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Hey everyone! My name is Nadine ( Nay-dean ), i am 15 years old and am mature for my age. You might think im young to be giving advice but in reality age does not matter when giving advice. If your old it doesn't necessarily mean your advice will be better than if given by a teenager. Somethings i love to do are:
* give advice
* shop
* listen to music
* play sports
* work out
* talk on my phone
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I never will judge anyone based on the questions you ask. I am not judgemental at all. I always try my best at answering any questions you ask. So ask me anything you want, just keep in mind im not perfect, so sorry if my advice isent perfect enough for you.


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what are the good/sad goodbye songs for my friend whos moving? i want the genre to be rnb and not that old song and can you list at least 3 songs and thank you =]

say goodbye- Chris Brown
final goodbye- Rihanna
goodbye- Jagged edge
hard to say goodbye- V.A
goodbye- Lyfe Jennings
never can say goodbye-the jackson 5

thats all i can think of and the genre is R&B

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live in a place where there is nothing to do, my friends and i have a car to go out in tonight, but we have nowher eto go and nothign to do. we went to the movies last night and we dont wanna just go to get food. WHAT CAN WE DO!

go to clubs
- go take a cruise downtown and shop
- eat at a fancy restaurant
- go to the mall
- go play minuture golf
- throw a hotel party at one of the bests hotels
- egg someones house haha, kidding!
- go ring on peoples doorbells and run away

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what are yalls favorite friendship songs. like i moved about two years ago from louisiana and i wanted to make a cd of friendship songs for my best friend in louisiana. like to say that we will always be best friends. help would be great. and fast if possible. thanks in advance. bye

i got an EXCELLENT one

(graduation) FRIENDS FOREVER=VITAMIN C


best song :]

ummm theres:
cheata girls-best friends
sorry i cant really think of any more=[
if i remember ill tell you ASAP =]

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need someone to talk about my problems with in a conversation.
they are mostly friendship ones.

is there anyplace i can find people to talk to who will kind of give me a total other point of view?
since they are not my friend?

other than advicenators i can talk to you for hours on AIM or EMAIL or whatever lol
im really friendly and give great advice so if thats what your looking for you can always IM me at IDONTCAREABTMYSN

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hey, im a 13 yr old guy and i have this friend whos mom i think hates me. She is really angry whenever i get something new, even new clothes...i know its weird. i think my friend might be telling her everything as he is really close to her and tells her everything. when i got the new clothes he got the exact brand and type one month late. I didnt show off to them or do anything but when i was wearing new clothes he asked me in a real angry/jealous voice why i got them. whenever he comes over to my house he stays for a while and then his mom picks him up without inviting me to their house.i think i have slept of at theirs about 3 times when hes slept over about 10. my friend isnt too bad when i get new things just about the clothes. when he got a new friend he sort of left me out. he also tells stuff that ive done in the past that is embarassing to people ive just met. when he met this girl and i added her on msn he said what the hell you f**king loser u dont even know her. he knew her a small bit more than i did. i talked to her and now we r good friends. but most of the time hes actually a real good friend and invites me out quite alot. also i have another not so well known friend and his brother told me that he heard my best friends mom on the phone talking about my mother leaving us on the beach alone for 6 hours. it was more like 30 minutes. she picked us up and dropped me home taking him and his friend back to their house. his mom pretends to be nice to me but when i get new stuff ,which is not often as her son does, she says, i see you have got new(.....) in a real angry voice..also my friend makes fun of the girls ive been because i think hes jealous and im pretty sure hes never scored a girl as hes changed his story loads of times and made up shit. when he got a chance to score a hot girl he backed out. also he makes fun of the rugby team im on which is one level below his. also he boasts about how well he played in the match. hes a moms boy as we both go to boarding school he was very very homesick and used to call his mom every day loads of times and cry on the phone. then he used to call me weird for not crying to my parents. also he makes fun of my dad for having a job to work on computers.. he boasts about his new cars and how his dad is getting rich from buying a new company and how he is really rich also about his house which is small. he is not joking about any of this he is serious and trying to make me feel bad. before i had scored a girl he used to say he scored loads and i wouldnt know a thing about scoring one. hes never scored a girl. while alot of this stuff is negative there is some good points and he does include me, unless i might make some other friends. also he tries too hard to fit in with other people while im around even talking like them. he doesnt call me much i have to call him to go somewhere and always asks me what i did today.

Hey! im not sure exactly what your question is but my advice would be:
FIND A NEW FRIEND! there are much much other people out there that would treat you better and there moms would too!
this person your talking about disrepects you and he needs time to find out who he really is and what his real personality is. not only that but his mother hates you for no apparent reason.
your friendships shhouldnt be based on who scores the most girls or how much clothes you own.
You should never be around people who make you feel bad.
Your NOT weird for not crying some guys are really sensitive and some are more manly ( like you :] )
This guy is just a fake. he is copying other peoples personality and to point out the obvious he is trying to become like you maybe because HE is jealous of YOU. It might not sound right to you but its the truth:]
So i say you should either confront him about this or just seriously not hangout with him plain and simple

i hope i helped you

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Hey. I'm thirteen/female and my friend Jill invited me to go to her birthday party. I moved away from the town she lives in when I was in fourth grade, but I go to these parties every year. See, this year, I want to go, and see all my old friends, but I'm nervous about meeting the new people Jill has become friends with. What should I do? And it's a sleepover party, and calling to go home at a sleepover would be kinda, idk, just like, not our age type thing to do. Should I go and see if I have a good time [ I usually do], or not go and save myself possible nervousness?

i think you should go to the party and tell your friend jill you MIGHT not be able to stay because you have to go somewhere the next day very early in the morning or some excuse. then when you get there and if you find yourself making friends or having fun call your mom and tell her that your sleeping there because then you wouldnt feel left out. But if you dont enjoy yourself at the party just call your mom or dad or whoever to take you home and tell jill that yyour sorry but your mom/dad/guardian is making you go.

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i recently got in a fight with my friends -long storey not getting into it. i lost them all and i DONT want them back. any ways to make friends quick. im shy so that might get in the way. any advice.?

same for me im really shy but try talking to the people you sit next to in classes like say things about the class , this class is boring;;fun ect. if u have a myspace its much easier to meet ppl in ure school there rather then being all shy in person first. You have other friends that have friends you havent met then ask to hangout with a whole group you will meet many new people=]

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I have This Friend that ive had since the 6th grade. She is usually always nice and everything, but randomly one day she decides to be mad @ me. So i ask her why and she wont say and everyone who asks her she yells @. So finally about 1 week later she wrote me a note saying she was mad @ me for reasons like this:

1. I stomp my feet when im mad
2. im obsessed with a band that broke up
3. i am online to much
4.i have bad comebacks

those r the lamest excuses ive ever heared. But idk should i just leave her. or try to work it out?

OK...i agree those are not good excuses to be mad at somebody...so i would write her a note or just go up to her and say that those are stupid reasons i think we should try to work it out and if she ignores it..FORGET IT....if your really sad or depressed bcz yooh would want 2 be her friend then give her a couple of days like 2 or 3.

hope it works

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ok i have this friend who ive been friends with 4 2 years now actually BFFs. Until one day this new girl comes to my lunch table and starts hanging out with me and my BFF. But then she and my BFF started fighting and the new girl and my BFF were ganging up on me. And they moved lunch Tables and everything. Well i feel bad and miss my BFF so i keep saying sorry to her but she doesnt care. So now she is moving in June and i still wanna be friends but she wont even let me talk to her. What Should I do? 4get her?

well if she is a true bff she should accept it or maybee she still cant get over it. so i would give her a couple days like 2 and write her a note saying would yooh ever b my friend nd stuff like im sorry... but if she gets all cocky juss 4get her shes not worth it.

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well heres the story my best friend hmm lets call her "m" well m my best friend since 1st grade current 8th grade called me yesterday at night like at 11,which is not late for me well she called me and started blabbing about her and the girl i hate which is hmm call her "r" well my best friend knows i hate her and when she called she told me about how her and R were over each others house and on and on...she was acting different cause she would never say that to me....well the 2 day in school she ignored me and i felt so weird cause it was the first time she done anything like that so the day went on and then she started rumors about me and it started from her....then she said i was a whore and called me bad names...
my question is why would she do that i mean i didnt do anything 2 her and if i should be her friend??
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dear confused,
Yooh prolly did something or talked to someone that she got jelous of and then tried to make yooh jelous. You should see how it goes tommorrow if she keeps saying shit about yooh 4get her.
hope i helped:-)

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