well, i registered as a user to a penpal website, where you can meet people from other countries. it has been great so far! i have more penpals than i wanted, all from different places. i just started worrying today about one of my penpals... his name is emmanuel, and he is from ghana, africa. i have been talking to him over email for maybe 2-3 weeks. i sent him some pictures of america, like places i've visited and sometimes pictures of me and my friends. i do that with my other penpals and they usually send some pictures themselves.
anyway, the most recent email he sent me (today) asked about a lot of personal information -- like what school i go to, he asked for a picture of my family, what my friends name is, he told me that he desperately wants me to visit him, and he even asked for my postal address. doesn't that sound a little fishy? i mean, i've asked some things about ghana and his culture, but not things like that. he told me in scattered emails that not many people in ghana speak english or even go to school, and i noticed that his english was rather good. i didn't ask him where he learned it from, assuming his mom/dad taught him.
then today, for the heck of it, i typed his full name in on the internet and a few links came up. i went to this one site and it said that he was a 23 year old that stole 2-point-something million cedis (african $) in rice and in 1997. it also said that he was in prison for 3 years. i started worrying over this because of past experiences with meeting people over the internet.
im not sure if i should email him anymore. what should i say to him if i do? what if his name is common in africa, like smith is a common last name in america?
i havent responded to that email he sent me regarding those questions. what should i do?
yeah deffinitally just stop talking to him.
dont risk anything NOT WORTH IT. and you really need to somehow tell the penpal web site place about him maybe get his removed from the program ionno cause if he is a weird as you think you wouldnt want this happening to someone eles.
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Lizzie Gracie and Nermonie are in a big fight. Nermonie and Gracie are on the same side. Nermonie got a hold of Lizzie's diary and photocopied the page that had all the guys she'd love to date on it then made flyers with her biggest secrets and that list and handed them out to everyone in our grade. It didn't stop there. Nermonie and Gracie made a rumor that Lizzie and her sister masterbate together and finger each other. Everytime Lizzie walks down the halls all the guys hold up a finger and say " Hey Liz, we worship you, " or something like " Finger your sister latley? " Its gotten way outta hand. I asked gracie what her deal was, and she said " Nothing, Lizzie didnt do anything. I just dont like her" Lizzie is my best friends, and I wanna help her. She cries everyday, shes sucha strong person, and very sweet to everyone, but with everyone giving her the dirty looks, holding up the fingering sign, talking bad about her to her face she just cant take it.
I wanna know what I should do to help, everynight I called her and she cries to me for hours about what somebody did to her that day. How can I end this, she never did anything. Please help
ID FREGGIN KICK THEIR PUNK BUTS!
alright listen.
you need to take the NERMONIE AND GRACIE aside and be like listen.
[[ KEEP IN MIND YOU NEED TO SPEAK IN A CALM RESPECTABLE VOICE ]]
what yall did and are doing is wrong. that is so kindergarden do yall think what yall did and are doing makes you look cool. honestly. it doesnt it shows that you behave like CHILDREN. you can do and say what yall want but at the end of the day who is the one that looks like the bitcheS?
ionno. just talk to them, and tell them what you think get them to make up convience them they look like children
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I want to become a nicer person and stop judging people and gossiping about them behind their backs. I constantly find myself doing these things even after I promised my self that I wouldn't. I've lost friends because of me being like this, and I want to be someone others can trust and be someone they can call a good friend. Do you guys have any tips on how to become that type of person?
i went through the SAME thing.
what you do is like FIRST right it down.
like on a piece of paper. something like. "i want to be the person who people talk to not about" and like tape it on your wall were youll see it. that way you remind youself.
2nd. instead of telling OTHER people the secrects you hear. write it down in like a dairy. that way your letting it out and no one has to hear! or write down what you think.
3rd. one way you can make sure you dont talk about people. dont let other people talk about other people infront of you. [[ if that makes sense?]] you have to be totally dedicated to becoming the person you want to be. no one likes a blabber mouth or a shit talker.
4th find some1 eles who is EXCATALLY like that. and sorta let it be your motivation. like okay i dont want to end up like that person. and if u cant. Heres one.
this chick at my school. was a MAJOR blabber mouth and talked shit about EVERYONE and all of her friends were two faced to her. like shed tell them stuff and theyd tell the world! not even kidding. everyone was sick of her and didnt want to deal with her shit anymore. so basically now no one likes her. and her only friends are the people who hardly know her enough to say ne thing.
hopes this helps
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This happened about a month ago, but it still bothers me. I was going out with this guy, we'll call him George. I didn't really like him that much, so I broke up with him after a month and a half. He acted like he was so heart broken, he even sent me a text saying "I'm trying to hard not to cry, I love you so much, I'm going to miss you." But later that day he asked out someone who I thought was my best-friend. I didn't find out about it until the next day when he starte rubbing it in my face saying "please don't be mad at me or her" and all this other shit. She tried to hide it from me because she didn't want any drama. I contronted her about it and this big argument erupted ending with her and I not being friends anymore.
To this day he still is staring at me as I pass him in the hall way and freaks out when he see's me outside of school.
She broke up with him 3 weeks later, and I honestly think she was just going out with him to get closer to her ex-boyfriend that just so happens to be his best friend.
It bothers me that someone I thought was my best friend just stabbed me in the back like that, not caring at all.
What should I do to make this stop bothering me?
Sorry if this is kinda confusing..
HONESTLYY.
you should forget both of them
first of all. the guy seems more like a girl than a man anyways. i mean."I'm trying to hard not to cry, I love you so much, I'm going to miss you.".. come on now. GIRLS dont even do that. thats a level of femanemity im not willing to talk about. lol and about the girl. yeah i know it sucks to lose a friend like that but maybe you didnt lose her ya know. i mean IF she really did like him maybe she just didnt want you getting mad at her. andd if she did just use him to get closer to her ex than i mean you cant blaim her. i think you should forget the guy and atleast talk to the girl calm and rashionally. =))
rememberr. chickss be4 dicks.
sorry thats the GAYEST saying in the world but i mean.. work with me here.
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One of my friends has been with her bf for ever it seems like. A few years. Anyway, they are in a tuff spot right now and possibly heading toward a break up.
Ive never been w/ a guy for 2-3 years so Im far from knowing how she feels. All i would like to do is be there for her.
Any suggestions to how I can help w/o butting in to there relationship?
well. a start would be trying to imagen how she feels by putting your self into her situation. picutre like LOSEING ur boyfriend. and a good way to help is just to listen to how she feels and just be there to comfert her and tell her everything is okaying to be okay and it might just not be ment to be. =) you dont have to relate but listen instead.
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my bestfriend lives across the street from me.. well she talks to this guy who is 16 on aim and we are both 13 well hes not a virgin... since shes been talking to him her personality has changed big time. hes smokes pot and drinks all the time and shes starting to act like him. heres the bad thing she sneaks out of her house at 2 a.m and doesnt get back until 5 a.m. well she has done this the last 2 nights and im worried that something bad will happen.. they almost got caught out by the police 2 times.. id this keeps up shes gonna end up getting raped or something by him.. how can i tell her to stop this or something might happen.. any advice will be helpful and most appreciated..
thanks
signed
worried friend
Okay here are two things you can do depending on which you think will work.
1. take her to a place she can escape you and sit her down and tell her i love you but what your doing is dumb dangeriouse and NOT COOL! tell her how you feel and how ur scared for her but also keep saying you love her. ask her if theyre is anything going on at home to make her so re beliouse.
2. Try the nicer aprouch and just sorta keep an eye on here. or start trying to do stuff with her..like if she goes....go with her so u can be like noo dont do that thats gayyy.
3. TELL AN ADULTT OR HER MOM.
i think 1 is good. sometimes they need some1 just to yell at them and try to understand at the same time.
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how do you feel when you think everyone is gaining up on you and is against you for the wrong reasons? and then you have no expressions or reasons to show or tell them how it really is and they just dont quite understand what we are trying to say and yet they are taking it the wrong way? like your best friend doesnt even get what you are trying to say. what should i do that the fact i feel that no one understands what i am trying to say and how i think everyone is against me for the wrong reasons?
miikela says:
make new friends. fuck the old ones. =))
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hey mikela you no who this is.neways im really confused because mi girlfriend of 1 month broke up wit me last week but we got back together, but when i went out wit her for a month i cheated on her wit this other girl.so i broke up wit her and went out wit the girl i cheated on her wit. but now the girl that i cheated on mi girlfriend wit is moving to austin and ill never c her again. and mi old girlfriend hates me but she has every rite to because i cheated on her and i was acting like an ass and she has a new boy friend but iono if i still like her. iono wat to do
miikela says:
(GENERALS WARNING : mikela is in a bad mood and she might be mean or crul. please dont take anything she says TOO seriousely)
If i didnt know who you were. Id say you were a total sleez and you deserve your girlfriend to leave you and you better not go back to you ex and fuck up her relationship cause thats WRONG.
but,
Since i know who you are. I think you should get over you ex. And still try to have a long distance relationship with ur girlfriend if it doesnt work just break it off and find a DIFFERENT girl.
i hope i helped
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ok i have this guy friend...but...HE ACTS LIKE A GIRL! i mean this kidd has hearts and smilies in tha same sentence!....quit frankly...im scared for himm....one of his favorite songs is CATER 2 U!
this is serious!!!
help me AND himm
miikela says:
hmm you sound very worried about your friend. maybe its about time to open your eyes to the truth. GAY PRIDE . its perfectly okay to have a gay friend it doesnt mean anything..i mean besudes the fact hes gay. but it doesnt mean hes a different person. but i heard of some classes you could take with your gay friend. they should help him discover his gayness if he hasnt already
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OHH THANKS YOU OHH SO VERY MUCH!!! :D
miikela says:
your totally welcome.
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how close are we as friends like best friends...?
just friends...?
or what...?
miikela says:
am im suppose to know who u are.
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Okay well one of my friends ALLWAYS wants me to hang out with her and I really don't want to hang out with her that much! What should I do?
miikela says:
Yeah that is a problem. This remindes me of something me and my friend did. She use to have a friend over and id call to ask to hang out and she would make up excusses and evenutally i figured out what was going on. one day i called her up and confronted her and i told her im a big girl and if she had friends over i could handle it and she didnt have to lie to me. I think basically the same thing is going on with yall. All you have to do is be honest and be like "um i really dont feel like hanging out right now" not in a mean way. but just calmly and kindly. shes a big girl shell get over it and as long as you say that she wont take it offencivly either.
i hope i helped. and that is what mikela had to say. =)
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