just her attitude towards me at some points, like the way she talks to me, its always condescending and makes me feel stupid. and i'm just tired of the way she talks to me and acts towards me. when she's in a bad mood, she won't speak nicely to me and i try to help but she's just a bitch and theres only so much shit i can take from someone until i just want to sucker punch them. when i try to talk to her, she gets all offended and pissy. and today i was fucking sick and couldnt eat anything and she kept saying that i was agitating her for not eating anything and now she's all over facebook saying "ohh, certain people make me want to scream at them to freaking shut up" and it makes me mad. i'm mad. i want her gone, but when we're getting along she's a really good friend. i don't know what to do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? sarline answered Monday May 17 2010, 8:27 am: there is a limit to how much you have to take to "a friend". from your explanation i can tell that you have taken a lot of stupidity from her and that she hasn't even realized it. you need to talk to her and tell her that if this friendship thing is going to work, they has to be some respect invovled. is she doesn't changes, they are plenty of other friends you could make and those other friends could show better appreciation than her. If she continues with the attitude and stuff, then i think it's time to move on, it will be hard at first but i am sure it will only get better from there....
lolalufonda222 answered Sunday May 16 2010, 11:52 pm: i have a friend like this also, and what i do is just be her friend when shes nice and when shes anoying i ignore her and be annoying back.,
but the best thing to do would be to either show her that u dont like when she does that or just stop being friendds with her.
i wish i could do that but it didnt work, try it tho.,
at least just like do to her what she does to you and give her a taste of her own medicine, when she starts getting anoyed you say "well thats what you do to me." [ lolalufonda222's advice column | Ask lolalufonda222 A Question ]
Lances-girl-18 answered Sunday May 16 2010, 11:51 pm: Ack like a aduilt and ignore it dont let it get to you like it has talk to her and tell her if she wants to keep your friendship then stop acking like a child and grow up if she gets pissy at that then your the bigger person and well stop talking to her completely if she wants to make a fool out of her self and be called a child than let it be but look at it this way your the aduilt shes the child meet new friends and have fun with your life [ Lances-girl-18's advice column | Ask Lances-girl-18 A Question ]
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