My name is Nikita. 19 years of age. i answer all questions. However i answer truthfully so don't take it personal if i say something rude. I've been on this website for 6+ years. I live in Texas. And right now i go to hcc. I love hanging out with my friends, facebooking, pigging out, and going on walks. If you have a question please inbox me :D thanks bye!
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Im having the BIGGEST slumber party ever!
.. but i need ideas on what i can do!
so it isnt boring for one second!
x p.s please answer my other question its called "why do i look so bad in photos?!" (link)
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you guys could eat pizza and ice cream, watch movies, play games like truth or dare. you could google slumber party ideas and see what comes up. i hope i helped! good luck and have fun!
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So i went to this party and smoked alot of weed with these guys i am not friends with really we got along tho.
I was wondering would it be weird to ask them if they could hook me up with some weed or what
Cause i need a dealer with goood shiit.
No negativity cause i know its illegal and im too young or whatever.Better than hard drugs aye. (link)
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i can't tell you how to get drugs its wrong and it'll get me banned from this website. you shouldn't be smoking pot. You probably think ugh why is she lecturing me? I am telling you this because it's dangerous and you could get arrested, and when you to find a job and they see that on your record, the chance of them hiring you is slim. Smoking pot makes your heart beat faster. it makes it work faster to pump blood. not only that people who smoke pot are paranoid. they are more likely to become depressed, and people who smoke pot are at 40% increased risk of psychosis. So i told you all the facts. i hope you realize what your doing is wrong. And just because those guys were smoking pot that doesn't mean you h ave to do it just to fit in. You know it's illegal so why bother. find someone else to hang out with that you won't have to impress by doing stupid things like smoking pot. I hope i helped. Nikita
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Ok, so I have a really good guy friend and he and I hang out a lot when we go out to parties and stuff. He has a huge crush on my best girl friend. We talk about her and I'm trying to help him get to know her more so she can see what a great guy he is. Sooo. One night while we were out, me and my guy friend hooked up. We decided not to tell anyone because we thought if no one knew then it wouldn't matter. Well my best friend (girl) read my phone and figured out what happened. She confronted me about it and I told her everything. SHe isn't mad in the least bit because she doesn't care that much about the guy, she was just mad because she thought we were better friends that I could tell her stuff like that. She knew something was up right away and only when she saw my phone did hse realize why. Even though she isnt mad at me and we've talked about everything I can't help feeling guilty everytime I talk to either my best friend or the guy I hooked up with. It's making me sick to my stomach thinking about it. I don't knwo what to do or how to get this feeling away. I mean she's not mad at me so why do I feel guilty? Any advice on the situation would be amazing. (link)
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hey. so my advice is that you've realized your mistake and you need to figure out why your doing this kind of stuff. stop beating yourself over it. as for that guy just because he promised not tell anyone, that doesn't mean he will since he is a guy. you should just stay away from him, because all he wanted from you was sex and he'll probably ask you again but you need to be strong and say no because you don't know how many other people he's been with. your friend obviously doesn't care either so you shouldn't feel bad, but at the same time don't repeat what you did. i hope you feel better.
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I used to be really close with a group of friends and then I became best friends with someone else and I made her a part of the group but now I can't go anywhere without her being there and I feel like i've drifted from my other friends because she's taking over so much of my time and is really clingy and invites herself everywhere because she assumes she's always invited and i'm too polite to un invite her.I still want to be close with her but I haven't found a way to balance my friendship with her and not loose all my other friends I used to have and not loose the closeness of our friendship by blowing her off and i'm leaving for college soon. So how do I salvage all of my other friendships. (link)
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you need to talk to her & tell how you feel. she'll probably not like what she hears but oh well. i hope i helped!
Nikita the Cheetah
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3 years ago my best best best friend moved legit half way across the country. We still managed to saty the best of friends and got to visit eachother a couple times. then a year later she moved back a couple staes away and i was so happy! we got to see eachother all the time because it was only a few hours away. We called eachother everyday and always had stuff to talk about no matter what. We were the ideal best friends. We have never been in a fight we tell eachother EVERYTHING and were always there no matter what. Well lately we havent been talking much. yes its summer and were both busy and we keep missing eacothers calls and now we hardly even talk. And when i do call her there isnt much to talk about. Its seems weird or something. Im so afaid that were growning apart. I dont know what i would do witout her. I dont want to loose her she means more to me than my family. What should i do? (link)
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i know how you feel. i had a friend like that too. but my friend didn't move she just went to a different school. what you should do is call her and invite her to your house and hangout and keep doing that for a while and see how it goes. because the reason you feel distant from her is because you guys don't hangout with her enough well i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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i care wut ppl think of me and i guess i wanna be more popular . i hav alot of friends but if anyone says anything to me like"ur being a bitch" i get rlly offended and hate them nomatter wut it is.i just weanna not care about wut ppl think of me. can someone help me?! (link)
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well you shouldn't care what other people think because everywhere you go they'll be someone saying things about you. don't worry about what other people say about you because it doesn't matter what they say. they just say that because they're hurt inside and insecure and fell the need to say bad thing s about other people just to make themselves feel good. and about the popularity thing don't worry about being popular that stuff doesn't matter. just be yourself because you'll make a lot more friends if you just be yourself!
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whenever a guy flirts with me,
for some reason i always say something mean, back, or kinda mean, maybe its just the way i flirt?
but i dont know how to act to them?
this sounds so stupid, oh well (link)
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try to be nice don't say mean things to them because they'll get mad and will prolly stop talking to you.
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does anyone no any quotes about being replaced in a friendship by someone elseeee , thanks id love you foreverrrrrrr (link)
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you can go to xanga and get quotes off there..
nikita♥
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what do i do? i feel my friends are ditching me, and hanging out with each other! helpppp %% thanks (link)
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well you should talk to them and ask then why they're ditching you and you should prolly find some new friends! well i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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do you think its weird if your obsessed about your friend? im a girl and im straight but im obsessed about my friend shes really cool and stuff sometimes i treat her better than my all of my friends what do you think about this? (link)
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that kinda is wrong. you should treat your friends equal and respect all of them the same way.
nikita♥
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ok so i'm going to high school next year and i'm switching out of the school district and i have a myspace and you can add your school on there and so i wanted to add the school i'm going to on there so i can possibly meet some people that go there but i dont know how to start a conversation with anyone so any suggestions (link)
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well okay don't start talking to them on myspace. like when u start school talk to them in person becasue i've noticed people who don't know you won't talk toyou on myspace. so try like if you have neighbors your age talk to them and ask them what's the school like and just get to know them. well i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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Okay so I sit with 4 other girls at my lunch table. 2 of them are really good friends of mine. The one girl, Jen, only sits there cause she has trouble walking. The other girl is friends with my one friend. Anyway, one of my friends, Brittney and her friend Sarah, told Jen that I was saying all this stuff about her when I didnt. Brittney and Sarah were the ones gossiping about her. So Jen freaked out at me and im innocent. My other friend, Ashley tried to tell Jen that the other two were gossiping, but Brittney denied it and Jen called Ashley a liar. Im innocent and I want to avoid a confrontation but how do i prove to Jen that i wasnt the one gossiping and that the other two were? Ive been having to eat lunch in the office cause my "friends" dont want me to sit with them. I also have some dirt on Brittany, and I dont want to stoop to her level, but should I tell people about her? I know it sounds mean but she did wrong and i want her to know how im feeling. Sorry, this was long. I appretiate your help. Thanks! (link)
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well i think that u shouldn't be friends with any of those girls b/c none of them r true friends b/c their just a bunch of drama queen gossip girls.. try to find a new group of friends to hangout with.. be open to them andnice.. and try to avoid drama! well i hope i helped good luck! bye!
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My bestfriend is being cruel to me. She likes to show off. She also acts to me like i am her slave. She is a suckup and don't know what to do. We have been friends for so long. I am moving far away soon and she is either really sad and is mean to me or she doesn't care that i am moving. I don't know. She use to be so nice. But know she is trying to be popular and mean. PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
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no she isn't cruel maybe you think that cause she's just insecure... and you shouldn't really be friends with her the way she is acting... especially if she doesn't care that you are moving...
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I have a friend and his really special for me, his a guy. And I want to help him , cause I care for him. He smoke weed. I keep telling him to stop but he wont. what should I tell him to stop. Please help me. (link)
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you shouldn't be friends with that guy cause what he's doing is wrong.. and a another reason is if he won't stop and he does it for a long time he will die and he needs some rehab hope i helped bye xOxO nIkItA
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my friend liikes this guy who likes me.. what should i do? (link)
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Well you shouldn't go out with that guy since your friend likes him... cause then her feeling will be hurt...
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