will only get better from there....
K bye
GOOD LUCK!
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my friend was over my house she acts like a stud we switched cell phones for 2 day during them 2 day i got over 15 messages from her girlfriend saying stuff i dont even want to mention should i ask her is she gay or play like i dont know
sinceraly "cluless"
you should definitely mention something about those fifteen messages. don't come on too strong and say something like "are you gay girl"? At the same time say it so that she can answer you without feeling embarrassed. because if she finds out you knew something and didn't tell her she might be angry and also if you don't tell her soon, you might find yourself starting to avoid her and making excuses to leave etc.
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today, i was hanging out with my new friend, we get along real well and i was telling her my life story and all the pain and struggles that i went through and my friend starts crying and telling me that i dont deserve any of this, i dont know about that but i am really insecure person and i have a low self esteem i really dont know why she cried because she didnt go through any of this, any clue on why?
sometimes when people tell their life story, the person they tell it to picture it in their mind and try to relate to it as if it were them. your friend feels sorry for you. she understands the pain your been through and she said that you didn't deserve that pain because she cares and is "sympathetic"
p.s: she is a good friend
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im very depressed
my good friend died of a brain tumor july 29th 07
and i misss her sooo much still
i cannot deal with it it never gets easier
i dont know what to do
everything reminds me of her .
i cry. and i miss her
.we were so much alike
we were suppose to do so much together
she was only sixteen
and its not fair
and.. i want her back
i do not know what to do
i just cant ever face it, or believe it
or..move on.
help
you have to face it!
Iam sorry about your friend. I know how you feel.
But putting yourself in a depressing mood is not going to help. you have to think about what your friend would have wanted.
you know she didn't want to make you sad by going a way. If you want to do something good for your friend, you have to be happy for her and for yourself. Be happy that instead of staying here and suffering each day, she went to a better place. Be thankfull that you had her as a friend and that no one will ever replace her. Becuase you and her were unique in your own special way. So instead of feeling sorry for her and yourself, believe that this is what God had paln for her and that she is in Good Hands.
Trust in God. and know that he hears your cries. And that he has something in mind for you. Believe that What he did Was for a Reason!
bye. I hope this helps.
GOOD LUCK!
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Okay so my friend Anna moved away a few years ago. While she was here she had a best friend Stephanie. Right before Ana Left her and Stephanie got in a huge fight and never talked again. Im stil best friends with Anna but have recently been hanging out with Stephanie a lot and were becoming good friends. I tell Anna everthingg but im really scared to tell her That im hanging out with Stephanie. Do you think its wrong im hanging out with Stephanie even though her and Anna are complete enemies. Or should i just tell Anna the truth.
hello sarline here.
look just tell anna the truth. Just because they aren't friends any more dosen't mean you can't be friends with both of them. If Anna is a real friend dhe should understand. Besides you get to choose your friends not her.
well write back
see ya
sarline
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i have this friend. She is so competitive. and she claims to be my best friend. So when i get something new, she has to get it, but in a better brand or more expensive to make me feel bad. example would be like; i just got a phone. a week later, she finally got a phone, but more expensive. then when i got a computer, she got one after, but in a better brand. I don't know why she does it but it is getting on my last nerve. Then when I come up with ideas, she steals them and make them into her own. for example. Our whole group of friends hasn't hung out in a while, and i was saying how it would be tight to have everyone get together at a sleep over and just chil. She went off and told all of them as if it were her idea. And it is so frustrating. She also tried to steal my boyfriend. I ended up having to brake up with him because of whole lotta drama. I have slowly separated myself from her. She asked me if we were still best friends, and I said no. And she was begging for best friend status. But I said no. And I have stopped telling her everything, and calling her. I just listen, because I will always be there for her, i have never betrayed her. I helped her lose weight, and told her when people were talking ish about her. But with all that, she repaid me with all that. I want to separate myself from her to the fullest. Do you guys have eny ideas? what do you think about the whole situation?
Hello there.
Listen, maybe this is also your fault.
What you need to do is tell her how you feel. She obvoiusly dosen't know waht is going on. The fact that she really wants to be your friends just proves it. And breaking up with your boyfriend because of this was not the right choice. If you trusted your boyfriend enough and new he wouldn't cheat on you, then you would have found a better solution. Another way is you are bringing this upon yourself. Once again talk to her instead of rejecting her. If all you say you did for her is true then that proves you are a great friend. Either she is jelouse or it's just a considence.
She know what a great friend you are and doesn't want to hurt you or be an enemy.
write back comments.
see ya
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I'm in 7th grade! Last year, I had a lot of friends. We kind of hung out in a group. There was this one girl named Kiara that we talked about. This year Kiara forgived me and we became friends. Then I lost all my friends and Kiara was still my friend. One day, something happened and i felt like Kiara betrayed me. She lost all her friends and I went back to my old friends that had been previously talking about me. Then I lost them again and Kiara felt like I used her and now I don't have any friends! What should I do at school when I am sitting there all alone with nobody to talk to and everyone else is with there friends talking and laughing?
well this is what you should do
Explain to them what really happened. I mean we all make mistakes. If they were really your friends in the first place, i don't see why they won't understand. Iam sure your a great person and that if it dosen't work out you can joine another table and try to become friends with other people. You just have to choose your friends carefully.
P.S next time when you are in a situation like that. Try and get everybody on the same page so that you can all be friends. So you would gain more instead of losing more.
this is sarline and don't
forget to write back comments
see ya.
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WHAT ARE SOMETHINGS TO TALK ABOUT WITH A MALE FRIEND ON THE phone???...really dont know...cuz i kno he likes me...just what should we talk about???...thanx alot!!!!
xoxoxox
hello
you can talk about movies, games, computer games, play station, wii and get to know what he likes or favorites things to do
bye for now
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sarline
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I'm losing all my friends because im annoying and the im always being a beep all the time how can i get my friends back or get new ones
P.S. almost everyone teases me cuase im short could u give me combacks to the teasing to
hello
if your friends says you are annoying then don't be annoying. i put myself in your shoes because my friens always told me how annoying i was but i did not want to listen and i was right not to. sometimes they are just teasing you. sometimes it is just how u are made. so just try to blend in and have fun and prove that you are not annoying.
p.s. you are not the only one that is short in the school or world. you might some people have more problems than you so consider yourself very bright and be happ with youre height.
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my really good friedns had to go to summer school and she started hanging otu with the wrong ppl now she does pot out of a can a drinks lots of achocol nad i dont know what to do
well u need to reminde your friend of how she was before she turn to wrong crowd. You need to turn for help if she does not change. she must be a good friend, she just need to be helped to be what she was. And she needs you
bye
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I know I've asked quite a few questions..
But heres another. Lol..
Well my friend "Jessica" likes a guy named "Anthony." She's liked him for a while now. They went out like a year and a half ago. But she's still not over him. Now she has a boyfriend named "Ryan." But shes still not over Anthony... But now im starting to like Anthony too. And i don't know what to do. I wouldnt wanna do anything to risk me and her friendship.. Shes just head over heels for one guy one minute.. then with the other another minute. Its sorta annoying.. But i dunno...
HELP?
u have to ask your friend to make a decision.
ask to choose a guy and stay with that guy.
or it might keep creating confussion.
make sure she has choosen with whom she would stay with then make your move.
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