Ok well every since i came back from a Youth Rally i made a deal with friends. I said that i won't party, smoke, drink. Well i have this friend that keeps asking me if i can go. And i said no i can't. But also i have this one friend she says she is my BFF and i want to call her so i can hang with her or like just say HI but i don't know if she would want to talk to me. Also i have somethings i am going though and i just need someone to talk to. And i don't know if i should call her or not. What should i do. If you can help just write back to this name. Thanks
Hey.... I think you should give her a call... i mean you seem like a pretty nice person.. im sure she will be glad to hear from you.. i mean you said she was suppose to be your best friend and best friends always love recieving phone calls from there friends... never let someone peer pressure you into doing something you dont wanna do, follow you heart and it will lead you to the right places.. well hope i helped and good luck
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this is kinda long so bear with me! :)
a lot of the friends i made were from middle school and we've been friends throughout high school. the thing is, they were a-ok people in middle school. but when high school rolls around it appears that they've changed into hypocritical, outspoken, dramatic, and selfish people. don't get me wrong, i'm not exaggerating nor am i taking things out of context. if you met them, you'd know! take for example a girl who makes fun of the fat people in our school, when she weighs 200 lbs. a girl who complains and whines over an A- on a test. someone who cannot accept the fact that they are wrong. someone who doesn't make any effort for your birthday, or christmas, when every year you get them something.
because of their "new" personality traits, i dropped them because they did not fit my basic ideal aspects in a friend anymore. and whenever i find a new friend, in the end they end up betraying my trust, using me for money, or being just plain inconsiderate to a point that i cannot tolerate anymore.
note, this has happened with nearly 95% of the friends i've had my entire lifetime...
i'm not a bad person for them to be obligated to do such things, but i do admit that i can be a little too trusting and naive at times. is that what they're taking advantage of, or is there something else...? why would they do this to me?
also, because these experiences have given me a new perspective on friendships (not to trust people so easily!), how do i know if i can fully trust someone and that they will be a good friend???
hey hun... I'm kind of in the same situation.... that is good you dropped those friends so you don't start acting that way.. As soon as they seen what they have lost with their immaturity they will come running back (hopefully) Yes i am way to trusting and it sounds like you are the same way.. when you meet someone new don't just throw yourself at them, that makes them think that they have complete control over you.. if everytime their with you and they want something, I mean the same thing over and over again.. Their not really true friends. If they come over just to hang out with you and spend time with you and not ask you for money or anything else like that... thats who you know are you true friends... they will stick by you no matter what happens... you will realize when you have a best friend... when you find one don't let him/her slip out of grip becasue that would be the biggest mistake of your life... well good luck hun and I hope everything works out for you if you have ne more questions my email is babygurl_1099@hotmail.com or you can write a question in my inbox
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hey i can't for the love of me figure why we have so many different social relationships. i don't even understand why goths r considered scary i mean i have friends who r goths and they r awsome...help me out!! thnx :)
Thats life hunny... people are gonna be like that until we all grow up and mature and the kids who are kids when we are adults are gonna be doing the same thing... that is just people way of labeling someone... I dont know... I think it's wrong.... i agree 100% with you... but thats how it is gonna be for the rest of our lives..... so hope i helped lots of love
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one of my bestfriends just called me to tell me that like one of my bestesteset friends house is on fire..she knew this because her dad is a firefighter..no one knows where my friend is and im startin to freak out..we're doing the paper together and im hoping shes ok.would it be nosey to drive over there?
Signed,
Freaked out Friend
no it wouldnt be nosy at all t o drive over there she will respect that you care for her and are worried about her... it would be greatly appricaiated from her and her family if you checked up on them... don't really talk to her about the paper right away tho... maybe you could even get your school to start a fundraiser like a hat day or something to raise money so they can get some new things it would help them out a lot thats what my school does
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hey i heard that you are a good person to ask for help. One of your friends told me about you. My Grandma died like 8 months ago. and i have these dreams that every one that i love and know that is going to leave me. and my Boyfriend already has. Then when of my friends staped themself and almost died. See i am kind of a bitch. And i don't what to do cause i don't have much ppl that like me. and i am not sure if i should tell someone about my dream and about my friend i am not sure what to do. Write me back if you can help. 23babygirl23
Hey hun.... I see a counsleor and although some people say it doesnt work.... It actually releives alot to talk to someone about your problems.. for your friend you should talk to someone about that.. because that could go very far, way to far to where we don't want it to go. You need to hang in there, no one will leave you.. your boyfriend.. once he realizes what he's lost he'll coming running back... trust me.
Try saying some positive comments about yourself, you don't sound like a bitch to me. My suggestion to you.. is talk to your mom or dad tell them what is going on and they'll help you.. I am here for you too and you can talk to me whenever you need too.. Well hun I better go... and good luck.... keep writing me. Hang in there
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I have a huge problem. I'm always worrying about something. Like I worry about school, my friends, if I have enough money to buy a gift, a test coming, etc. I never have a moment where I'm not worried. It sucks!!!! Please help me. Thank you.
its called anxiety i have it really bad.... you are gonna soon start having anxiety attacks if you haven't already they are really bad chest pains and it is hard to breath you need to get on some anxiety or depression pills quick talk to your doc.. hope i helped
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Ok, i have a friend that does to much druges and drinks A LOT and she doesn't live inthe same town as me so i can't watch what she puts in her body. And what she drinks. Is there any other why i can tell her that i am afried for her. Michy
All right some of you people are losers for putting that natsy, warped shit..... and I really think your the ones who are on drugs and really need to get a life... anyways is it a problem that michy cares for a friend.. not at all.. Michy all I can tell you is you need to just let her figure it out on her own.. and don't pay attention to these other people. if they knew you and knew you may be likely to do what their telling you to do. they wouldn't say it... if I knew them I would kick their asses. LYLAS
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I have this friend named Heidi, and shes a really fun girl to hang out with. I know she has a rough time at home because her brother and her are really close and when he does pot and crap she gets super mad and cries really bad because he soon before stopped. Her sister also drinks and she has to babysit for her 1 year old neice (sisters baby). By the way the sister is not married. Or w/ the boyfriend w/ the baby anymore. Um, yeah, anyways, i thought that backround info might help, but, she is such an energized person at school and to hang out with. very fun to hang out with. but sometiems most of the time she can be snotty. its her personality. she will be like your a bitch! and stuff as a 'joke' and she knows ALL the swear words possible.. cock sucker pussy licker, bitch, hoe, skank, etc. yeah, so shes realy good at comebacks. anyways, yeah, im the kind of person thats sorta dumb and stuff like slow on things, they call me a total dumb blonde and the most blonde i have is highlights bcuz im a brunette. anyways, yeah, she'll be like ERIN SUCKS shout that when i bowl like the other day, and then she'll randomly hit me and stuff like punch me and then she started hitting me HARD and it hurt im like what r u doing she goes IM BORED im like ummm ok... and the whoel time she was walking around in her tightest jeans and tighest shirt and she has a big butt big boobs shes pretty kinda and idk, she was walking around like she was the king of the world, queen i mean, and she was stickingher chest out and crap. it just annoys me so bad. and she'll make fun of me as a quote joke unquote and shell laff and im like no.... not funny that hurt. but i cant confront her w/ all the stuff she does because this other girl that did she got totally ditched by her and isnt friends w/ her. im in the popular crowd and part of me doesnt want to lose being in there because u know everyone wants to be in it. im in 8th grade by the way, and im sick of her pushing me around. i mean by "ignoring" herpunching me and crap, part of it is just letting her do it and push me aroudn more. idk. my screen name is takemeaway032 on aim. ill give you more info ifyou would like. thanks os muhc, please give advice!!!!! :-\
sit her down and tell her this needs to stop. tel her you know what is goin on with her but it doesn't give her a right to take it out on you.. whatever you do.. DO NOT.. tell her you understand becasue that will make her fly off the handle.. Now for the popular thing I think there a bunch of losers no offense to you.. in my high school we don't even give a crap who thinks there popluar and who are nerds.. I'm friends with everyone..... That is what we call popular.. anyways you need to tell her what she is doing is not a friendship tell her it needs to stop or you two may end up needing a break... hope i helped
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