hey, im a 13 yr old guy and i have this friend whos mom i think hates me. She is really angry whenever i get something new, even new clothes...i know its weird. i think my friend might be telling her everything as he is really close to her and tells her everything. when i got the new clothes he got the exact brand and type one month late. I didnt show off to them or do anything but when i was wearing new clothes he asked me in a real angry/jealous voice why i got them. whenever he comes over to my house he stays for a while and then his mom picks him up without inviting me to their house.i think i have slept of at theirs about 3 times when hes slept over about 10. my friend isnt too bad when i get new things just about the clothes. when he got a new friend he sort of left me out. he also tells stuff that ive done in the past that is embarassing to people ive just met. when he met this girl and i added her on msn he said what the hell you f**king loser u dont even know her. he knew her a small bit more than i did. i talked to her and now we r good friends. but most of the time hes actually a real good friend and invites me out quite alot. also i have another not so well known friend and his brother told me that he heard my best friends mom on the phone talking about my mother leaving us on the beach alone for 6 hours. it was more like 30 minutes. she picked us up and dropped me home taking him and his friend back to their house. his mom pretends to be nice to me but when i get new stuff ,which is not often as her son does, she says, i see you have got new(.....) in a real angry voice..also my friend makes fun of the girls ive been because i think hes jealous and im pretty sure hes never scored a girl as hes changed his story loads of times and made up shit. when he got a chance to score a hot girl he backed out. also he makes fun of the rugby team im on which is one level below his. also he boasts about how well he played in the match. hes a moms boy as we both go to boarding school he was very very homesick and used to call his mom every day loads of times and cry on the phone. then he used to call me weird for not crying to my parents. also he makes fun of my dad for having a job to work on computers.. he boasts about his new cars and how his dad is getting rich from buying a new company and how he is really rich also about his house which is small. he is not joking about any of this he is serious and trying to make me feel bad. before i had scored a girl he used to say he scored loads and i wouldnt know a thing about scoring one. hes never scored a girl. while alot of this stuff is negative there is some good points and he does include me, unless i might make some other friends. also he tries too hard to fit in with other people while im around even talking like them. he doesnt call me much i have to call him to go somewhere and always asks me what i did today.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? nadine204 answered Thursday April 12 2007, 8:54 pm: Hey! im not sure exactly what your question is but my advice would be:
FIND A NEW FRIEND! there are much much other people out there that would treat you better and there moms would too!
this person your talking about disrepects you and he needs time to find out who he really is and what his real personality is. not only that but his mother hates you for no apparent reason.
your friendships shhouldnt be based on who scores the most girls or how much clothes you own.
You should never be around people who make you feel bad.
Your NOT weird for not crying some guys are really sensitive and some are more manly ( like you :] )
This guy is just a fake. he is copying other peoples personality and to point out the obvious he is trying to become like you maybe because HE is jealous of YOU. It might not sound right to you but its the truth:]
So i say you should either confront him about this or just seriously not hangout with him plain and simple
i hope i helped you<3
( sryy i wasent sure what your question was )
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